Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

Last week, my crush and I were txting on the phone. I think he likes me, and I like him, but neither one of us has actually told the other about it. He likes to joke with me and talks about the two of us together. So, this night that we were txting, everything was fine until he made a joke about me (nothing mean about my appearance or anything like that) that got me angry. I told him in a txt message that I deserved more respect than what he had said and that he knew I was not like other girls at school that he could say things like that to. I sent the message to him, but after I did, I realized that it may have sounded a bit harsh; so to lighten it, I added "So ha!" in another message right after it. We kept txting for about another hour or so, but ever since then it's really hard to get him to txt me like he used to. At first I thought he just didn't like me anymore, but at school he still tries to flirt (alot) and be around me. He even knew about my birthday without me telling him.

2007-02-21 09:40:18 · 11 answers · asked by Just my luck..... 1 in Singles & Dating

Can a California minor who is 17 marry his pregnant Californian 25year old girlfriend in Nevada and have it be legal in California? The minors parents are willing to sign the document giving him the right to marry her. Would the female involved be in trouble for statutory rape?

2007-02-21 09:40:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

their women are smoking hot!!! (id LOVE to date/marry one!!) and they're so friendly! they always have our backs in EVERYTHING all the time!!

I LOVE THOSE GUYS! ESPECIALLY the GIRLS! and ESPECIALLY the red headed ones! how can i see my dream of romancing one?!

2007-02-21 09:39:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it ilegal to save pictures on ur computer like from google or yahoo. and tell people that they are you!! i really need 2 know b/c my cousin does this all the time!!

2007-02-21 09:39:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey...its me again. I am at the time conversating with the same guy (I only want answers from those who are up to date with my information) except it is by e-mail...I know for some it is more comfortable to speek by internet instead of seeing that person face to face. I am hoping that he will let me know if he is tired of me asking him questions. I'm expecting that he will find it kind of interesting, but in order to keep it going, do I break grounds this way (by-email). To me I think that it gives him something to look forward to when he comes home from work......he basically rights me as soon as he can/ for me on the other hand I will right him maybe a few hours later. I know that this is redundant in question, I just want to know if I am moving in the right direction or should I give hime some space? I want to know if there are signs that I could pick up on to know if he has interest in me. Why? He seems as if he will not let me know if he is interestd in me. He may need to mellow.

2007-02-21 09:39:40 · 1 answers · asked by yte r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 09:39:26 · 18 answers · asked by JOHN L 1 in Singles & Dating

THERE'S A GIRL DAT I KNOW AND SHE ALWAYS CALLS ME WHEN ANOTHER GIRL(SOPPUSE 2 B LIKE A SISTER 2 HER)ALWAYS MAKES HER MAD OR UPSET BUT THEN SHE ACTS LIKE I DON'T EXISTS UNTIL SHE HAS HER PROBLEMS !!! WAT IS SHE AND HOW DO I KNOW??

2007-02-21 09:39:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What are some quick and easy sandwiches I can make using rye bread that taste reallllly good?

Any suggestions using tomatoes and cheese? So hungry, damn.

2007-02-21 09:39:12 · 7 answers · asked by Christy J 1 in Singles & Dating

My teenage daughter in college gets all defensive about going to college parties and 2 and 3 day trips out of the area. She claims she is not partying and drinking. I am worried because of her defensive behavior when I ask her about this. Her brother got into trouble from the same things and use to sound the same. Is she hiding something or should I let her do whatever she wants like she says she wants. I pay all the college bills, car insurance, car and expense money. Am I to protective or should I let her do whatever she wants? It si very difficult for me being a single parent and also having another girl on her way to college in the fall. Help what should I do?

2007-02-21 09:38:24 · 13 answers · asked by slickone 1 in Family

I think this girl likes me, but i'm not sure. We made eye contact, but we didn't smile. Than next day we made eye contact again and she smile at me. I saw her at lunch siting by herself and I talk to her. She brought up that she has a boyfriend and saids he's doing bad in school and stuff. We talk about other stuff too. So I thought she didn't like me, but when I see her in the halls I always catch her looking at me. So I don't know if she is searching for a new boyfriend or she just wants to be friends. What do you think

2007-02-21 09:38:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so i'm seeing this girl, kinda, shes a stripper and a potterer, so heres the thing..we've been hanging out for the last two weeks or so, she'll come round mine, stay the night and we'll have loads of fun. valentines came along and we dressed up and went for dinner, so i guess its getting more serious. now i know shes not into me cause of mulah, as i've yet to get her anything of any real monetary value to show i've got cash.


heres the down side, she has a guy she wants to 'give a chance' to in thailand, and shes heading off there in about a months time for 6 months or something.

what on earth do i do? do i move on? do i wait around? do i carry on then when she gets back take off where we left off? whats a guy to do?

2007-02-21 09:38:11 · 12 answers · asked by timeforacatnap 2 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone on know how many time you can get married in the state of texas before you have to go to another state? I thought it was 7 times i may be wrong.

2007-02-21 09:37:52 · 4 answers · asked by marcelladdd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i can teel you that it is the biggest turn off and can end a relationship as fast as it began. the nagging is just so horrible. there is nothing like it. it makes you feel like less of a man and is de-masculating. and i think it is sick that a woman want to be "liberated" and strong and independent yet they are the ones who love to nag and "train" there men. i have actualy heard women refer to and make jokes about "training" there man. they think they should be able to train there men like dogs and shape them into the person they want. but then when they finaly get what they want, they realize that the man is so broken and "isnt the man they once loved" and then they move on. ladies if i can just say that all you have to do to be a perfect woman is to make your man feel like a man and respect him. and beleive me he will respect and honor and protect you and. he will do anything if you just make him feel like a man. and if he doesnt give anything back then he's not worth your time.

2007-02-21 09:37:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 09:37:03 · 26 answers · asked by SUNNY 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

3 Things:

Three things in life that, once gone, never come back -
Time
Words
Opportunity

Three things in life that may never be lost -
Peace
Hope
Honesty

Three things in life that are most valuable -
Love
Self-confidence
Friends

Three things in life that are never certain -
Dreams
Success
Fortune

Three things that make a man/woman -
Hard work
Sincerity
Commitment

Three things in life that can destroy a man/woman -
Alcohol
Pride
Anger

One thing that is truly constant -
God

2007-02-21 09:36:58 · 11 answers · asked by |nViNcIbLe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 09:36:25 · 13 answers · asked by laurawynne922 2 in Weddings

why doesn't he want to help me i told him that its important to me...the wedding however is quit a while away

2007-02-21 09:35:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

wands? Just read about it in the news!

2007-02-21 09:35:37 · 6 answers · asked by dianabarff 3 in Singles & Dating

We were split up for a while and after she got married a few weeks ago she just wanted to see if she still had feelings so we had sex 1 last time just for old times sake but she gave me a disease and I want to tell her husband that she did this to me so that if she decides to bare all at least I will be in the clear as he and I have already had a punch up over her ...what do I do

2007-02-21 09:35:25 · 10 answers · asked by need1saymore 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a "friend" whose wife applied for multiple "joint" credit cards and ran them up, he didn't even know they existed until he started investigating due to their divorce. Now he's finding out that she's also got accounts in "her" name with with "his" social security number on them. Some are paid off and others have thousands on the balance. Is there some way to get clear of these fraudulant accounts? Or is stuck because they were "joint" even though the other 1/2 of the "joint" account holder didn't even know they existed? Also, she had him placed on as an authorized user on many others.

2007-02-21 09:34:53 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im goin out with this guy but i like this other guy 2 who should i pick??

2007-02-21 09:34:32 · 10 answers · asked by beauty 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay theres this boy, and i was taking things slow with him, and when i say slow, i mean like as slow as a turtle walking in syrup, lol, but things were good. And the other day, my friend had to go and ask him if he liked me, i really didnt want her too, but she did, and he shrugged his shoulders. I didnt know exactly what that meant, but then he wrote to me saying he wanted to be single for a while, I didnt like him any more at that point, in that kind of way, so i told him the truth, and then he said we should just be friends. But now i like him, and i dont want to "just be friends" I never liked any one as much as i like him, so please help me, and be serious, lol, thanks.

2007-02-21 09:34:14 · 5 answers · asked by XlovehappensX 1 in Singles & Dating

i.e.: I want children. My boyfriend pretty much doesn't, but would be willing to have one with me one day. He doesn't understand the purpose (for men) of having kids. He doesn't dislike them...just doesn't understand them. What are reasons men WANT to have kids?

2007-02-21 09:34:11 · 13 answers · asked by Regan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am looking for a bf but very time i ask a guy out they tell me no that i am to fat for them n that they would not b wit me all cause of ma weight

2007-02-21 09:34:07 · 9 answers · asked by melton_misty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm asking this question cause I'm about 6'7 and have big bulky arms. I dress mostly in black and wear mirrored Versace shades so my eyes are
completely hidden.

I try to dress as menacingly as possible. A cross between a soldier and an evil spirit.

When I walk by couples and I'm alone (especially at nightime), they try and look me in the eye, yet they can't. and the guy seems to be just as frieghtened as the chick. Of course, these people tend to be about a foot and a half shorter than me.

When you are confronted by this situation, what are you thinking?

Some women have an instinct to choose a man for his "protective" qualities - but, if you saw me, you'd know there is no way in hell your man could protect you from me. Especially considering I am well versed in hand to hand combat/weaponry.

2007-02-21 09:34:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I slap my boyfriend when he gets me angry and I call him stupid. I don't really mean it though.He tells me that when I hit him it doesn't hurt!

2007-02-21 09:33:34 · 27 answers · asked by Liberal City 6 in Singles & Dating

I am seeing a lot of women here throwing the term "cheating" around like it was a pentalty flag at a football game. Look .. if I pull out my johnson and plant it in another woman, that's cheating. If I grope another woman's breasts when I am not trying to stop myself from falling over, that's cheating. If I start examining another woman for cavities using my tongue, that's cheating. And that's about it.

Unless I am in initimate physical contact with another woman, I am not cheating on my wife. I don't care if it is looking at photos or movies or watching a stripper in her birthday suit. I don't care if I am flirting with a waitress, dancing with a stranger, or chatting about sex online. It isn't cheating.

If you want to end your marriage over your husband (or wife) engaging in intimate fantasies that don't involve real sexual contact, that is up to you. You may have other women who agree with you, but trying to claim that your husband cheated on you is a cop-out for allowing

2007-02-21 09:32:57 · 14 answers · asked by Martin Pedersen 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I really really love him i'm almost out of highschool in school today he text messaged me and said will you marry me plz i will die for you

2007-02-21 09:32:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OMG I told myself that I would never like him because my best friend went out with him awhile ago, but I can't help it. I really like him and he flirts with me a lot, but last night I told him I liked him and today at school it was really weird for us. I wish I could turn back time. I am also afraid that my bff(his ex) will get mad at me if I tell her I like him. She says she doesn't like him anymore but I don't believe her. And if I ever did go out with him I think she would hate me! The guy I like(my bff guy) also has a gf! Sorry about confusion if you get any. Just read again and try to understand cuz i really want advice!

2007-02-21 09:32:17 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley 4 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for a short period of time and I feel like she grills me when I get home from work with questions like...Where were you? Did you gamble today? She doesn't trust me all the time... I feel like I always have to defend myself when all i do is work hard for my family. I do a lot of projects around th ehouse from building fences,fixing walls,tiling,repairing windows, you name it I can do it. She nags me before the project starts to when it ends. she gets upset about me making a mess and she can't see the good the "outcome" of the project. Everything is negative and I look at the projects Iv'e complted and I think to myelf "what a waste of time what a waste of fighting" I feel like she puts up rode blocks all over the place... There is a lot of tension between us and I'm not staying at our home right now(it's been4 days) we are going to a counsler tomorrow..

I agreed to go but things just aren't the same anymore. My feelings are hurt A LOT but I stll love her. HELP?

2007-02-21 09:32:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce