I really really love him i'm almost out of highschool in school today he text messaged me and said will you marry me plz i will die for you
2007-02-21 09:32:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awww that's so modernly sweet, proposal by text. Listen hun, I text my bf all the time and it is always cute and cuddly sweet, but there is no way in hell I'd marry him at my age, (17) which is really less than a year younger than you, especially by text message! You love him, he loves you, you're so in love you'll be just as much in love in a few years when you're both ready right. Don't potentially throw away the rest of your life because you're afraid of losing him. tbh, i doubt he really wants to marry you deep down, you turned him down when he asked you to move in together, so you hurt his pride a bit, maybe he flt that you didn't love him enough, or you didn't know how crazy he is about you, so he's showing you know by being this crazy. Wait and live you're life the way you want too, don't ever rush yourself, if somethings worth having, it's worth waiting for. God luck huni xx
2007-02-21 09:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... a TEXT message? No woman wants to be proposed that way. How long have you been dating? How old is he? If you dont want to get married then flat out tell him you're not ready for this. You just told him you're not ready to move in then how in the hell are you going to be ready to be engaged. He just has dumb logic. Maybe he's scared you'll leave him when you go off to college. I know my boyfriend was. Tell him if he really loves you - so much that he proposed - then he'll love you enough to wait.
2007-02-21 09:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Laura787 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HMMMMMM sounds scary!!! Ask him if he's joking!!! let him know that marriage is not in ur plans straight out of HS.. let him know that u want to finish college, start a career, live on ur own, have something to call ur own, basically build a life for urself w/out worrying about the stress of marriage, being a wife, having a family just yet or having the responsibility of being a live in GF....
u just became legal, don't ruin ur life by rushing into something that UR not ready for.. there is so much more to life then cooking for some greasy *** bf!!!! Live it and enjoy it...
not only that how many married couples wound up in divorce because they got married straight out of HS and started cheating because they decided they now want to see what else is out there....
if he becomes a stalker, drop him like a bad habit...
2007-02-21 09:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of all the people I've ever met who got married in high school, only one couple is still together.
If you have to resort to asking random people on the internet what they think, I guarantee you that you are not ready. You are ready when he asks you to marry him, and you have absolutely no second thoughts and you shout out YES!
Also... umm... not to offend your bf or anything, but he asked you to marry him over text messaging?!
I'd totally wait if I were you. When you're ready, move in with him and see how it goes. Then, maybe, marriage.
2007-02-21 09:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him go for it. However, if you're not ready to move in, then maybe you should take out a sheet of paper, use one side to put down the pros of getting married and the cons on the other side. Then assign each item a number and add the numbers for each side up and see which one has the bigger number in the end. That may help.
2007-02-21 09:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to move in with him, what makes you think you are ready to get married to him? You do realize that when married, you have to live with the guy? :) Be honest with him--if it would help, sit down with him and a neutral adult whom you both trust. How old is this guy?
Also--if he doesn't care enough to propose to you the right way (sorry, but a text is not a true proposal) does he really care enough about you to take care of you?
2007-02-21 09:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by completenerd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FINSH SCHOOL FIRST!!!! Its amazing how many of my friends from high school dropped out in their senior year due due a boyfriend or girlfriend of theirs. If you have been together long enough and you feel that you want to marry him go for it. I have been with my boyfriend since ninth grade its been 8 years this May, and we're not married. But that is a choice that we made. Talk to your parents. Do what the two of you think is best. Sit down and talk about it with your man, marriage is really nothing but a long term problem if you arnt ready for it.
2007-02-21 09:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO.. you are in high school 1 you don't hae any experience in the real world and havne' t probably had a lot of relationships so you think this is treu love.........
If he really loves you he'll wait until you are ready at least until you are 21 or 22... are you going to college? or getting a job> you need to live alitle before you decide who your marrying ..
2007-02-21 09:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by hanntastic 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready, then DON"T DO IT. It will only lead to disaster not to mention you're only 18. Do you really want to get married right out of high school?? You have some living to do, girl. Tell him if he loves you, he will wait for you.
2007-02-21 09:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by spyhopper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 04:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by balick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋