Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

a lot of questions. And was really nosey. I didnt want to hurt her feelings cause he told me I could still come over if I didnt bring her. I did not ask her to talk to to him, I asked her to just leave it alone, that me and him didn't know each other that well. She was like you guys are wasting time.
She asked him if he liked me and he said I don't know.
What does that mean?

2007-02-13 06:06:08 · 4 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Singles & Dating

Before I got married to my husband, I was raped and had a daughter. My husband then took her in as his own child when she was 2. He signed papers to acknowledge paternity and she is the only father she has ever had. Now that we are divorcing, he does not want to pay any child support. Is this right?

2007-02-13 06:06:03 · 33 answers · asked by ♥ Lady L ♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean actual chocolate...if she pisses you off just eat her up, lol.

2007-02-13 06:05:55 · 3 answers · asked by Miss Interpreted 6 in Singles & Dating

My experience is that once women think of a man as her friend, it's quite difficult for her to switch him over to the lover category.

But many guys think that they can be the girl's friend first, then become lover later on.

Any comments?

2007-02-13 06:05:32 · 6 answers · asked by Slimmy 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have booked our honeymoon to Jamaica and will be going right after our wedding (getting married on the 22nd of September leaving the 24th). I am getting all my stuff booked in my maidan name. The question I have is we were told that I needed to bring our marriage license with? Does it need to be a certified copy or just the one we get after getting married?

2007-02-13 06:05:28 · 6 answers · asked by Butterfly Kisses 2 in Weddings

I just need a lil help, i'm going to be seeing my boyfriend either this week or next and i just need to see which one to pick, i have an outfit my sister-in-law gave me which is a pair of black pants that lace up the pant legs that i can wear with a nice (white) t-shirt, a pair of blue jeans with a blue top or my lepard dress that i can wear. Which would you think?

2007-02-13 06:05:21 · 6 answers · asked by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 in Singles & Dating

Saturday my husband was planning on taking my car to work. I saw that it was low on gas and filled the tank for him. Today he took my car to work again and left me with his car so low on gas that the needle didn't even move off of the bar it rests on. Luckily I got our son to school and managed to make it to the gas station and get gas.

He had mentioned it was low on gas last night but this is ridiculous. I called him to ask him not to do that to me again because it's just so wrong to me on so many levels he said I didn't have a right to be upset since I didn't actually run out of gas. He later replied via email...

"Wow, you are dramatic aren’t you. You really need to stop reading into things so deeply. I just did not feel like stopping at the gas station at the time... I really did not think it was going to be a big deal."

How many of you would have done this instead of taking a few minutes to put gas in the car for your wife?

2007-02-13 06:04:40 · 26 answers · asked by Amada 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a bride on a budget

2007-02-13 06:04:12 · 7 answers · asked by funnyhaha 2 in Weddings

I feel like i'm not attractive anymore! I've talked to him about this cause he felt like I was attracted to him but that's not the case everything in our relationship is going pretty go and we used to have the best sex life ever and we have a ggod one now but I just want more! My problem is I think that it's me! There is no medical issues and I haven't started anything new. I haven't lost intrest in him at all! How can I feel sexy again so that I can retain our wild hot sexy relationship that we once had?

2007-02-13 06:04:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in a relationship with this boy and he tells me he loves me too but im just not sure. he is in control pretty much but he lets me do what i have to do. i would do anything for him becuase i kno he would do the same. when i got caught stealing he got me out of it. he is the reason why i smile and laugh but he confuses me..he will comment on other girls in my face and push me off the to the side when another "pretty" girl comes into veiw. when times like that occur i want to say "its over" but then i remember...he's been wanting air forces and when he finally got the money he boughtme yet another present instead...that's when i want to hold onto him forever but im tired of him putting me down

2007-02-13 06:04:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-13 06:03:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please don't lie or brag. And if you gave your phone number to several men, how would you decide which of them you wish to continue dating?

2007-02-13 06:02:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see her and fall in love allover again, we have same circle of friends ect. She’s not even pretty, I’m the kind of guy who is thoughtful, goes that extra mile just to make someone smile. She can’t even remember my birthday.. what should I do? we were good friends once. i known her 4 yrs... HELP!

2007-02-13 06:02:17 · 3 answers · asked by Im the lost treasure never found 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been knowing this guy for about a year now, we've had a couple of classes together, but none this semester, but he's cool, and we still keep in touch. Now's he asked me out to lunch for valentines day? Do you think that's he just being nice?

2007-02-13 06:02:15 · 10 answers · asked by chi_morena 2 in Singles & Dating

Give me an idea on a story to right

2007-02-13 06:01:24 · 5 answers · asked by Crissiek 1 in Family

Does anyone know of an inexpensive wedding planner i can hire .... or someplace i can go to get ideas myself...

2007-02-13 06:01:14 · 13 answers · asked by summer 2 in Weddings

i am still with my wife of 12yrs but she cheated on me twice. we have a 3yr old so i didn't leave after i found out. we do love each other but we are neither one happy at this point. i don't trust her and that makes it hard to stay with her. i did think we were madly in love when she had her physical affair 6yrs ago(i just found out about that 5 months ago). we weren't that close when she had her emotional affair which she said ended in january(once she knew i was on to her for talking to someone else). i am just hoping and giving her the benefit of the doubt that emotional was all it was. i feel like shes just a mother to my child and my roomate at this point. i just feel like my heart has been ripped out and i don't know what to do because i do love my family. i just don't know if i can ever get my trust back in her. she also acts like she has no remorse or regret about the cheating, she just thinks it should go away. thanks for any help.

2007-02-13 06:01:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, my parents own a really nice law firm , And, I have a really nice house and everything I could possibly want. But, I have tons of friends and i do not know if they like me for me, or my stuff. People are always acting jealous around me, and I HATE it! What should I do?

2007-02-13 06:00:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-13 05:59:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A 16 year old girl dating a 24-25 year old guy. What do you all think of that?

2007-02-13 05:59:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does it mean if your boyfriend started to talk to you about what he is going trough and how he feels about his family problems and then started crying for a long time? for example: he trusts me and he is opening up to me? what else?

2007-02-13 05:59:13 · 7 answers · asked by hamster2482 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married almost 9 years. The first years were great, then things went downhill due to personal tragedies between us. We dealt with our pain seperately, which lead to infedlity on both sides. But we came together again & tried. 5 years later, another heartbreak between us and once again both turn to outsiders for support. Throughout my marriage, i've had other friendships for support in all areas. I guess, leaning on my husband isn't enough for me. There's no physical abuse, but definitely verbal thrown back & forth. When we aren't fighting (fighting has been daily since the beginning of our marriage) I still feel hurt by many things he says, unintentionally. He tries very hard to be a good husband. More than I give to the marriage. But I'm not allowed to be me. I seem to have just lost my hope in it. Between the knowledge of the dangers of verbal abuse & the way we have not turned to each other during hard timesi find reasons to leave. But we have 3 kids. Help?

2007-02-13 05:58:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know do men really like to celebrate do they want gifts clue me in people ??

2007-02-13 05:57:13 · 11 answers · asked by pleasentlybeautiful 1 in Singles & Dating

I had asked my best friend, Milly, to talk to this guy that i liked (Josh) to see if he if he liked me back, so a week later my other friend Katie tells me that Josh likes Milly. it turns out Milly wasnt really talking to Josh about me, she was really flirting with him, even though she doesnt like him. I no it may sound like in in 7th grade but what do u think I did to her to get her to do something so b*t*hy to me??? I Though she was my best friend??

2007-02-13 05:56:41 · 13 answers · asked by Leah 2 in Friends

I am a 20 yr old black woman...and the majority of the guys that I have been attracted to, since I was old enough to have crushes, have been white....if not all of them. I can´t help who I am attracted to, physically. I have found black men attractive....but it was due to their personalities and nothing else. I haven´t started dating just yet. When and if I do, I will be open to all races but I can´t help but wonder if I will always lean towards dating white men only.

No one knows this about me, only because I have not made it as obvious as some people I know. I know that I am not alone in this type of situation because I have friends that will only date outside of their race. I can´t help but feel like i´m wrong for feeling this way. Anyway, should i continue to hide my feelings or shamelessly bring it out into the open.

I have seen how friends have benefited by sharing this with people....but I have aslo seen them ridiculed for it. Just looking for some decent advice

2007-02-13 05:56:31 · 8 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy I met online for a month. We are both casually seeing other people but are going out for Valentine's Day. I brought up being exclusive and he said that at least for a little while longer he wants to go to dinner, etc. with other girls b/c he got out of a relationship not to long ago. Is there hope for this relationship? What do I do to win him over?

2007-02-13 05:55:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anne 3 in Singles & Dating

im a 18 year old female and im at this training centure to make new friends well the thing is they will all talk to me and be nice and theres these to girls and they just seem to wont to be friends with eachother only.how can i make friends with people at my centure,im been myself and talking to everyone a bit.

2007-02-13 05:55:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

been in so many relationships.. loved many and been loved by many..
but never in my life i felt what ppl call "jealousy" !! and i seriously won't be upset if my boyfriend is having sex right now with someone else!
my ex told me that this is something that pissed him off and for him it was serious.. and he wished i'd atleast fake it!!!


i also (as a kid) never gotten jealous from my younger siblings.. and (as a teenager) in school, i never felt jealous from anyone!

can someone be unable to feel jealousy?? and is it pathological??

2007-02-13 05:55:12 · 2 answers · asked by Deema 4 in Singles & Dating

Everytime we go to make out either I ain't in themode or its at church sum where were we would get caught and if you get caught at church by an adult they get both sets of parents and you have to apoligize(how eva ya spell it) well Help I need anwsers!!!!

2007-02-13 05:55:01 · 6 answers · asked by ~*I lov3 cody*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

when we meat he sayed that he just brekup with his girlfriend so i went out with him and we are to gather now but we live really far from echothr and i dond see him often casue he's teling me that he work's alot and he is busy with work also he leaves the town often for work . and most of th time is on weekend i really dont know what to do .i love him but i think that there is somthing goning on .

2007-02-13 05:54:21 · 15 answers · asked by mayra 1 in Singles & Dating