I Thought She Was My Best Friend????

Question

I had asked my best friend, Milly, to talk to this guy that i liked (Josh) to see if he if he liked me back, so a week later my other friend Katie tells me that Josh likes Milly. it turns out Milly wasnt really talking to Josh about me, she was really flirting with him, even though she doesnt like him. I no it may sound like in in 7th grade but what do u think I did to her to get her to do something so b*t*hy to me??? I Though she was my best friend??

Answer 1

the exact same thing happened to me in the 9th grade with my best friend. after she snagged my crush up she didnt even have enough respect to tell me they were together and the b*tch still thought she was gonna play "friends" with me. lets just say actions speak louder than words. no i didnt whoop her *** cause my momma taught me better than that but she got the message. since that day i dont get down with her in any way shape or form. i wasnt the only friend she lost during our high school years. now she's all alone skanky with children by a man who is doing her like she did her friends.

Answer 2

First of all, don't ever get your best friend to talk to a guy for you on your behalf. This is something that you should've done yourself. Talk to Milly and tell her that what she did really hurt you. She knew perfectly well that you like him and she chose to flirt with him and who knows what else. Take this as a lesson learned and don't get your friends involved in your love life. Guys like girls who come up to them by themselves and start a conversation. As far as Milly is concerned, at least you know who your best friend is. Focus on the most important things in life and don't worry about boys. Your time will come. Good things come to those who wait. Josh will not be the only guy on the planet that you will like. There are plenty of fish in the sea. I hope my advice helps you. Best of luck.

Answer 3

Lesson learned, sweetie. When you like someone, the mature thing to do is talk to him yourself. You never ask another girl talk on your behalf. She may have had good intentions at first, then realized that she liked him also, and of course, he started liking her because she was the one he was talking to. How was he supposed to know you really liked him if you didn't take it upon yourself to approach him yourself. Like I said, lesson learned. Unfortunately, sometimes you have to learn the hard way.

Answer 4

some girls just think about themselves all the time and she is someone i wouldn't consider a best friend. if you want to remain friends with her and play the "we don't let boys get in the middle of our friendship" card then by all means remain friends. however if the friendships not worth saving leave that h/o/e alone and i also she needs to apologize because she knew how you felt about that him

Answer 5

wow... that is mean. Tell her that she's a b*tch if u really think she is. Tell her how ya feel and then try to get the guy to like you again by flirting with him instead of getting someone else to do it for you.

Answer 6

Stay away from females like that. That's why most of my friends are males. Too much drama with women. Drop that trifling wench.

Answer 7

Gurl..the only way to express your love is to just go and speak with Josh..dont let others to speak on behalf of u..its ur love..u need to go. Just go to him..tell ur feelings to him..things will be fine..Dont worry be happy!!!

Answer 8

Sounds like the movie Mean Girls. She definitely likes him.

Answer 9

the same exact thing happened to me when i was in 8th grade. TWICE! but i was stupid it took me til 11th grade to realize that girl was just a ***** and not really my friend. drop her now, she is a *****. you probly didnt do anyhting, some girls are just like that.

Answer 10

girls are mean to each other... Watch the movie "Mean Girls". There is no reason why they are mean to each other... Don't let it bother you. Show her you are the better person and that you can find other friends else where.