been in so many relationships.. loved many and been loved by many..
but never in my life i felt what ppl call "jealousy" !! and i seriously won't be upset if my boyfriend is having sex right now with someone else!
my ex told me that this is something that pissed him off and for him it was serious.. and he wished i'd atleast fake it!!!
i also (as a kid) never gotten jealous from my younger siblings.. and (as a teenager) in school, i never felt jealous from anyone!
can someone be unable to feel jealousy?? and is it pathological??
2007-02-13 05:55:12 · 2 answers · asked by Deema 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, jealousy is born of insecurity. My ex and I would swing, and I was never at all jealous when we did, because I was secure in my position with her. Only later when I found out she was cheating on me did I feel upset, but I don't think it was jealousy, it was a sense of betrayal and being fooled that upset me.
Look at it this way, you know some people who are less jealous,some people who are extremely jealous right? So what if you're at the lower end of the scale, thats an excellent thing really. If he's upset you're not jealous, he's obviously insecure himself.
2007-02-15 10:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by badbadboy6979 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope you'll be able to feel jealousy one day... when your love for your partner will be real, you will not want him to give to somebody else what he gives to you... plus, a little bit of jealousy (not extreme of course) is also a way to make your partner feel unique, not just one on a list...
good luck
2007-02-20 05:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋