I've been knowing this guy for about a year now, we've had a couple of classes together, but none this semester, but he's cool, and we still keep in touch. Now's he asked me out to lunch for valentines day? Do you think that's he just being nice?
2007-02-13 06:02:15 · 10 answers · asked by chi_morena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
while this guy may be a nice person to be friends with, why does he choose valentines day to hang out with you? If he knows you are seeing someone then he knows that your man may want to spend valentines with his lady (you) How would you feel if the man you are seeing had lunch with another woman on valentines day would you think it is just an innocent lunch? I would certainly choose another day to have lunch with the nice guy from school. Your intentions towards your friend may be completely innocent but tell him that you will have lunch with him another day. or you can have lunch with him but find out how he rates your friendship I think he may like you on a different level all my male friends do but they try to play it off by being "friends"
2007-02-13 06:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by daintyluva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in holding such as your tale, i might want to assert that she isn't in contact. If I wasn't in contact in a guy or did not like him for some reason, i might want to settle for the valentines without an excellent or negative reaction only because i does no longer opt to interrupt his thoughts. If i did not opt to offend him, he does no longer recognize that i did not like him. also, the reason that she might want to have blushed in the previous or somewhat flirted with you is because she loved the theory that someone replaced into hitting on her, inspite of if more than a number of human beings hit on her. It facilitates strengthen her self-worth. So..if she is ideal you on somewhat, that's particularly only for her benefit to make her experience sturdy. She might want to no longer have an interest in having it pass any further than gentle flirting. So, for this Valentines Day, in case you do not opt to provide a Valentine and get no longer something in go back again, then you shouldn't provide her a valentine. she will be in a position to be getting a large praise from you and also you may want to get no longer something.
2016-11-03 08:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you break off who you are dating with just to go with your new valentine, there is a chance he could be playing you.
Then you will lose your date + the valentine. If you are having a good time with your date, stick with your date. Recommended only to go with your valentine if you are currently unhappy being with them.
Thanks, and good luck!
2007-02-13 06:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're dating someone then I would say NO * you need to decline his offer as Valentines is a special day for the one you love....thats' who you should be spending it with*
Let this guy friend of yours know that you're with someone....but thankyou for the offer.....and perhaps anyother day you could go for a bite to eat for lunch with him as a friend........but he needs to be clear that you have a boyfriend*
2007-02-13 06:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating isn't being engaged or married. Just tell who ever you are dating that you have a lunch date. He might have one to make himself.
2007-02-13 06:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reschedule the lunch for another day. Let him know that you have plans with your sweetie on vday.
2007-02-13 06:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell1688 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is being nice, while trying to get in your pants. If you dont mind cheating on your bf, then go ahead.
2007-02-13 06:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by itzmedbd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He flirts with you and probably a sign that he fancies you. If you do too, go and have a good time.
All the best!
2007-02-13 06:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him,why don t you meet him?may be then you will know if he only tries to be nice!
2007-02-13 06:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by Tymeea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think he likes you.
2007-02-13 06:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by funnyhaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋