Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

I just brokeup with my exboyfriend because he neglected me for some reason, I strongly feel he was cheating because I found proof but I never blamed him, anyway while we were dating this guy asked me out I liked him alot but I didnt want to cheat on him, its wrong right?, Well I had been thinkng about him for a while even before me and my ex brokeup but I tried to surpress my feelings for him, now that we brokup I want to talk to him really bad because I see something so specail about him, I really really want to be with him, can someone give me some advice I still think I have a chance with him even though he is currently dating someone,I dont want to be file but I cant help the feelings that I have for him so can you please help( OH AND PLEASE DONT PUT ANYTHING STUPID AND NASTY BECAUSE IT WILL BE REPORTED)!!!, thanks

2007-02-13 10:16:50 · 11 answers · asked by cleanheart 5 in Singles & Dating

problem is, i don't want to make a fool out of my self

any advice?

2007-02-13 10:16:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl at my school, and shes like in love with me! Seriously! She does everything I do and follows me everywhere! It is so gross! She thinks I like her as her BFF, but I hate her! How do I get her out of my life?!!?!??!

2007-02-13 10:16:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend just died, and i'm really nervous about going to his funeral, as i haven't met any of his family yet. they all know about me, but have never met me, and we havent been together for that long. a few months, but we loved each other. any suggestions on how to make it a little more comfortable, when i meet his family for the first time, without seeming like someone trying to get attention?

2007-02-13 10:15:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he is smart...he is faithful....he is handsome...he is sweet...
he is my heart....well you get the picture...but the problem is I am over weight and depressed, I hate myself!
CAN'T LOVE SOMEONE IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF...IS THAT TRUE OR NOT...DID I DO THE RIGHT THING?

2007-02-13 10:14:53 · 37 answers · asked by La'Grange 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-13 10:14:19 · 6 answers · asked by *TURTLE* 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 10:14:07 · 2 answers · asked by Freakgirl 7 in Family

so i have strong feelings for one guy at my school.last year we've made-out like 3 times & a little of other stuff. but i'm still a virgin!
so last week he took me & my friends to the mall & he made-out w/my friend after he dropped me off at home. i got really mad at my friend, but we are still friends. and she knows i think hes hott & that i like him but she still made-out w/ him.
so this weekend he wants to take us to the mall again. and this time i wana make-out w/ him and make him like me but i dont how to do it...

HELP please???

2007-02-13 10:13:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this girl thats 2 yrs lder than me, im 15 shes 17, she likes me a lot. and wants to go out,but she doesnt know my age, what should i do.... will she still be with me if i tell her, shes graduating next yr, and ill be still in high school as a senior

2007-02-13 10:13:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 10:13:19 · 12 answers · asked by Peanut Butter 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boyfriend and I have been dating him for a while. I like him a lot. But I keep on getting those days where i dont want to have a boyfriend. I just want to be single. I think i feel like he is a little obessed with me but i dont know what to do. Is that something normal?

2007-02-13 10:12:49 · 15 answers · asked by tisthething 1 in Singles & Dating

so...i made him a card, and cookies etc...and since his package to me arrived today, i had to give him that stuff that i had already done forhim today....

i also wrote him a poem...how should i present it to him? as a message in a bottle? any other cute ideas ppl have?

2007-02-13 10:12:07 · 2 answers · asked by Snki55ed Princess 4 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and I think he likes me too. The thing is, my friend likes him too. What do I do if he gets her something and not me? Or vice versa? Or just ignores me? I really want him but don't know what to do. (He doesn't know I like him or my friend likes him)

2007-02-13 10:11:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i saw it on vh1 where she had the green wedding dress and i really want a picture of it but i can't find it anywhere.

2007-02-13 10:11:50 · 4 answers · asked by fluffernutter 1 in Weddings

HI im really shy aroung girls, i cant just walk up to a girl and say hi, ive tyred but dont have the bottle to, i dont know wot to say to them even if i could walk up to them, so can u help me,,

Wot can i say to them
when should a approach them

please help me

P.S im not really good lookin so its hard to find a girl that like me for who i am,

2007-02-13 10:11:01 · 22 answers · asked by me n you 1 in Singles & Dating

It's when the girl asks the guy

dont tell me "just ask him" because that's not fun.

give me a creative idea pleaseee

some of my ideas are:
tp his house with a sign that says "if you gotta go, go with me"
or
blow up balloons with paper in them... one of the papers says "turnabout?" on it and have him pop all the balloons to find it
idk i dont really like those ideas so give me more!!

2007-02-13 10:11:00 · 7 answers · asked by berly102001 2 in Singles & Dating

say the truth plz.............

2007-02-13 10:10:48 · 14 answers · asked by ∴⇒☆❝ ŧħåłĩą ❞☆⇐∴ 2 in Singles & Dating

i've liked this girl at school for about 6 months, and i like her a lot... she found out about me liking her before, and she said she wanted to be just friends, but i thought that was because she liked a different guy, who she soon and went out with and he cheated on her, so there not going out anymore... she is really nice buy shy, and he was a gangster guy. she told one of my friends (a girl) that she missed having a boyfriend and she wanted a nice guy. and i was always nice to her. one of my freinds told her i liked her today, and she told her "i only want to friends". as soon as my friend told me that it just slashed at my heart... and when i walked away it felt like i wasn't even walking.... what can i do? should i not even talk to her at all anymore?

2007-02-13 10:10:41 · 3 answers · asked by piano_man_969 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well during a school dance I was haging out with my friend cause she was sad because this guy she liked hated her.so after an hour or so I fell and broke my foot(im wearing a cast at the moment)so she sat next to me the rest of the dance :) at the end i was able to hope over and buy her a flower she gave me a hug .This is when the dance ended I was about to ask her out but she left and I couldnt run after.Do you think she liked me or just felt bad for me.

2007-02-13 10:10:10 · 6 answers · asked by cody02465 1 in Singles & Dating

yeah, she said she didn't want to be my mother anymore because i was not appreciative of her. we never live together for many years and i never enjoyed living at her home when young child. i was raised by my grandparents but they are dead now. Now my only living relative disowned me....
should I just ignore her and live my life ?
or beg for her forgiveness ?

2007-02-13 10:10:01 · 16 answers · asked by 21 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some answers and anwerers seem much more revealing than others, especially the one who seems a little peeved at something yahoo did.

2007-02-13 10:10:00 · 23 answers · asked by Finbarr D 4 in Friends

i really like this girl from work. She is 14 and a freshman, i am 16 and a sophmore. I only have known her for 2 months, and only talk to her at work. i ask her to go bowling like 3 times but she said she cant. i asked her to go to the sweet heart hop at my school which is this sadurday and she said she would about two weeks ago. then last friday she told my friend she couldnt because she was going to her school dance with someone else in her school.

She doesnt ever come and tell me anything and i always have to start the conversation.

my friend says that she doesnt like me and that is why she isnt going and never talks to me first.

her friend which is really the only person that she talks to at work, they are constantly together says that she really does like me but cant go bowling becasue her mom wont give her a ride home. and that she wants to go to the dance with me but wants to go to her dance, and didnt relize i would go to her dance with her

2007-02-13 10:09:29 · 3 answers · asked by Q-tip H 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 17 year old guy and all girls ever tell me is that I'm "really cute". I've never heard a girl tell me I'm hot. Is it maybe because that makes it sound more like they actually like me but cute just makes it sound like they like your looks?

Today was a perfect example. 3 girls today called me cute but none of them said hot! I was talking to some girl, I walked away and I heard at the last second when she walked away "He's sooo cute isn't he?" to her friend.

Cute makes me sound like a little kid or something.

2007-02-13 10:09:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 10:08:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend and I have been angry at each other for a while, and we just reconciled. But it's only been three days, and I've messed up our friendship again. My friend was talking to someone about something, and I asked to know what they were talking about, now my friend's annoyed at me because according to her "every time I want to tell someone something, Jasper keeps coming."

I think this time around, it's my fault for asking, but we were on good solid ground, and it fell apart.

How can I fix this friendship?

PS - This "Friend" is a woman

2007-02-13 10:08:54 · 5 answers · asked by Jasper H 2 in Friends

Our schedules would not allow us to meet sooner than 2 weeks from now. I think I should call her to make sure she feels I am interested, but I don't want to come off as insecure. What should I do?

2007-02-13 10:08:53 · 6 answers · asked by midnitewolfer 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend left for Hawaii to see her family for ten days. I think I might be in a co-dependent relationship with her. I am sick to my stomach and I just can't get her out of my head. We have been together for 8 months and we have fallen in love. I love her daughter and her. They have really gave me more meaning than I could imagine. My big problem is that I don't really have any friends or hobbies. I work full time and go to school part time. Sometimes, I don't know why she stays with me. I'm so boring and uninteresting. There are times where she asks me what's wrong because I have bouts of sadness every once in awhile. The last thing in the world that I want to do is bring her down, but I fear that with my bad childhood, my lack of personal relationships, and my sometimes depressing attitude, I am going to bring her down and she is going to leave. Does this relationship seem co-dependent on my part? Advice? Is what I feel normal?

2007-02-13 10:08:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's been divorced from her for six years, and has a daughter with her that is 12years. old, my question is how much does he have to help his ex-wife, if it has nothing to do with their daughter? His ex has no job and everytime is without a boyfriend, calls my boyfriend for help financially or otherwise, I've had enough, what should I do???????

2007-02-13 10:08:28 · 7 answers · asked by cool30mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my Fiancee for a little under 2 years now. Last year we had a blast in the City by the Bay. This year I spurged a little and I got her a really nice 1.5 carat journey necklace, and some sexy underwear/choclate, etc. She forgot to buy me anything, and is working all day tomorrow. and said "Why do you need something from me when you have the love of a woman". - This is not like her. What should I do? call it quits?

2007-02-13 10:07:56 · 19 answers · asked by tystyck82 2 in Singles & Dating

kind of following up from my previous question....
so by making eye contact with this woman, being polite and pleasant as i always try my best to be....and trying to make conversation with her (as we have done as friends for like 2 years)
am i giving her an 'i fancy you' signal? if so...what should i do?

2007-02-13 10:07:25 · 6 answers · asked by wellhungbrummie 1 in Singles & Dating