He's been divorced from her for six years, and has a daughter with her that is 12years. old, my question is how much does he have to help his ex-wife, if it has nothing to do with their daughter? His ex has no job and everytime is without a boyfriend, calls my boyfriend for help financially or otherwise, I've had enough, what should I do???????
2007-02-13 10:08:28 · 7 answers · asked by cool30mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you should leave him too. I know I know you love him but honey I think he still loves his ex. You don't want to get messed up in that.
2007-02-13 10:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by Crazy Train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have news for you Honey--By helping his ex wife -he is also helping his daughter like he should do . She will be in his life alot longer than you will-Date a guy with no kids and when you grow up and have your own child-You'll be whistling a different tune-Let him do the right thing, he needs to take care of his responsibilities like a grown up should.
2007-02-13 10:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by vox179 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in a tough position but you knew that going in due to his daughter. He feels he has to help her even if the situation does not directly include his daughter. Because even if it indirectly involves her he feels he has to cause afterall shes the one caring for his daughter. You need to accept it or move on. A childs welfare always comes 1st !!! Just the way it is. Good luck.
2007-02-13 10:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of all the hard working, good looking, caring, considerate, loving SINGLE guys out there with no baggage, you want to try and build a future with a man who walked out on his wife and daughter??? For God's sakes WHY??????
2007-02-13 10:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably feels guilty about the divorce, and has more to do with the child than u know. have u spoken to him about it? sometimes it isn't good to get involved with someone who has kids from a previous marriage, sometimes we do feel insecure and hurt when we feel an ex is getting more from him than we do. it is a tough situation, where he may have always been this way with her, he may have always helped her out, and that pattern of behavior may be hard to break.
2007-02-13 10:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will only stop when he decides to stop it-try talking to him
2007-02-13 10:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him and shut up
2007-02-13 10:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋