My girlfriend left for Hawaii to see her family for ten days. I think I might be in a co-dependent relationship with her. I am sick to my stomach and I just can't get her out of my head. We have been together for 8 months and we have fallen in love. I love her daughter and her. They have really gave me more meaning than I could imagine. My big problem is that I don't really have any friends or hobbies. I work full time and go to school part time. Sometimes, I don't know why she stays with me. I'm so boring and uninteresting. There are times where she asks me what's wrong because I have bouts of sadness every once in awhile. The last thing in the world that I want to do is bring her down, but I fear that with my bad childhood, my lack of personal relationships, and my sometimes depressing attitude, I am going to bring her down and she is going to leave. Does this relationship seem co-dependent on my part? Advice? Is what I feel normal?
2007-02-13 10:08:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It does seem co-dependent but thats not always a bad thing. It just means that ur girlfriend is ur missing half. Ur complete now that u found her and u feel empty and helpless while shes away. Thats a normal feeling of somebody in love. I have the same type of relationship with my boyfriend. Hes just like u and I would never leave him. But in between ur job and going to school u should think of something special to do for her when she comes back, and spend the rest of the planning it. It will keep u busy doing something nice for somebody u love! Of course u can call her and talk to her all u want but concentrate on planning a wonderful welcome home treat to show her how much u appreciate and care about her and her kids! This will be something interesting in ur life! Have Fun! :-)
2007-02-13 10:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by impression722 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the sake of your relationship, find someone to talk to about this. Use the ten days that she is gone, to work on yourself, so that you can feel better. She loves you, and I know she would support you.
2007-02-13 18:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's love bro. just stay busy, time will go by faster.
2007-02-13 18:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by yaabro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋