Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

I would like to have a churro vendor roll in a cart later in the evening during my reception after cake is served while everyone is dancing, thought it would be a fun concept and get people a little snack.

Any ideas of where i can locate on in or near the monterey ca area?

2007-02-13 10:27:34 · 3 answers · asked by Jessica S 4 in Weddings

My friend is asking me for adivce, but I don't know what to tell her since I never had a boyfriend (parent's rules). She says her boyfriend is flirting and singing a love song to another girl (which I actually saw twice). She asked me what should she do and I said she should confront him. Then, she said when? Any help?

2007-02-13 10:27:06 · 6 answers · asked by <3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This isn't like a totally important question, but i want to ask it and i greatly thank you all for answering it! So... whats on your mind (girls and guys) when you flirt?

EXAMPLE: if you were a guy: the whole time i flirt with a girl, i just think about getting in her pants.

SOMETHING LIKE THAT! THOUGH I HOPE THATS NOT THE ANSWER FOR THE MEN (OR BOYS)!!!

2007-02-13 10:26:32 · 6 answers · asked by Drea 2 in Singles & Dating

OK so, there is this girl that asked me out this weekend and I said no and for some reason I asked my ex what I should to mainly cause I didn't want to hurt her. But if I would have gone out with this girl I would have just ben doing it to make my ex jealous..Though I really don't like this girl should I go out with this her just to make my ex jealous? Or would that be a horrible thing to do?

2007-02-13 10:25:56 · 27 answers · asked by Will 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my close friend are going to the movies tomorrow after school. i like him, and i've talked to him about my feelings before bu he said he wants to stay friends for now, but then when i asked him again, he said he didn't know what was going on. i think i'm slowly getting over him, but i know that if we were together, it would really work out between us. when we hang out tomorrow, do i consider him my valentine? and should i confront him again about my feelings, or make a move on him? ( even though i think it's wrong)

2007-02-13 10:25:48 · 3 answers · asked by lizochkabst 2 in Friends

My girlfriend left for Hawaii to see her family for ten days. I think I might be in a co-dependent relationship with her. I am sick to my stomach and I just can't get her out of my head. We have been together for 8 months and we have fallen in love. I love her daughter and her. They have really gave me more meaning than I could imagine. My big problem is that I don't really have any friends or hobbies. I work full time and go to school part time. Sometimes, I don't know why she stays with me. I'm so boring and uninteresting. There are times where she asks me what's wrong because I have bouts of sadness every once in awhile. The last thing in the world that I want to do is bring her down, but I fear that with my bad childhood, my lack of personal relationships, and my sometimes depressing attitude, I am going to bring her down and she is going to leave. Does this relationship seem co-dependent on my part? Advice? Is what I feel normal?

2007-02-13 10:25:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he used to live in harrisburg,pa and my moms name is lisa she was 16 when she was with him i am 25 now i was born in 1981he does not speak english well and he is vietnamese

2007-02-13 10:25:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So theres this guyy..
in my geography class and I like him
I want to tell him but im kinda scared of rejection.
what do i do?

2007-02-13 10:25:22 · 11 answers · asked by xoMegAnxo 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my close friends had sex today and she is worried about the condom breaking, i suggested the morning after pill but i do not know enough about it to tell her. i was wondering if some one could tell me how bad the effects are, and how long they last. and is there any risk. i'd really like to help her. thank you

2007-02-13 10:24:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just met this guy on Friday and am kind of dating him. He tells me all of these things like how much he wants to be with me and how much he loves me and when he can kiss me.It creeping me out. What should I do?

2007-02-13 10:24:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But he says he likes someone else. I think he likes me tough because he looks at me differently than he used to.I already tried once but I bailed and told him I was joking.Should I try again.

2007-02-13 10:23:41 · 15 answers · asked by tawgirlz 1 in Singles & Dating

I gave my number to a girl about two or three weeks ago and she called me back and left a message last week. I called her and left a message the day after and haven't heard from her since. Should I wait a little longer for her to call again or should I go ahead and call her again. What would I say if I called her back?

2007-02-13 10:23:34 · 11 answers · asked by johnny g. 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in June and we need to plan our honeymoon. Any ideas? We want a place with nice beaches. We are looking into Canada as well. Any suggestions what are nice places to go to Canada?

2007-02-13 10:22:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay, friends.. need some advice. I've been e-mailing with a guy from myspace and I think it's time to talk on the phone and maybe even (yikes) meet in person. He's been wanting to tlak on the phone since the 2nd e-mail -- but I've been drawing ut out, Problem is, when I don't know someone, I do NOT do well on a phone call. What should I talk about? How can I make it feel less like an interview... less painful??

2007-02-13 10:22:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i always hear 'it's about equality between men and women?'. if that'strue, then why is it called 'feminism'?

2007-02-13 10:22:14 · 8 answers · asked by hero0fdahouse 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I still like my ex! I don't know why but I do. He broke up with me b/c he knew that I was going to break up with him because he never talked to me and he wore the same clothes two times in a row!! Plus he's shorter than me!!! No afence to the short people out there! I think that he likes me too because he lied to me and told me that he was going out with someone but I found out he's not going out with anyone. Now I'm all alone for Valentines Day and I'm so jelly because everyone has a boyfriend and my friend Michelle got a $250 ring!omg!!

2007-02-13 10:22:03 · 6 answers · asked by Kela Y 1 in Friends

2007-02-13 10:21:54 · 26 answers · asked by Love finder 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 10:21:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 26 year old man, and there are 2 girls that I really like... both are 21, one is out of college, working, very mature, generous, beautiful, she has everything... but she's from Brazil and sometimes there is a communication gap.. The other one is 21, still in college, really fun, cute, we have a great connection, except we fight a lot and sometimes i think maybe i'm a little bit too mature for her in terms of where I am in my life... When i'm with one i think of the other one, yet the 21 year old one in college is the one i think of when i wake up in the morning, yet i wish she had some of the qualities of the other one, in terms of maturity and generosity! both are equally committed to me... I know I'm messed up haha but i just don't know what to do? do i choose or do i just keep going out with both of them? or do i back off from both! help!!!!

2007-02-13 10:20:53 · 8 answers · asked by Sconeage 2 in Singles & Dating

There could possibly be some royal connection.

2007-02-13 10:19:41 · 3 answers · asked by Faith H 1 in Family

So, my casual on occasion sex partner I met on myspace. I was with him just last week and yesterday noticed his myspace has been changed to in a relationship. I freaked and text him asking if he was in a relationship when we were together. He said yes, then he said no after. I asked him to clarify and I thought it would be with this one chic, even tho he had told me in the begining the duzn't do relationships they just dont work for him. His response...`it is sh@v*nn$. but its the friend thing. Still confused me and he came back with `there was no cheating. her and i r friends. she cant get past the friend thing 2 date.' So, guys what the hell? Think he's in a relationship or not? What do you think he means by `friend thing' how can you be in a relationship with someone if the cant get past friendship to date? How can you be in a relationship if you don't date??? I'm so confused... Help???

2007-02-13 10:19:10 · 4 answers · asked by MassageGoddess 2 in Singles & Dating

I moved in with my bf about 2 months ago. He has a 7 year old son who stays with us every other week. It doesn't exactly drive me crazy, but it is a strain, and I feel absolutely crushed and drained by the end of the week. The weekends are the worst ofcourse, since he's home all day.
Anyway, his parent's are coming to visit this weekend, so he's taking his son for this weekend as well. That means 3 weekends in a row. To make things worse, they're having a "family" get together with the child's mother. I feel I can't go because she doesn't like me, and has some mental problems, so I don't want her freaking out if I show up. To make things even more complicated, he doesn't want me to tell them what I do for a living (it's not illegal or anything. Just due to their personal political beliefs, they might not like it. He thinks I should lie for the weekend so they can "get to know me" before we tell them the truth).
So...how do I get through the weekend?

2007-02-13 10:18:46 · 6 answers · asked by M L 4 in Family

2007-02-13 10:18:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am so in love with my wife that when she is gone or at work I get severe anxiety. How do I overcome this?

2007-02-13 10:18:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. So This boy named Austen is said to like me ALOT. I really like him to... But my friends will be mad at me if I date him. And my parentals will be dissapointed in me also. But I still wanna give him a chance.... What should I do?!?!

2007-02-13 10:18:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would be happy to give her 75% of the proceeds, but with her low income, would only be able to afford a £66k home. We have a £250k house just now. I believe I'd have to pay 20% of my income on child support. Is there a website that gives you loads of detail on this stuff. I want to be fair to her, but to myself as well.

2007-02-13 10:18:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband & I have only been together a few years and ever since we got together I've known he hasn't had a big libido and I've had to live with that. I'm the only one that initiates sex and that was fine with me. I'm now 8 months pregnant and was extremely sick for the first 3 months. Naturally, my husband was a saint and looked after me very well. When I started to get better I thought we should start the sex up again and he said that he got so used to it when I was sick that it didn't bother him. We've only had sex once in the past 8 months and he assures me he's not worried about hurting me or the baby, it's just that sex doesn't preoccupy him. We talk about it a lot and he enjoys the simple things like kissing and hugging and snuggling. He's not an overly sexual person, and I'd like to hear from other guys that don't seem to fit the stereotypical mould of always wanting sex from their wives! Reasons? (And don't say he's GAY!)

2007-02-13 10:17:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Fill in the blanks for me please
Be funny not Corny...

2007-02-13 10:17:38 · 15 answers · asked by Junior R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a six pack instead of flowers..would that do it for you?

Are you looking forward to a nice dinner or just staying home and cuddling in front of a fire place and enjoying each other?

2007-02-13 10:17:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is 14 and she is dating a guy that is 21 and he is my friend too. They say they are in love but i am worried that he is going to go to jail. What do you think they should do?

2007-02-13 10:17:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating