OK so, there is this girl that asked me out this weekend and I said no and for some reason I asked my ex what I should to mainly cause I didn't want to hurt her. But if I would have gone out with this girl I would have just ben doing it to make my ex jealous..Though I really don't like this girl should I go out with this her just to make my ex jealous? Or would that be a horrible thing to do?
2007-02-13 10:25:56 · 27 answers · asked by Will 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everyone just needed some outside opions I knew it was a bad thing to do but like I said needed someone else opions. I'm not guna go out with her. But I should've known better I've been used and I remember what it feels like.
2007-02-13 10:39:46 · update #1
Sounds to me like you know the RIGHT thing to do, but my money says you won't!
2007-02-13 10:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a horrible thing to do. Obviously this girl likes you if she asked you out. Don't hurt this girl just to make your ex jealous. That's just mean!
2007-02-13 10:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by luvbugs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should go out with the girl because in the end you would be hurting two people, your ex girlfriend and the girl that you don't actually like. The feeling of being used is one of the worst.
2007-02-13 10:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Morgan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First problem was having a long distance relationship so for future reference, I would advise not do that. I never understood why anyone would do something as hurtful and selfish as cheat on someone else. He is either so hurt he wants nothing to do with you right now, or he is out at the bar banging every girl he can. If he is young he might not leave you. I sure as hell would have laughed at you and told you off. Do not call him, he will call you when he wants to.
2016-05-24 06:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont like her then you shouldnt go out with her, it wont be any fun for you, and most of the time when a guy tries to make his ex jealous it doesnt work unless you are positive that she still likes you, and if she broke up with you then she probably doesnt and if you broke up with her you only have a chance if it hasnt been very long (i.e. 3ish weeks or less)
2007-02-13 10:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no you shouldn't ask that girl out and YES it's a horrible thing to do. Did you ever stop to think about how the girl your using will feel. That's pretty cruel and selfish of you.
2007-02-13 10:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's a horrible thing to do.
Never use someone. You'll end up hurting more people than you think in the end. This girl is a person with emotions as well, just leave her be if you're even THINKING of that.
2007-02-13 10:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by Slippers 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That would be a crummy thing to do. Why do you care what your ex thinks anyway? Grow up.
Would you want someone to go out with you ONLY to make their ex jealous? Treat others as you want to be treated.
2007-02-13 10:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your X is your X. Why make the X a factor in this.
Yes, it is bad to use someone to make an X jealous.
You haven't gotten over your X if you even have to ask this question.
2007-02-13 10:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Horrible.
2007-02-13 10:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of couse,don't lead her on for your problems.If she really likes you,it would do her better for you to say no than to lead her on,and make her believe you like her too and then you dump her after you've made your ex jealous.It won't help making your ex jealous,move on.Don't cause other people with sorrow just b.c. you are acting like a child,trying to make people jealous
2007-02-13 10:31:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋