I am so in love with my wife that when she is gone or at work I get severe anxiety. How do I overcome this?
2007-02-13 10:18:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-02-13 10:19:13 · update #1
Sounds like you are very co-dependent.
2007-02-13 10:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by tchem75 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not love, it's an unhealthy dependence and obsession. Get counseling so you can learn to be relaxed and happy whether she's around or not...if she were to die or leave you, you'd be in a a terrible state if her just being away from you causes "severe anxiety" now. A healthy adult should NEVER be that dependent on another person.
2007-02-13 10:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-17 08:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know you could suffocate her and possibly destroy your marriage???
Develop a good social circle of friends, find a hobby, take some classes, talk with a marriage counselor.
It is not healthy to be dependent on another person for your happiness. It is not fair to her. Only you can truly make yourself happy. Good luck!
2007-02-13 10:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you need to find something else to occupy your life with besides your wife or you will smother her!! being 'so in love' and 'dependent' on someone are 2 different things. one is hott. and one is not. figure it out.
2007-02-13 10:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something useful and interesting to you with your time like spend time with friends, play a sport etc..
2007-02-13 10:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by Shawnee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretend that ur wife is with u but invisible
2007-02-13 10:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by Packer Fan 101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a mental health specialist...you are past "in love"...you sound like you are on the edge...that is not good...your mental health is unstable...maybe she cannot "breathe"...I hope you take my advice.
2007-02-13 10:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't come controlling you'll lose your wife don't panic every time she is gone unless you think she is cheating
2007-02-17 07:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try drinking... I find scotch leaves me without hangovers
What? Are you kidding? are you Gomer Pyle??? Get over it bud
2007-02-13 10:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋