Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

Ok guys.. been with this girl for 9 years.. basically we've been having trust issues. Never ever in the relationship have I had trust issues before. Recently, she's been deleting text messages, calls, and e-mails, from a guy she says is trying to help her get on the police department.

I've confronted her many, many times, asking all kinds of questions. She assures me nothing is going on, and if she wanted to be with him then she would.

However, she still deletes her calls and messages, and I just don't know anymore. After 9 years, I've given her a lot of trust, I am not controlling but this has been really killin me lately.

So my question, I've confronted her about her maybe cheating... she assures me but I still don't feel right about it.. it's like nothing will be normal again. What should I do now?? Since I already confronted her

2007-02-13 10:06:21 · 3 answers · asked by mike d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been going out with my boyfriend for less than a month, we started going out on January 29th, 2007. We've known each other since we were like 10. And he told me today that he put me as the beneficiary in his life insurance. I really like him and I just wanna know your opinions on this... thanx :)

2007-02-13 10:05:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok guys.. been with this girl for 9 years.. basically we've been having trust issues. Never ever in the relationship have I had trust issues before. Recently, she's been deleting text messages, calls, and e-mails, from a guy she says is trying to help her get on the police department.

I've confronted her many, many times, asking all kinds of questions. She assures me nothing is going on, and if she wanted to be with him then she would.

However, she still deletes her calls and messages, and I just don't know anymore. After 9 years, I've given her a lot of trust, I am not controlling but this has been really killin me lately.

So my question, I've confronted her about her maybe cheating... she assures me but I still don't feel right about it.. it's like nothing will be normal again. What should I do now?? Since I already confronted her

2007-02-13 10:05:46 · 9 answers · asked by mike d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend been dating 6 months, he cheated on me the first month we started dating, he confronted ,i love him to death, and i really want to trust him , how can I trust him? What can he do for me to trust him? we wanna get married next year, but trust is in marriage, i want to trust him, plz help...please thanks alot

2007-02-13 10:05:40 · 23 answers · asked by April w 1 in Singles & Dating

Please give me some advise...i think im jealous =[

2007-02-13 10:04:54 · 9 answers · asked by TaylorBug 1 in Friends

2007-02-13 10:04:50 · 1 answers · asked by mizz_car 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when asked about what personality trait they are turned on by, almost all girls say confidence. but are they really just talking about guys who are confortable with themselves? if that was the case, a lot more guys would be considered attractive. the truth is, girls are attracted to those guys who have an extremely high level of confidence.the level where they feel they are not obligated to respect other people.and the fact that they look for those traits make them as shallow as guys who only look for sexy bodies on women.i mean, lets face it, not any guy can have that level of confidence.usually those are the good looking, talented and popular guys.if i'm not very confident,its not because i woke up one day and decided i wasn't going to be, but because i'm not popular, i'm not a trophy winner at anything, and i'm not really good looking. so when women say they're attracted to 'confidence',they're really saying they're attracted to those things.my question is, how is that not shallow?

2007-02-13 10:04:47 · 4 answers · asked by hero0fdahouse 1 in Singles & Dating

well, im a 13yr old in junior high, and i really really like this grade nine! He always shoots a look back my way, but i don't really, know much about him to go over and start a conversation, i've got the guts. No problem! Any Ideas?!

2007-02-13 10:04:16 · 12 answers · asked by woooolf! 1 in Singles & Dating

its all in opinion. i think if u truely love som1, ull show it any day of the week or year. im wondierng what other ppl think

2007-02-13 10:04:12 · 11 answers · asked by zanoz222 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 8 months pregnant and we broke up 2 weeks ago. He moved out of state to take a job with his DADDY...I have been out buying baby clothes and spending money that I really need to save. I hang out with the girls and family but My mind always drifts back to him. 7 years of memories always flood my brain. He broke up with me because he says we fight too much and I really do want him back but I will not let him now because he has hurt me so much...What else could I do to occupy my time?

2007-02-13 10:04:10 · 8 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why do guys say they love you and they prolly do love you but when they're with their friends they talk lik e "if you get any UH-UH get it on tape!" a guy said that to one of my close guy friends when he was going out with this girl in our class {she eventually found out about it and dumped him b/c his friend said that.} . why do guys to that????

2007-02-13 10:03:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

planned a night out tonight to the pics and for a meal as a surprise for my husband as he's at work tomorrow, his mate phoned and asked himt o go down to his tonight and without even asking me if we were doing anything he went, what should I do!?!

2007-02-13 10:03:10 · 17 answers · asked by MickeyM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, me and my boyfriend have only been goin out for 2 days so far, and hes the kinda person that i think i would loose my virginity to. im just wayyyyy to shy, he wants me to show him my breasts and everything. but im just too shy and my friend is tellin me that there is nothing to be afraid of. well of course, hes not a virgin, but im just really really shy. HELP!

2007-02-13 10:02:18 · 5 answers · asked by Amanda Krystan 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so i was in my science class. And there is this guy named Eric. And yes he has a girlfriend. He sits next to me at this 4 table desk [[science class desks]]. we were watching a quiz movie where we counted points for right answers and all that. But anyway. There are these little cubby like holes underneath and we use them as footrests. And i was like, haha eric i have a footrest and you dont. So he put his foot in there and tried to get mine out so his could go in there. He got my foot out and I went to go put my foot back in and my leg went over his leg, and he just let me stay there and he just acted like himself like there was nothing going on. Was he flirting? and if he was should he? He was also teasing me by taking my pen and hiding it and not giving it back. Lol. And by the way im 14 years old if that makes a difference. Please and answer and IM me on yahoo messenger or on AIM (sn is freckles0728 ) for more details if you want. THANKS!!

2007-02-13 10:01:53 · 13 answers · asked by Shelby 2 in Singles & Dating

For the first time in years I'm in a relationship at this time of year and I'm looking for inspiration. Any Ideas? Thanks.

2007-02-13 10:01:04 · 28 answers · asked by Martin B 3 in Singles & Dating

soo my question is should i replace the one in the basement with the one in the basement..?


there different colors

2007-02-13 10:00:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay. this is confusing.

this guy has a gf from a different school. we called eachother sexy and flirted like that jokingly on IM. i started to like him. I told my friend who told him, and he said "i do like her. but i have a gf." and then that was about 3 weeks ago. i started sitting with them at lunch, and they always bring things up about "us" he gets embarrased, and its cute. now some of my friends are starting to get annoying telling him over and over. i think he might not like me anymore and he may be getting sick of me for this.

confuseddd.

2007-02-13 10:00:46 · 3 answers · asked by Morgan C 1 in Singles & Dating

Something nice please im trying to write a love letter

2007-02-13 10:00:34 · 2 answers · asked by Junior R 1 in Singles & Dating

Trying to find a good theme party for March Madness trip to Vegas. Any suggestions?

2007-02-13 09:59:59 · 9 answers · asked by Tristan 1 in Friends

i have a great boyfriend.. no, not just great.. PERFECT. But I wanna really show how much I love him.. what do I do? and tommorows valentines day.. i dont have my liscense yet..and tommorows going to be a snow day.. any ideas?

2007-02-13 09:59:44 · 6 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-13 09:59:25 · 2 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why does this happen?

I was completely head over heels for my boyfriend about 2 months ago and now I feel like I dont love him like I am supposed to any more....is there any way to fix this?

2007-02-13 09:59:16 · 3 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If I masturbate a lot., will it affect me during sex? Would I last a long time?

2007-02-13 09:58:36 · 20 answers · asked by sikp 1 in Singles & Dating

also any websites i can check out for any ideas on a wedding reception if u know 1 thanks

2007-02-13 09:58:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I mostly hear "Alonzo Mourning". I'm only 6'3" though, but I guess he's not a bad looking guy.

2007-02-13 09:58:34 · 18 answers · asked by S & C 1 in Singles & Dating

So I see this girl like everyday...but then i choke when i come up to her...and when i she comes up to me i have nothing to say... the only time i can talk to her is when im on AIM or wen we are alone...what should i do to get her to start liking me and how do i see if she likes me or not? please answer

2007-02-13 09:58:26 · 8 answers · asked by Steven 2 in Singles & Dating

list at least 5 things a woman can do, say, act, whatever to turn you on.

2007-02-13 09:58:18 · 3 answers · asked by 938439 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been there for guys when they are going through things in their lives. It doesn't matter what the problem is. It's funny now, I am single, I am a single mother of one and I work hard as hell. I find it funny that guys I meet, don't want to contribute. Then they get an attitude when I cut them off. I explain to them that I need someone to help me progress. I can't understand why guys always say they want a woman to want them and not for what they have.....well guys why do you run scared when it's time to be there for someone else?

2007-02-13 09:58:02 · 3 answers · asked by nobodybetta_99 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so tomorrow is Valentine's day, and also my bf and mines 6 month anniversery. Only problem is, he is is France visiting his family. It was very sad for both of us, but he had to go. He left Sunday and will be gone until this Sunday. We still talk via email/ IM/ the phone. But its still not the same with out him. I was still trying to think of some things i could do to show him my love even though hes a few thousand miles away. Maybe a really long email about how I really love him, and maybe a poem or our song lyrics or something along the lines of that. Anything, any Idea or something that would be nice please. I just want to show him I'm still thinking about him and I care this valentines day even though we are so far apart. thanks
Jessica Millford

2007-02-13 09:57:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-13 09:57:16 · 4 answers · asked by Wanna_b_with_u...<3 ~KALA 2 in Singles & Dating