Please give me some advise...i think im jealous =[
2007-02-13 10:04:54 · 9 answers · asked by TaylorBug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She Already Knows...
2007-02-13 10:19:01 · update #1
since she knows I think that's pretty shallow. when it comes to BEST friends it's different. it isn't some friend that you talk to once in a while that wouldn't know you liked him. you need to talk to her cause she shouldn't be treating you this way. just say: I told you I liked him and now you're dating him. even though I would never let a boy ruin our friendship it upsets me.
she needs to know how you feel. whatever you do...don't let this boy ruin the friendship cause I'm betting he ain't worth it.
~friends forever*boys whatever~
2007-02-13 10:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dose your friend know that you have a crush on who she's dateing? if so then i would say that she is not a very good friend fro you do not date someone that your friend has a crush on or is in love with Friends come before a guy or a gal cause loves come and go but your friends are suppose to be there for you forever. if she doesn't know about the crush then tell her for honesty is alway's the best in any relationship and then find someone else to crush on for he's taken and you don't want to come between the two of them and their relationship fort then you'd be the one not being a very good friend. Good Luck and i hope everything works out the best for all of you.
2007-02-13 18:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have probably heard the saying. "All is fair in love and war." By your own admission you have conceded that the guy is your biggest crush. Well, if I were you best friend I would not take that to mean that the guy was out of bounds for me. People have crushes on people they have no right to, its more in the mind sort of thing...like having a crush on married teachers, friends spouses, actors etc. you see. So I feel she really has a right to date the guy and now the onus is on you to back off in the name of friendship. Of course you could play the "All is fair in love and war" tune and go for him yourself. Anyways it won't hurt to talk it over with her and take it from there. I suggest you back off she was there first.
2007-02-14 02:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a distance between them.
You had crush she knew it, she jumped the gun and is dating, it takes two to date so be glad that you were spared and enjoy your youth, study hard, play some there is time for every thing.
When you are 25 and over this crush, try this site.
http://www.shaadi.com/
2007-02-13 18:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't know that you like him, too, then you might want to wait it out. I know it's tough not to be jealous, but you've got to try!!! If she knows that you like him and she's dating him anyway, then you two have to have a serious talk. No boy should come between you and your best friend!!!
2007-02-13 18:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very tough situation. U got to hurry n let ur friend know that how crazily u like that person. Else.. u can't help ur self. Good luck!
2007-02-13 18:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know thats just a crush. just chill but make sure you reach ur love in the rt time....crushes just vanish..don waste ur energy thinking about that and i am tellin u outta experience, you will find a better person.
2007-02-17 10:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by snaptestpallavi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you wish he was with you and watch his reaction. If you hook up with this guy, you'll lose your friend, you know that, don't you?
2007-02-13 19:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away
2007-02-13 18:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋