Ok guys.. been with this girl for 9 years.. basically we've been having trust issues. Never ever in the relationship have I had trust issues before. Recently, she's been deleting text messages, calls, and e-mails, from a guy she says is trying to help her get on the police department.
I've confronted her many, many times, asking all kinds of questions. She assures me nothing is going on, and if she wanted to be with him then she would.
However, she still deletes her calls and messages, and I just don't know anymore. After 9 years, I've given her a lot of trust, I am not controlling but this has been really killin me lately.
So my question, I've confronted her about her maybe cheating... she assures me but I still don't feel right about it.. it's like nothing will be normal again. What should I do now?? Since I already confronted her
2007-02-13 10:06:21 · 3 answers · asked by mike d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She's cheating... There's no reason to delete her messages and phone calls. She's avoiding being busted... I am not sure how you are going to deal with it. I'd say keep an eye on her to completely have her busted... I know spying sucks, but remember, dude, you suspected something strange which requires your attention...
2007-02-13 10:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take It from a real player . dude she is playing you like a piano all eighty eight key You ether play or get played I know it hurt bro but you need to let it go.listen to your feeling . Now what if it was the other way around and she saw you deleting messages how would she feel . and If they are nothing why can't won't she let you read them hummmm . you getting played bail out before it hurt any deeper
2007-02-13 18:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by The man behind the mic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't i answer this question already?
2007-02-13 18:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋