I've been there for guys when they are going through things in their lives. It doesn't matter what the problem is. It's funny now, I am single, I am a single mother of one and I work hard as hell. I find it funny that guys I meet, don't want to contribute. Then they get an attitude when I cut them off. I explain to them that I need someone to help me progress. I can't understand why guys always say they want a woman to want them and not for what they have.....well guys why do you run scared when it's time to be there for someone else?
2007-02-13 09:58:02 · 3 answers · asked by nobodybetta_99 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And to those who can't read between the lines I take of of my own child...Don't need anybody to play daddy but will not give my time of day to a guy who doesn't want to do anything other than have sex. Sorry for having standards. If you could answer the question that would be nice.
2007-02-13 10:37:14 · update #1
Sounds like they want the milk, but not BUY the cow....
You've heard that before I'm sure.....
And you want them to help you Progress?
When did it become their responsibility? I thought that was your's.
When it comes down to it, guys KNOW how to save money, and women don't.
Does your child's father provide for your child's welfare? Why not? What do you mean you don't want him in your kid's life? Did you ever ask your kid?
(I'll bet I nailed that one)
You want a guy that stands by you, stop standing on his feet.
And finally, now that you've heard the truth...you gonna take me for a ride on your Menstrual Cycle?
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2007-02-13 12:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by reggieman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you have issues with the types of me YOU are attracted to. Not all guys are like this. If you weren't attracted to these guys then you wouldn't be making yourself available to them to begin with. Also what are you expecting them to "contribute"? Are you expecting them to pitch in and help you take care of YOUR responsiblity (your child) If so, well I can't say as I would blame a guy for going in the other direction. Your child is just that...YOUR child, YOUR responsibility. It isn't right to expect a guy to "pitch in" and play daddy when he isn't prepared to do so or before the relationship has gotten off of the ground. Sounds to me as if you're desperatly seeking a "daddy" fo your son and because guys balk at that issue you jump all over them.
2007-02-13 10:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there all using you, there in it for the nooky, not the relationship
2007-02-13 10:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mindy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋