Out of the blue (in my eyes), things started going downhill. I thought we had an amazing relationship (including our families - and even he would say so!) until he exploded back in Sept,saying he needed a break. (ps - depressed and bipolar). I suspected an affair, but he brainwashed me into thinking the problems we were having were all bc of me.I know I am not perfect,but I vowed to work on my insecurities to strengthen our relationship. We have been together for 11 years,married for 3,and have a beautiful 10 month old. I did everything I could to fix things. He decided he wanted a divorce in December,yet I still wanted things to work because I am truely in love with him. I haven't been able to let go, but I know I have to now.I caught him this weekend in a hotel with her. I KNOW I have to get over this to move on,even though I still love him.I asked him to leave so that I can move on,but he won't bc of our daughter. There is still a part of me that doesn't want to lose him??? Help!
2007-02-13
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