I've been with my Fiancee for a little under 2 years now. Last year we had a blast in the City by the Bay. This year I spurged a little and I got her a really nice 1.5 carat journey necklace, and some sexy underwear/choclate, etc. She forgot to buy me anything, and is working all day tomorrow. and said "Why do you need something from me when you have the love of a woman". - This is not like her. What should I do? call it quits?
2007-02-13 10:07:56 · 19 answers · asked by tystyck82 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no to start with it is a hallmark holiday. also she might be pulling your leg and v-day is not until tomorrow
2007-02-13 10:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by itititit4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until tomorrow cause she may be she will surprise you sometime soon, or she has no money, or just try to talk to her to find out if she's mad at you.
I remember that one time my ex (there is a reason why he's my ex) bought me a nice watch and then I didn't have money so I bought him a shirt and couple of boxers from Express from men (old "Structure"). He went nuts saying that I was cheap, that I had given him a piece of sh** gifts, and he went on and on.....I remember saying to myself to break up with him cause I felt like he was shallow and materialistic and didn't deserve me. many times I don't get anything from the gifts i give, and it's ok cause I give from my heart and not expecting anything in return.
2007-02-13 10:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you so shallow that you are willing to break up with your fiancee because she forgot to buy you a gift!!??!! I say you dont deserve her!! And furthermore she's probbably very embarrased that she forgot to get you anything a nd just said that becaus e she is sorry and embarrased and trying to make it not seem like such a big Deal! And it's NOT a big deal!! you need to chill!
2007-02-13 10:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares. Vday is just a made up holiday for women to get gifts. Your woman got her gift, so she is happy, do you still need a box of chocolates to feel good about the day?
2007-02-13 10:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by answerman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything .... yet anyway. V-Day is not here yet and maybe she has a wonderful surprise in store for you. She could just be telling you that to get your mind off it and surprise you later. I've always said, why worry about something that hasn't happened yet?
She loves you...give her time.
2007-02-13 10:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Betty Boop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't experience undesirable my husband did not get me some thing both. and that i'm a touch disappointed. i does no longer bypass overboard and get too indignant yet i'd make a sarcastic remark. I informed my husband - you're SO LAME for no longer getting me some thing and moved on. He feels undesirable.
2016-12-04 03:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by boshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't call it quits, it's not nice, it hurts, but it's only valentine's day. I never got anything last year and I was 8 months pregnant = ( ....Sayin that, yeah! dump her, I'm getting all mad now!! lol
2007-02-13 10:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seriously considering tossing away a relationship because your gf didn't get you a present on some over-commercialized holiday, then y'all don't have any kind of relationship worth having anyway.
2007-02-13 10:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no.
forgive and forget.
unless she starts acting strange otherwise, dont worry too much about it. she may have a lot on her mind. she probably feels bad about it too, so dont rub it in or dump her because of it. If things dont come around soon, then have a talk to her about whats wrong. but most likely it just slipped her mind.
2007-02-13 10:11:30 · answer #9 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,it looks like you two need to talk.You must not have the love a woman if she'snot showing you.Follow you heart & if you think she really doesn't care about you,leave her.
2007-02-13 10:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try letting her know that VD is important to you and how she made you feel by what she said...see how she reacts
Also, it is not VD until tomorrow...she might have a surprise for you that she does not want you to know about
but if not, it is definitely something you need to talk about and get worked out...if you can not work it out, then I would think of calling it quits...if you love her then I think you would try to talk about it first
be cool...
2007-02-13 10:13:06 · answer #11 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋