I really like this guy and I think he likes me too. The thing is, my friend likes him too. What do I do if he gets her something and not me? Or vice versa? Or just ignores me? I really want him but don't know what to do. (He doesn't know I like him or my friend likes him)
2007-02-13 10:11:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to have a talk with him. Since you aren't dating, I wouldn't buy him anything as it might look a little desperate. I would feel out the situation first and see what his feelings are. I know it might be tough, but who knows, it could be the start to a great relationship.
2007-02-13 10:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Morals 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I have this same problem going on. Maybe you should do something for him, like get him a card or candy. If you feel uncomfortable doing that then talk to him about it. And if he gives something to your friend, then you might just have to let him go. Good luck, I really, truly hope everything works out for you! :)
P.S. If you need to know some information about guys, a great book is "For Young Women Only".
2007-02-13 10:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by Vanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should follow on what he does. if he gets you something, try flirting with him-it'll show him you have feelings for him (being honest is always best). if he gets your friend something, you can still try flirting with him but that might end up hurting you in the end. you might have to find someone else to crush on and just stay good friends with this guy
2007-02-13 10:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by lizochkabst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋