Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

Which would you prefer I pour on you?

2007-02-09 04:12:06 · 14 answers · asked by citizenparticular 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Weve been together 5 yrs., and in December he said he wasn't sure if he wanted to be alone or in a relationship.We worked it out, but this has been eating at me everyday since then.Last nite I asked him how long he felt that way- he said since July. He said he didn't say anything cause he's afraid I'll hurt myself, didn't want to deal with the confrontation, and I didn't have any place to go. So, don't you think that everything we shared from June is a lie? And aren't his excuses selfish- and are only to protect him? He doesn't even care for my feelings- right? I told him that I didn't want him to be with me out of pity, and that it was weak of him to let me have sex with him, clean the house, pay half his bills, take care of his kids, buy him things when all the while he felt that way. Otherwise, he was a great person.I don't know what happened. I got up early and had his lunch and breakfast- and I always put his need ahead of mine. i am so hurt

2007-02-09 04:11:50 · 6 answers · asked by daisy d 1 in Singles & Dating

He asked me on january to be his girlfriend and now he confessed to me that he has been praying to God for a long time to find a woman with all the qualities he is looking for to become his wife and that his prayers had been answered and that he dreams, would like to marry me.
He says he hasnt felt this way for a long, long time.
He also wants to wait to have se x until marriage
Do you think this is for real?
How can a man be proposing marriage just by knowing a woman for 4 months?
By the way Im 27

2007-02-09 04:09:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We never met before.
However, We have chat over the phone and exchange photos.
During my birthday, she declare her love for me by sending me a card that she made on her own with poems... Is she for real and what should I do?

2007-02-09 04:08:51 · 14 answers · asked by Del 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting over a crush on a guy at work since he turned out to be a jerk. The only thing is that I want to keep feeling this way. He keeps playing games with me. We're supposed to be ignoring each other, which he last suggested, but he keeps glancing over in my area.

2007-02-09 04:08:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 04:07:51 · 6 answers · asked by Lindsey F 1 in Friends

i need to stop my friends from ruining my relationships there's this guy i really like and want to be with and my freinds are running him off how can i stop this? i'm at the age where i'm ready to settle down and be in a relationship which my friends already have and they still act like this knowing very well they wouldn't want me to do that to them.......my guy he said he cant handle how they are in our business he thinks that i tell them our business when i don't ...they assume stuff and cuss him out, and jump in our business for no reason. it's really childish and he thinks that it will rub off on me i've had so many guys turn me down because of my friends i can't take it anymore.. what should i do? this guy is planning to leave out if town in a few months i don't want to lose him.....they have been in our business so much to where he really wants to leave sooner i'm soo frustrated because i feel he's the one for me .....please i need advice on how to deal with this.....

2007-02-09 04:07:36 · 16 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

but... she wants to put on her profile something along the lines of "if you have had a vasectomy, then don't bother getting in touch".. How can she put this in a nice, but not desperate way.???Time is not on her side and she has already met 2 guys that have had the snip.. she could have saved time by finding out before......

2007-02-09 04:07:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so whats the big about getting older, do you older people can be goodlooking

2007-02-09 04:07:10 · 17 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married w/ a child on the way with my wife and I also have two children(6 and 5) from a previous relationship. The mother of my two children hates my wife, and over the years I have bent to her demands when it comes to visitation. I can only see my children if I stay at the mother's house-they cannot come to the house my wife and I share-simply because their mother doesn't want them there. On top of it, my wife and I live separately-not separated-because I took a job out of town. With my wife pregnant, and me not having resolved the situation w/ visitation of my first two-things are getting really bad. Any advice is welcome. My wife is wonderful to my children,they've never been hurt in here care-it's their mother(and my to some extent)selfishness. How can I have a "normal" family? All I want is for my children and my wife and our new child to be to be as close to a family as possible.

2007-02-09 04:07:02 · 33 answers · asked by Father of two and a half 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you are interested in BEFORE you marry?

2007-02-09 04:06:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you know what I'm talking about, then please answer, especially if you're Indian. But do not answer if you do not know about Indian law and culture. Are Indian women submissive to their husbands (leaving the final decisions to the man), but not obeying him in any illegal acts or acts that would hurt her physically. Do the women consider it alright to divorce a man for adultery, abuse (only physical), and desertion, & will Indian law & culture abide by the wishes of an American husband living in India? Can an American in India keep his Indian bride if he has treated her with kindness according to what I've said previously even if Indian law and culture are opposed to it? Is an American exempt from such restrictions?

2007-02-09 04:06:29 · 3 answers · asked by rorambo7 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-09 04:05:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Can v confide every sercret to our boyfriend do i need a female best friend only or he can be my best friend i think he cnt coz der r certain things u cnt tell ur bf bt ur best friend wat do u think plzz help

2007-02-09 04:05:27 · 40 answers · asked by Shelly 1 in Singles & Dating

If a girl insults you, does that definitly mean she hates you?

2007-02-09 04:05:18 · 14 answers · asked by Mr. Unknown 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 04:04:54 · 10 answers · asked by SANDIE 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do i wait>ever so patiently..for `The One`, when he was stole away from me..Locked-up & im without the key.How do you manage 2 hearts full of pain, for Two years-an not go insane... Would you recomend a Monastary, somewhere in Tibet ~ lose the best love & forget you ever met ? what would you do...

2007-02-09 04:04:48 · 0 answers · asked by hoodwink 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 04:04:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-09 04:03:39 · 6 answers · asked by SANDIE 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend thinks i dont care 4 her n nw she is jus changing like help wat do i tell her she dsnt care 4 me nw i think she does bt dsnt show wat do i do 2 get my same best friend bac...Help plzz

2007-02-09 04:03:22 · 3 answers · asked by Shelly 1 in Friends

me and my ex 3 yr ago we spent 8 great months together e went through so much in those 8 months we learned allot from each other well we broke up because he wanted not to be tied down. Well we didnt talk for two years after we broke up. But hen we did start talking it was so weird we felt just like we did 2 yrs ago (in love) What kind of people still could love each toher that much after not seeing them for so long(we could) well we dated for about 2 more months but it was lond distance and thats not what i wanted it sucked but we were b oth kind of sad . So after 3 or 4 days he got this gf put all ove rhis myspace to make me jealous. its ben about a month and he still writes me and we talk on the fone once ina great while. he says he owuld leave any girl for me in a hearbeat if i moved back to my home town. But i never could leave where im at now i could never leave my family...Do you think were destined??

2007-02-09 04:02:26 · 3 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm 15 years old. i have a sister who's 18 (nearly) and has a 20/80 chance of living, something along those lines anyway....so everyone's still hoping.

i don't know why but it's not hitting me...we were always so close and she's awesome. i'm not upset in any way.....so then i try to think of what it would be like without her, it doesn't upset me...i feel like i'd just live on.

i rather not talk about it but i know i do have friends to talk to about it and teachers and stuff....this is really when i thought "what is wrong with me," cause a teacher asked me to come talk to her and she was cool about it and she was like "so how r u about the situation" and i didn't know what to say, i don't feel anything!!

what's wrong with me?...

, Jenny

p.s. wrong category*

2007-02-09 04:02:07 · 30 answers · asked by Jenny R 1 in Family

I am worrying constantly if I have fallen out of love with my boyfriend and it is making me so sad....Would I be worrying like this if I didnt love him or would I just let him go? Cause I will NOT break up with him!

2007-02-09 04:02:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in a realtionship where i was fully in love with this girl and she just never really felt the same way about me and kind of used me and the more i wanted her to love me.. then became an on and off type of thing, but we're are broken up now, i know this she's no good for me and it's so stupid of me to want to even think of being with her again.. and yet i still lthink about her non-stop and want to know where she is what she's doing, and i'm getting anxiety attacks just think about all these what if situations.. why do i still want to be with someone like this.. i know it's retarded, any similar issues, please give some input...

2007-02-09 04:01:29 · 12 answers · asked by Moto 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 04:00:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 04:00:43 · 7 answers · asked by thugstyle 1 in Singles & Dating

ME AN MY GIRL GOT MAD AT EACH OTHER AN WE BROKE UP . AN NOW HER MOM AN DAD LIED ON ME AN SAID THAT I RAPED HER AN NEVER DID HOW COLUD I MAKE ARE FRIENDSHIP BETTER SHOLUD I TRUST HER OR NOT .

2007-02-09 03:58:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was hiding things about my past to my boyfriend and was lying to him about some sexual things i have done. Nohting really bad but stupid things like if I had my shirt on or off. But i started lying to him at the beginning of the relationship and i would swear to him i was telling the truth. well the reason i did that was because i was so scared that he wouldnt like me becuase he is the best thing to ever happen to me . well then i started slowly telling him the truth ....and then i would promise that there was nothing else because at that time i couldnt think of anything, well now i finally told him everything last night and he doesnt believe me. well that is understandable but i love him so muchand i dont know what to do to prove to him that htis is everything. please help it is an emergency!

2007-02-09 03:58:12 · 16 answers · asked by greendaymgn 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 03:57:54 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-09 03:57:52 · 4 answers · asked by sally m 1 in Singles & Dating