I am worrying constantly if I have fallen out of love with my boyfriend and it is making me so sad....Would I be worrying like this if I didnt love him or would I just let him go? Cause I will NOT break up with him!
2007-02-09 04:02:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Worry doesn't help love, just accept your feelings. Learn how to be comfortable in love and not be jealous or afraid, it is required for a happy life. You can do it, we believe in you. Love can take some emotional discipline to work properly.
2007-02-09 04:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a hard time accepting when people claim that they are "falling out of love". I mean, if you love someone truly, you don't EVER fall out of love. That's the meaning of unconditional love. Surely you understand that the honeymoon stage wears off at some point, but what you have left (or should have) is mature love in that you care deeply about the other person's health and happiness - more than your own. Love is companionship, trust, friendship, etc... It's more than simply butterflies in your stomach and lust.
2007-02-09 12:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dovie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're concerned shows you do love your guy. You need to take a good hard look at your relationship and see what circumstances occurred that might have contributed to your feelings. Then sit with your guy and see where his head is. Chances are your relationship is just getting routine and you need to revive it. Hope it helps. Many blessings.
2007-02-09 12:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there's no more LOVE, what's the use of staying in a relationship? you are committing in a relationship because you love your partner and not the other way around. if you no longer feel the love you had for that guy, let him go. staying for the sake of *wutever* is not the right solution. if you're falling out of love, tell him soon. there's no other way out but to be honest with him. keeping it in yourself it's not just him you're fooling but most of all you, yourself.
2007-02-09 12:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by poochini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. If you don't love him, why fret? If you do - you're not breaking up with him. So what difference does it make? I often think that people who spend this much energy on NOTHING have sad little lives.
2007-02-09 12:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are falling ut of love, it doesnt feel any wrong to do so.. You ll feel indifferent.
2007-02-09 12:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by JENNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋