Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

We've been together for over a year, we are now enaged. I know he loves me and I know that I love him, I just think that maybe I am not the best person for him. Sometimes we seem so different, and I feel so far away from him. I know he has a hard time understanding me and my ways, and I don't exactly make it any easier for him. We talk all the time, but he doesn't always get where I am coming from.

I don't know that i really have a question. But I just don't know if we are right for each other. I am begining to think I might just need to be alone.

2007-02-09 15:01:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay me and this guy.?
okay me and this guy been on and off for like 3 years we met when i was 13 years old.but the reason why we was on and off was because he was cheating and yes i keep on forgiving him over and over again because i loved him.but just like 3months ago we broke up again because of what he was cheating exactly.okay.well how about this fool going to call me out of the blue tuesday and was like im a change man and i love you and i want to be with you and im for real this time and all that kind of stuff.But i'm just curious should i give him another chance or leave him.like we went out like 13 times.But one point i want to forgive him than again i dont.because i been hurt too many times by him.you know.soo whatcha think i shall do in this situation.

2007-02-09 15:00:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I found out that my boyfriend of three years had cheated on me with a woman, but it was a non-physical affair. (I know some people do not refer to that as cheating, but I do.) He met her online and although he did meet her in person twice, most of his interaction with her was via email over a year and half time span. We have decided to try to work things out and stay together, and he has assured me that there is no further contact with her. Here's the problem, though: I am the one who can't let her go. I am constantly looking at her myspace page and her match.com profile. How do I rid myself of this obsession? I constantly compare myself to her and it has done serious damage on my self-esteem...not to mention the damage it is doing to any chances of us successfully getting past this.

2007-02-09 15:00:10 · 19 answers · asked by Mel 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known this guy for ages - we went to primary school together - he and my brother are supposed to be best friends.

I became friends with his sister. But in the last couple of years his sister and i have had our differences. Last year I got to the point where I was fed up with her treating me like a door mat and I told her so. I got told later that night I had pissed everyone in her family off.

Since then I have not heard hide nor hair of my best friend. He won't ring me, email me, message me, or return my messages or phone calls. Is this all because I stood up to his sister and put me first for a change.

He had been telling me that I needed to put me first instead of putting everyone else before me and when I do - it's like he doesn't want to know me.

My brother has had trouble getting in contact with him and my sister-in-law has told him that he needs to contact me or he is going to lose me as a friend. When in fact he has nearly lost all of us.

What should I do??

2007-02-09 14:59:38 · 1 answers · asked by angelicpanda27 3 in Friends

her parent getting a divorce and i dont know what to tell her or say to her to brighten her up can anyone suggest

2007-02-09 14:59:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do? What should I say to him?

2007-02-09 14:59:23 · 12 answers · asked by predawn 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 14:58:37 · 15 answers · asked by Suzie Q 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister is going to be 13 and she is very athletic, my mom turned down my ideas because she thought they were too girly what should i give her??!!

2007-02-09 14:58:14 · 5 answers · asked by Darth Maul 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok soo... i think this 1 guys is pretty hott at my skool... but like i dont know him that well... im the type of person who is tottaly not shy and makes ffriends w/ like every1.. but this guy is like new, and well... i just feel like shy around him.. i dont get it.. im like rele outgoing.. and like whenever i see him.... im soo not.. haha... but yah, tell me wuts going on, haha

2007-02-09 14:58:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But you have to say it in such a way that if the other person doesn't feel the same way, they don't even understand that you said anything. There can be no losing face in this situation cuz it's my work boss.

2007-02-09 14:57:18 · 10 answers · asked by Haiku 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 14:57:17 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like a guy but EVERYTHING I do to see him or get his attention is misconstrued by him for e.g. I come by his workplace in hopes of seeing him but it looks like I'm there cuz I like another guy.That's just 1 example. This has got to mean only 1 thing - bad bad connection & just NOT meant to be?

2007-02-09 14:56:56 · 3 answers · asked by Tree 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance is a truck driver... we are planning on getting a house in Texas in 3 months or so... is it tacky for me to still live with my folks for the time being?

2007-02-09 14:56:33 · 11 answers · asked by IrishGirl719 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-09 14:55:53 · 14 answers · asked by yardie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She brings those things up and my friends make jokes. I love her so much and mean everything I say to her, but its kind of embarassing sometimes. Should I be embarassed?

2007-02-09 14:55:34 · 13 answers · asked by aero 5 in Singles & Dating

I am 16, she is 15. If it was up to my mind; i wouldn't like this girl, because it takes over my life and i can't think of anything else. But it's not my mind, its my HEART that decides if, and who I like. Recently (1-2 weeks ago) I asked her out, she gave me more of an open ended answer. It was a no but she explained how she liked me, but had to get to know me better, and didn't feel like going out. I understand this is usually bs but let me tell you why this MIGHT not be the case. She also told me she wanted to become better friends, and that's all we have become. She has initiated all the conversations between us, flurted even more then before, and has made eye contact frequently. BEFORE i asked her out we were just friends. NOW, (AFTER i asked her out) we are much better friends. What does this mean? What should I do? Does she have interest, or is she trying to be nice. PLEASE give thought into this, the more advice, and info the better. This means so much to me. Thanks a lot!

2007-02-09 14:54:49 · 10 answers · asked by Justin K 1 in Singles & Dating

His new job has him working nights, 7 days a week, so he's gone all night, every night. I work all day so we never see each other, we barely even talk. We have 3 children he also never sees or barely talks to. I'm lonely! I need him but I'm afraid to say anything because he'll get bent out of shape.

2007-02-09 14:54:28 · 10 answers · asked by flow_mj 3 in Marriage & Divorce

One week ago tomorrow I felt that pain. The worst feeling in the world when my boyfriend at the time told me that he never like me. A month and a half of lies. One big lie. Great! I just sat there in his computer chair for like 15 minutes (exaggeration) staring at the wall. I didn't know if what I heard and what he said were the exact same thing. It hurt so much. I didn't want to cry cause get this I didn't want to make him feel bad. I'm way too nice. I just can't take it. I want to yell at him. I want to make him feel the way I felt but I could never do that to anyone. He said he likes me as a person and cares about me.....jeeez that makes me feel a lot better. It just sucks. I hate this feeling. I hate memories. I hate thinking. I hate it. I've never felt worse in my life. Atleast it doesn't seem like it. It just sucks. I can't believe he could do something like that to me. I hope he never feels the way I felt then and how i feel now.

2007-02-09 14:54:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...And if not, what is?

2007-02-09 14:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl invited me to come out with her and a couple of her friends who happened to have boyfriends to a club and we ended up dancing close and holding my hand.

2007-02-09 14:53:50 · 1 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know how I should approach this senior guy. I'm a sophmore (in high school) but he's a friend of a friend. I also have never tallked to him. When I see him in the halls, we make eye contact, but I don't know how I should approach him and start conversation. He's really cute, and he has blushed when I smiled at him, but I just don't know where to begin. I'm really really shy around guys. <3

2007-02-09 14:53:49 · 12 answers · asked by Laura<3 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a bbysitting job and i got fired b/c the kid locked the door and we cldnt get back in. So i told her bout it and now shes telling every1 b/c she is now bbysitting 4 this person. She also keeps rubbing it in. should i b mad?

2007-02-09 14:53:15 · 5 answers · asked by Kc m 1 in Friends

It was said during a breakup.

2007-02-09 14:53:00 · 5 answers · asked by So Sweet 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 14:52:34 · 1 answers · asked by i_dont_know 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I'm an 18 year old guy living in America ... i've kept my self pure and virgin just in the hope that i'll find that special beautiful virgin girl that i dream about every second of my life. But now i'm starting to realize that girls have changed ... i mean i am in my first year in college and i had a huge crush on this indian girl ... and then i found out that she has had sex with so many guys and she parties and everything .... and day by day i hear about other indian girls who have lost their culture .... i am now convinced that there isn't even one virgin indian girl in america .... i'm just hoping than one day i'll go to india and find that special pretty girl that means that whole world to me ... but i'm losing hope ... people tell me that girls in india have also modernized and lost their culture .... am i just wasting my time by staying pure and dreaming about that special pretty girl that doesn't even exist??? .... please someone tell me i'll find that sweet indian girl ..

2007-02-09 14:50:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i cannot decide which one they are both reely sweet and i JUST DONT KNOW!!!!!

2007-02-09 14:50:13 · 8 answers · asked by sillygirl227 3 in Singles & Dating

today at school was so bad. It started off pretty good until lunch. it started when i stop talking to this girl. i dont like her my friends still like her. since last year i have been sitting with the same 2 people. now they have this girl sit with. they will not even talk to me much. so now they are mad at me and i dont know why. also how do i tell them i dont want to be sit with them??? do you think they will be mad at me???

2007-02-09 14:50:05 · 2 answers · asked by t 1 in Singles & Dating

would you? Why or why not?

2007-02-09 14:50:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad's about 52 right now and he has always had an anger problem. When I say anger problem I mean like he always snaps and he gets mad really easily. I thought he had gone passed his midlife crisis couple years ago when he went thru bankruptcy and law suits. Our family has been pretty peaceful after that. But 2 days ago he was ok in the morning and afternoon. And at night he fell asleep in my parents room and all of a sudden he woke up and he just start getting really mad. He start slamming doors and just stop talking to us. He slepted in the living room and he doesn't eat. We don't know what's wrong with him. My mom said they didn't have an argument and she said he told her he's just mad at himself. What is wrong with him? it's been 2 days and he's just so angry at the world or something. He lost his company during the bankruptsy so he's a driver now picking up kids at school so he doesnt have a lot of stress.

2007-02-09 14:50:03 · 10 answers · asked by FiShiE 2 in Family

2007-02-09 14:49:48 · 5 answers · asked by maybsingle4ever 1 in Marriage & Divorce