2007-02-09 14:58:37 · 15 answers · asked by Suzie Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe sex is supposed to be with someone you ove, and bringing you closer would result in sex, not sex result in bringing you closer. sex is suppsoed to be making love with someone you love not just something to do for the wrong reason! but if yu both love each other it doesnt bring you closer but shows your love for each other.
2007-02-09 15:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by smosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with your boyfriend to bring you closer is not the solution. Becoming more comfortable and accepting of each other is what will bring you closer, and to do that, it takes lots of work and time. For example: learning how to work problems out instead of having huge arguments and confiding in each other. Love and sex are two totally different things. If you really love him, don't give him your virginity just yet. You have to be smart and realize that sex will change things... are you willing to risk that? I mean, if you love each other and things are just dandy--you love being with each other, there wouldn't be need for it. I believe that the only time you should be having sex is when you actually wouldn't mind having a baby. The risks of pregnancy happen. A lot more than you really think. There are like millions of babies killed each year from abortion. Abortion is a very ugly thing. If your boyfriend really loved you, he would respect your morals and feelings toward sex and not pressure you to have sex.
Basically, if all the following statements are true, you're ready to have sex.
1. You would take a bullet for your partner.
2. Your partner would take a bullet for you.
3. You are 100% sure your partner would.
4. You feel comfortable with your partner.
5. You get enough attention from your partner.
6. You are comfortable with yourself.
7. You are responsible enough to talk to your parents about having sex.
8. You are not having sex just to be having sex or out of curiosity.
9. You are not having sex in hopes to bring the relationship closer.
10. You are perfectly happy with where the relationship is at.
11. You have already talked to your partner about sex.
12. You have already talked to your partner about what would happen if you got pregnant.
13. You know, without a doubt, that you are ready to have sex.
2007-02-09 15:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mighty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With men, sex would not create more effective charm or connection. If something, it will boost the probability that he will go away. a complication-free mistake many youthful (and frequently older) women human beings make is to trust that sex or perhaps being pregnant and baby-bearing will "cement" a connection that could have not in any respect been meant to exist. pretend! If he's not that attracted to you presently, probability is he received't be that attracted to you after sex. that is in basic terms not often how men artwork. If something, the element that can make you extra beautiful to him is a higher vanity on your area. placed your self first in all issues and in all procedures. Act and be as if any guy may be fortunate to have you ever of their existence. surely get to carry close different men on a delightful foundation. you'd be a great deal surprised how effective it really is once you act like a efficient man or woman. Then others perceive your value too. yet manage it properly! do not become bitchy. in basic terms act efficient and effective. finally, sex is the very staggering you should ever supply a guy. do not supply it up so actual or so affordably. Make him practice he's worth of it.
2016-11-26 20:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by strate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT! Our body is so precious and sex shouldn't be taken lightly. Having sex with your boyfriend will in no way bring you closer. As a matter of fact... it will cause a whole 'nother boat load of problems. Like pregnancy (are you ready to have a baby as a unwed mother) diseases, and just a whole bunch of other crazy stuff. Save it for your husband and you won't regret it.
2007-02-09 15:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sililoquy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you aren't pressured to do so. And then that's still a maybe. Sex can bring a couple to a higher level of togetherness, but only if you both want it...not just him. Make sure you're old enough to know the difference AND take precautions. If you ain't on the pill or he don't wanna wear the balloon, then don't do it.
2007-02-09 15:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend told you that ,he cant be trusted.
And that is not very accurate,I was a teenage boy about twenty years ago,and I can honestly say that usually after the girl gave into me and let me have sex,I was wanting to find a new girlfriend soon after,really we cant be trusted until after our teen years,and you gotta be catious even then.
Sorry most of us are only able to think with one thing at that age and it isnt our brain.
2007-02-09 15:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Sex DOES NOT IMPROVE A BAD RELATIONSHIP OR A SO SO ONE.
IT JUST CONFUSES IT
Could spread disease and result in pregnancy.
A GOOD RELKATIONSHIP IT CAN MAKE BLOM OR NOT MATTER AT ALL.
Sex is supposed to be an expression of LOVE, not a medication or a treatment for a problem.
2007-02-09 15:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by andreamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can if you both really want to do it. If you have sex just for the sake of getting closer to him then probably not. Just don't let him talk you into it.
2007-02-09 15:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by baileybarbblaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you want to become closer with your boyfriend, dont rush into sex, try spending more time together.
2007-02-09 15:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by A H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but the negative consequences that can result from sex with your boyfriend will outweigh any extra closeness. You can be close in other ways.
2007-02-09 15:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋