Should I forget the friendship we had or should I try and get it back?

Question

I have known this guy for ages - we went to primary school together - he and my brother are supposed to be best friends.

I became friends with his sister. But in the last couple of years his sister and i have had our differences. Last year I got to the point where I was fed up with her treating me like a door mat and I told her so. I got told later that night I had pissed everyone in her family off.

Since then I have not heard hide nor hair of my best friend. He won't ring me, email me, message me, or return my messages or phone calls. Is this all because I stood up to his sister and put me first for a change.

He had been telling me that I needed to put me first instead of putting everyone else before me and when I do - it's like he doesn't want to know me.

My brother has had trouble getting in contact with him and my sister-in-law has told him that he needs to contact me or he is going to lose me as a friend. When in fact he has nearly lost all of us.

What should I do??

Answer 1

you know what if they dont want you to be their friends then don't even bother because you are to good. all you did was tell his sister that you are not her doormat.