We've been together for over a year, we are now enaged. I know he loves me and I know that I love him, I just think that maybe I am not the best person for him. Sometimes we seem so different, and I feel so far away from him. I know he has a hard time understanding me and my ways, and I don't exactly make it any easier for him. We talk all the time, but he doesn't always get where I am coming from.
I don't know that i really have a question. But I just don't know if we are right for each other. I am begining to think I might just need to be alone.
2007-02-09 15:01:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why don't you just extend the engagement and talk about this with him more. Explan to him why you are having 2nd thoughts and try to work on this. Good luck!
2007-02-09 15:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking you might be better off alone, then maybe that is what is right for you. It is very hard when you both dont really understand each other, and perhaps that wont get any better. If you feel you need time alone, then have a trial seperation and see how you feel later, and tell him why dont just let him wonder. Its better you take the time for yourself now, than get married and find out later that there was a mistake. Best of luck.
2007-02-09 23:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are having doubts even in the slightest its best to wait, take a step back and relook at the situation. Marriage is a serious commitment and you dont want to get 2-3 years down the road and be miserable because you made the wrong choice. Good Luck
2007-02-09 23:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by redheadwithadditude69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to break off the engagment, just give a little more time before getting married to make sure.
2007-02-09 23:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure about this then either back way off or break it off. If it were me i would break up with him because i would not feel he was the right one for me. Deinitley do not marry him if you do not feel he is the right one for you and at least break off the engagement for now.
2007-02-09 23:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Doubting - Thomas is riding on your shoulder...
When in doubt -- DON'T ( at least for awhile))....give yourself some time to be sure of this life time committment you are looking forward to making. Be careful. Play safe.
2007-02-09 23:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by missellie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any questions about it don't do it. Sounds like you want to be alone, well be alone and live your life. Don't settle for any one but who you know is your true love.
2007-02-09 23:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by aloneathome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me be the first to be real with you!
To the contrary belief opposites DO NOT attract. Would you really want to be married to a person you have nothing in common with? Of course not! Dont you hang out with people you have fun with and understand you? You need to be with someone who you can be friends with first and have things in common with.]
Obviously your instincts telling you this.
2007-02-09 23:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by Diana 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Break it off now. If you aren't 100% sure, why do that to either one of you, you deserve to be with someone that you are sure about, as does your fiance
2007-02-09 23:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋