I am 16, she is 15. If it was up to my mind; i wouldn't like this girl, because it takes over my life and i can't think of anything else. But it's not my mind, its my HEART that decides if, and who I like. Recently (1-2 weeks ago) I asked her out, she gave me more of an open ended answer. It was a no but she explained how she liked me, but had to get to know me better, and didn't feel like going out. I understand this is usually bs but let me tell you why this MIGHT not be the case. She also told me she wanted to become better friends, and that's all we have become. She has initiated all the conversations between us, flurted even more then before, and has made eye contact frequently. BEFORE i asked her out we were just friends. NOW, (AFTER i asked her out) we are much better friends. What does this mean? What should I do? Does she have interest, or is she trying to be nice. PLEASE give thought into this, the more advice, and info the better. This means so much to me. Thanks a lot!
2007-02-09 14:54:49 · 10 answers · asked by Justin K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you're both young...maybe she doesn't want a serious relationship yet. Or she doesn't want to rush things. But it does sound like she likes you alot. I guess she just sees you as a good friend....or she's a big tease.lol
2007-02-09 15:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! Honey. I do feel for you. Teen years are so confusing relationships even more. I'll tell you straight. This Girl is pretty rare. She Respects herself you and your budding Relationship. She's telling you up front, that she wants to have the relationship . She has the sense and maturity to take things slow. If this is going to be a serious relationship , then she's so doing the right thing. If you want to give your hormones quick satisfaction
then this isn't the girl for a quicky.
1. YES. She does like you . thinks alot of you and herself to take things a step at a time. Getting to know you and you to know her. If you only stay at friendship you couldn't ask for a better friend.
2. You'll have a good meaningful relationship, the kissing kind. IF you don't botch it up by moving too fast. You do, You'll lose. Take the time to know her she's very interesting , you could learn such a lot from her if you do.
3. Conversation and interaction, is part of this Girls foreplay romantically speaking. To keep her ,
you 'll have to stimulate her mind and her body both go together.
Good Luck and ciao
2007-02-09 15:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay it sounds like you guys are just both young and probably new at this. She sounds like me when I was in highschool. You asked her out, and she said no because she was scared and didn't actually know what to do. Then she thinks about it and is probably flattered that you asked her. Now she wants to see if it might be possible by getting to know you better. If she is always making the first move, that's a good sign, but relax and go with the flow. Don't be too anxious and don't always be available. If you are busy she will see that and it might turn the tables, making her go crazy for you instead bc now she can't have you at her beck and call. Not that you are, but really just relax and have fun. If she can see that dating is fun and you are relaxed about it, she might be more prone to call it that rather than friendship.
2007-02-09 15:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by shell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just playing games or she doesn't know whether she wants to be friends or not. If I was doing this to a guy, I would probably just be playing hard to get. I think you should just get her alone and ask her what's up. You sure she doesn't have a boyfriend? I think that she may want to be more than friends, but she might not want the hassel of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
2007-02-09 15:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by lizjames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully no longer. that is actual complicated to gauge the seriousness of your question. yet my stance is that if a guy or woman chooses to dismiss the "actual inertia on the person and stifling the the activates of judgment of right and incorrect", than that guy or woman is lazy. Yahoo should not be held to blame. Too a lot of people prefer the coddling of others to make with the aid of existence in at present's society.
2016-09-28 21:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by doolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just a kid. Slow down because you are not going to marry this girl, HELLO! You are 15. Concentrate on school and sports. Dump her and stay sane. Life is too short to get all screwed up. Talk to your parents. Not Yahoo Questions!
2007-02-09 14:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, she likes you. she probably felt the same way about you and didnt know how you felt UNTILL you asked her out. ask her out on a date. be really romantic. this is coming from me, a girl, she probably likes you but is AFRAID that your friendship will be affected if any thing happened.
2007-02-09 15:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by кιяѕтү ;; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consiering the fact that she is only 15 don't expect too much.
you need something else to think about besides this girl.
go out and get a job or something.
2007-02-09 14:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is starting to like you
2007-02-09 14:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by babygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh young love, how sweet.
2007-02-09 14:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋