Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

What would you feel/think about .having your best male friend of years often asking you to stroke and massage his head and feet, or touching your hands a lot, despite the fact he has a girlfriend? Would you do it and feel nothing wrong with it?
How would you feel if your boyfriend was asking this of his female friend?
At the same time as your best male friend asking you to stroke him, what if he told you very often that he wanted to marry you (when drunk) and that he loves you, you're the greatest etc(when sober) and that he would consider breaking up with his girlfriend to go travelling with you. Would you think there was something more than platonic feelings going on between you and him, or that he might have feelings for you, or would you assume he just really loves you as a friend? Would you worry that he wasn't being fair on his girlfriend by behaving this way with you?

2007-02-08 04:52:00 · 20 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that i like, but he has this woman that he is in an on again off again relationship with. i like him, but i don't want to be involved in any drama. we've kissed eachother, but we haven't had sex. what should i do?

2007-02-08 04:51:52 · 5 answers · asked by sexylips 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 04:51:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend was writing me notes saying i dont treat her write.i wrote her one and she told me to never write ti her again. when we got off the bus, she told me to get a life , i came home crying what should i do????

2007-02-08 04:51:13 · 3 answers · asked by christina k 2 in Friends

When my son was about 8 we were visiting my mil. For her birthday we had bought her an elephant ornament. Before she opened it my son told her we had bought her something old, gray and wrinkely just like her

2007-02-08 04:51:07 · 17 answers · asked by unicorn867 3 in Family

even though before they used to be the boys taking your daughter out

2007-02-08 04:50:40 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Only I must make. How do I tell her?

2007-02-08 04:49:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-08 04:49:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I feel that she is the person in my life, and I love her for the person she is, not how she looks. I have met people,but none come close to her. I am afraid that society would frown on us, due to our age gap.

2007-02-08 04:49:30 · 27 answers · asked by Lambada 2 in Singles & Dating

I love this man from America, but neither of us are wealthy. Can someone help us please.

2007-02-08 04:49:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he wants to be committed, he is a very nice person who cares alot about his girlfriend, loves her to death but once she is away (usa) he start having sex with others. he said he really want ts stop but it is very hard for him. he does not love the ones he sleeps with. he always tell her when he does it not proudly he also cries about it saying he wants to changed his way because he do not like hurting her.

2007-02-08 04:48:26 · 25 answers · asked by problem4child 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so, i have this friend who lies alot. like the other day she said that she's had sex with a guy 3 times ( and that guy doesnt even like her). she said that she had to give one of the babies up for adoption (and i know that she's lying about) and the other two she had never had. what can i do to make her stop lying? i know she's lying but she wont stop with the lies. and its starting to get really annoying. i dont know how to tell her that i know she's lying. please help!!!

(by the way she's only 15 and the guy has only been here for 2 and a half years)


(so its impossible for her to have been pregnant 3 times. right?)

2007-02-08 04:47:19 · 17 answers · asked by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 in Friends

2007-02-08 04:46:46 · 3 answers · asked by Baby girl 101 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 04:46:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Cause I am! Problems at work.

2007-02-08 04:45:17 · 2 answers · asked by Celeste P 7 in Friends

for your birthday? A card she designed and made all by herself.

2007-02-08 04:45:16 · 6 answers · asked by ce 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to do something really sexy for Westly hes really sweet and this is our frist Valentine's day together and i want it perfect

2007-02-08 04:44:59 · 22 answers · asked by Brooke_C 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay... So I want to break up with my boyfriend.. Just because things are not the same. But I dont wanna break up with him because I have been with him for a year and ahalf. He is becoming more a friend than a boyfriend. He can tell my mind is other places. His no good with his money.. and his mom just went bankrupt. Mom dosent want me to be with him at all. He steals.. ( mom saw him do it) He lies... and his just really werid sometimes.

But I dont think Im ready to break up with him tho... Im so use to being in a realtionship that I dont know how to flirt... I dont even know if Im pretty anymore.

Thanks for your answers, You can also IM me.

2007-02-08 04:43:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here it is... My Fiance & I have been dating for over a year now. All of a sudden he doesn't want to hang out with me as often, im lucky if I get one or two days a week. This is really bothering me! Is he cheating? Does he want to break up with me? He said he doesn't, but the way he acts is sending off a different message! What should I do. Also, he doesn't do anything for Valentine's day, and I want to do something! Please Help~!

2007-02-08 04:43:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I kick this ****? 10 years and miserable. I hate it. Help

2007-02-08 04:42:42 · 4 answers · asked by porchpup552003 2 in Family

Why do girls hate it when they get cheated on? Is it like a hit to their ego or something? Why is it such a big deal if they get cheated on?

2007-02-08 04:42:35 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This had been on my mind since she mentioned it (of course) .. She tells me that she is fed up with her hair and that she wants to get it cut (buzz or bald). It's supposed to happen this weekend, and I am feeling quite strange.

She has a scalp condition that makes fixing her hair difficult I guess, and she is serious about doing this.

I love her, dont get me wrong. I am just saddened that she wants to do this even though I've told her countless times that she is beautiful to me.

How should I feel, anything I can tell her?

2007-02-08 04:42:15 · 21 answers · asked by VoidEyez 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 04:42:13 · 1 answers · asked by Dustbowl Blues 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 31(going on 32 year old) who has not spoken to my parents for 7 years...(they only know what goes on with me due to me speaking with my sister--six years younger than me--via email).

I am considering speaking with them, since I found a very special girl...yet, I still have that uncomfortable feeling when I think of them.

Growing up, they were more strict with me than my sister, pushing the Jehovah Witness religion 'down my throat'...and being more bullying than parental.

Of course, I wasn't allowed to date, play sports, go out with people my age. I was regulated to my room.

If my father had any issues with the congregation or at his job, he would take it out on me. Moreover, as he began to lose his jobs, he would take money from me getting upset if I didn't have a certain amount.

When my parents left from Long Beach to the Bay, they managed to take all my money (while I didn't have a job) to make their own life.

And the list goes on...

2007-02-08 04:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by anhjoel 3 in Family

2007-02-08 04:41:04 · 22 answers · asked by Mz. Kitkat 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 04:40:51 · 8 answers · asked by cool g 2 in Weddings

I call my girlfriend all kinds of names. Some of the following

Bi***
Ho
Slu*

i also tell her im going to beat her a**.

I dont mean all of it and i say it only when we are playin or having fun conversation.

Is that bad and will it lead to anything later?

i have never laid a hand on her out of anger. and never called her these names while arguing.

2007-02-08 04:40:02 · 5 answers · asked by nickmesa2005 2 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, what makes a man exciting?

the capability to do what? and dont say "love me like ...bahlblahlahlah"

2007-02-08 04:39:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend marc hes really rich but really ugly and nerdy hes 19 and hasnt been laid what should i do to help him?

2007-02-08 04:39:36 · 11 answers · asked by brett h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my dads being gay because i didnt go to school today and i had a stomache virus last night i feell better now n want to go be able to go over my boyfriends house for just a couple hours, i already stayed in all day yesterday to rest. hes saying i cant go out but im 17 almost 18 whats the worst that can happen if i decide to go anyways?

2007-02-08 04:38:58 · 21 answers · asked by xslipknot54x 1 in Family