Okay... So I want to break up with my boyfriend.. Just because things are not the same. But I dont wanna break up with him because I have been with him for a year and ahalf. He is becoming more a friend than a boyfriend. He can tell my mind is other places. His no good with his money.. and his mom just went bankrupt. Mom dosent want me to be with him at all. He steals.. ( mom saw him do it) He lies... and his just really werid sometimes.
But I dont think Im ready to break up with him tho... Im so use to being in a realtionship that I dont know how to flirt... I dont even know if Im pretty anymore.
Thanks for your answers, You can also IM me.
2007-02-08 04:43:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would miss him a lot. You know, Having someone to hold... and kiss. =/
But I want it to be with someone else, but I want it to be him at the sametime!
2007-02-08 04:45:55 · update #1
Sounds like you are only in your current relationship for the sake of being in a relationship not because you love him. Do yourself a favour and break it off so that you can both find happiness other places.
2007-02-08 04:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you are pretty. Do you really want to be with someone who steals and cant control his money ?
Dont stay with him because you have been with him so long. There are plenty of other guys out there. You will be fine being single. The flirting with the guys will all come back to you. Dont make yourself miserable. Follow your heart. Dont think about being lonely, you will meet someone else who you will love. Give it time.
Hope this helps.
ps ..... If he feels more like a friend than a boyfriend then just tell him you want to be friends, that way you can still spend time with him if you want as a friend and only a friend and you options are open to meet other people.But dont let him bring you down the wrong road.
2007-02-08 12:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by country girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you avoid ending this relationship with him the more confusion you will have. You have already lost some of your self esteem in wondering if you are still pretty. He doesn't seem to have done anything more than make you his "huggie toy" and he is stealing and lying. So how can you trust him with your heart? Get away before it destroys you as you really know yourself. Take some time off from relationships and spend some time on YOU! You really are worth it!
2007-02-08 12:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are pretty! I am going though the same thing almost, my husband has changed lately and getting worse by the minete!! I would strongly suggest you break up now before you end up married and unhappy!! Never stay with a man who is this irresponsable!
2007-02-08 12:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay just because your comfortable, it will only make it harder when the inevitable happens. Don't worry about jumping on the dating horse right now, believe me when the right guy comes along you won't have any problem flirting!! And, if he is the right guy he will like you just the way you are.
You'll be fine, just stop waisting your time in a dead end relationship..
2007-02-08 12:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by tonafun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you love him? if you do then dont break up with him just because things are different. Love is weird. It will take yu on a ride that you may not want to be on like going to hell and back. But just stay true and let things work out for the best.
2007-02-08 12:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are only doing both of you no favors by staying together. just tell him that you want to break up, otherwise you will continue to stay in the relationship, and will feel guilty if you think about breaking up, which will cause more problems.
2007-02-08 12:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds worthless and u dont need to be with him if hes stealing. Don't stay in the relatinship for all the wrong reasons. You will regret it. Be yourself and u will meet someone who is worthy of your love.
2007-02-08 12:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by russell6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has just become a habit for you. He lies, he steals... why be with someone like that.
2007-02-08 12:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to stay with a man who steals and lies? You need to rethink your priorities.
2007-02-08 12:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by Groovy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋