This had been on my mind since she mentioned it (of course) .. She tells me that she is fed up with her hair and that she wants to get it cut (buzz or bald). It's supposed to happen this weekend, and I am feeling quite strange.
She has a scalp condition that makes fixing her hair difficult I guess, and she is serious about doing this.
I love her, dont get me wrong. I am just saddened that she wants to do this even though I've told her countless times that she is beautiful to me.
How should I feel, anything I can tell her?
2007-02-08 04:42:15 · 21 answers · asked by VoidEyez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pixie cuts can be very attractive on women. I have always liked women with short hair, it doesn't get in the way and you never hear "Ouch you are on my hair a**hole." Go with, it might be a nice change.
2007-02-08 04:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have apparently made your feelings clear to your girlfriend. I'm glad to know that you will love her no matter what, and I'm sure she understands that.
She has a scalp condition. Cut her some slack. The hair will grow back, and YOU'LL get used to it sooner than you think.
Be supportive tell her you will love her no matter what her decision. After all, it IS HER hair. And it is ONLY hair.
Be glad it's just a scalp condition. What if it was CANCER?!
2007-02-08 04:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by Renee D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first person to answer is right ask her to first find out how to donate the hair to some cancer wig place.
and i suggest that she go to the cancer treatment ward of a hosp and see all the ladies that are bald . i know that they would much prefer to have there hair. but at least she can really see what others look like that are bald.
other then that its kind of wild who knows this might just be a huge turn on for you .
its really up to her so what more could you do.
2007-02-08 04:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes women just face a time in their lives when a drastic change is necessary. Has she been to the doctor about her condition? Has it worked? Is there something else going on in her life, maybe a little bit of depression. I know that when my ex husband left me, I had hair down to my waist. I had it cut off to my shoulders and had the wildest highlights put in. I hated it. Talk to her emotionally, make sure she is okay. IF she is serious, do it together. Talk to her about donating it to Locks of Love. It has to be about 10 inches long. They use it to make natural wigs for cancer patients.
2007-02-08 04:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by firey_cowgirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should feel however you want to feel.
But her hair is her hair, not yours, so she is free to do whatever she wants to do with it. And even more if she has any kind of condition that needs to be taken care of.
If you don’t like short hair (or no hair at all), then just tell her, I’m sure there can be a middle point where you both can be happy. But the final decision is hers, not yours, don’t forget that.
Besides, you never know if you don’t try it. My wife wanted to cut her hair, I didn’t like the idea, but I only told her I like long hair, but to do whatever she wants to do. She cut it short, but with a nice style, and let me tell you, that night we both had a crazy sex episode just cause of her hair, cause we both got exited, me as how good she looked, and her cause she like the fact that I liked her haircut a lot.
You never know if you don’t try… ;)
2007-02-08 04:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by Dan D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 21:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, gee. I don't even like seeing bald on guys, let alone girls.
Could you ask her to keep SOME of it? Buzz isn't great, but it's better than bald.
I've had long hair, and hated how much time and fuss and money it was to take care of it. Now I have short hair, and it's just wash and go.
Her hair, tho, so she gets to choose.
2007-02-08 04:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because of her scalp condition or some strange fad. Maybe she would prefer a wig.
2007-02-10 12:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by Golden Ivy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will just have to stand by her decision to cut it. If it makes her unhappy the way her hair is, then by all means let her do it.
2007-02-08 04:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, hair grows back it is not like she is getting a boob job.
Your girlfriend wants to try something easier for her hair style. Most guys do like their women with longer hair, but in the end it is her hair. She will still be beautiful to you, please reassure her of that.
Good luck.
2007-02-08 04:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋