Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

my boyfriend is jealous of my male friends. When I went out drinking with 2 of my girlfriends & 1 of my best guy friends, he was angry that I was with this guy. He kept trying to one up him since he thinks this guy likes me. He doesnt like me hanging out with him bc of this, but Ive told him I dont have feeling towards this other guy like that so he shouldnt be worried since even if my friend does have feelings for me, nothings going to happen. He is still sore about that (1 mth ago), and now he is rather jealous/angry that I am meeting w/a guy from class to study for tomorrow's test. He thinks its a "study date" since we are meeting @ 7pm, but we're going to be at the library. I think he is overreacting & in my mind it makes me feel like he doesnt trust me. Ive never cheated on him, he has no need to worry. I dont see anything wrong with what I am doing, but he feels that I shouldnt go tonight since it makes him uncomfortable. I love him, but im sick of this. Whats your opinion?

2007-02-08 05:12:35 · 8 answers · asked by kitty10185 3 in Singles & Dating

I trust her but I get jelous and it ends up in arguements and I feel that I'm going to lose her if im not careful. She feels I dont trust her.

2007-02-08 05:12:30 · 9 answers · asked by No Name 1 in Singles & Dating

We`ve been together for almost 4 years now. When we first met that`s what he said and his opinion is still the same. I ask him why he never gives me straightforward answer...

2007-02-08 05:12:16 · 30 answers · asked by Noraaa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband left a year ago because he was involved with another women. Two months ago he left her and a week after that he told me that he wants a divorce. Now he is sending flowers and emailing pictures of the kids and calling to chat. What is up with this? I am seeing someone else, so there will be no bed activity, in or out of one. Have you done this? What gives?

2007-02-08 05:11:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I bet you are, you hater.

p.s. Yes she is good at that. How did you guess?

2007-02-08 05:11:41 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think of the other "race" or other races of people ?
I mean sexually, socially, mentally, etc. What do you think ?
Be candid, provocative, and controversial about it. No holds
barred... Make your opinions known. Best answer wins.

2007-02-08 05:11:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

While chatting with my boyfriend of six months (it was six months sunday although he didn't realize or really care too much about that) I discovered that he didn't know my birthday. I asked a few other questions he should know and discovered he couldn't tell me my middle name, parents names, or the last job I had before grad school. He sets aside a lot of time to spend with me, got me extremely thoughtful Christmas gifts that indicated he'd been paying attention to all of my little likes and dislikes and is otherwise thoughtful. He even took me to meet his parents a few weeks ago. Still, he never takes initiative- meaning taking me out on dates or planning activities. Is he just not that into me? Is the middle/name birthday thing not a big deal?

2007-02-08 05:11:25 · 16 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 05:10:38 · 10 answers · asked by Heather T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well cupid missed it's target and well if it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't. She stopped calling and did not return my calls, I thought about our previous dates trying to remember what I may have said or done to have her stop contacting me and I was not able to think of any bad things other than the fact that I have kids and worked kinda late sometimes, other than that we got along pretty well I thought. My question to you is this, I put some thought into the valentines gift for her, now should I still give it to her? For me it is the principle, it was for her. Your thoughts.

Phillip

2007-02-08 05:10:37 · 24 answers · asked by Phillip M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 05:10:26 · 4 answers · asked by Brooke_C 1 in Family

Ever since I found the love letter my wife had written to (not sent) her happily married classmate, my mood swings from revenge in the morning to repentance in the evening. Sometimes I wish she had torn it up rather than leave it there for me to find. I told her that I would move out and never see her again . I have been hanging around to lend her some support and get some myself. Her parents are silent and mine are not aware of this affair. I almost broke into tears when she came 1 hour late from her work, as I was thinking the worst case scenario and I walked almost 10 miles waiting for her. She said she called me 5 times but could not get any reply( True, My cell has this nasty habit). I could see the worry in her face. I don't know how I am so much enslaved. I harassed in the past over issues that involved mostly her parents or some extraneous factor and threatend her with divorce, never really intending it and she always said she saw that possibility. How can we get over this?

2007-02-08 05:10:20 · 9 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

TOMORROW, my fiance and I are getting married! It is just going to be a quick civil ceremony. We are having our religious ceremony at a later date. With V day right around the corner, do you guys have any suggestions? His bday was on Sunday and I got him a gorgeous dress watch so I'd like to not spend as much this time around since that watch cost me a pretty penny. Ideas???

2007-02-08 05:10:16 · 14 answers · asked by Mimi 7 in Weddings

2007-02-08 05:09:52 · 3 answers · asked by trickortreat 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend for 4 years has an issue with B.O. Everyone else can smell it and people make fun of her for it behind her back and sometimes to her face. I have lived with her once before for a while and she still smelled when she got out of the shower. Is something wrong with her because I know she is "clean" Please don't tell me that I have to be a good friend and tell her because I have tried. She can't smell herself so she thinks that she fixed it. I don't know what else to do and I am scared of losing a friend but its getting bad. I have class with her all the time and its hot in there and I really start to smell it. HELP ME be nice and tell her. The first time I told her she got really mad at me and didn't talk to me for 3 months....

2007-02-08 05:09:33 · 5 answers · asked by ~J*me~ 3 in Friends

A 24 yr. old single mom of 1!

2007-02-08 05:09:20 · 2 answers · asked by nola_heart 1 in Singles & Dating

It really frustrates me when guys just cant tell you how they feel, they have to send messages which sometimes dont make sense. Why cant they just tell you how they're feeling straight up and out? Its not hard to tell someone your feelings. Like for example if a guy isnt interested, he doesnt read your messages or txts you back. Honestly why cant he just say "I'm not interested."

2007-02-08 05:08:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About a non permanent restarined orden?..i mean ,someone told me the worst can happen its that the judge can decide that i have to keep it and leave it permanent .Does anybody knows about it?
Its just that my ex stepfathe put cameras on my room to watch me change my clothes and my husband got mad on him and they figth but my husban did not hit him ,but then my stepfather put a restained orden to get me out of the house so he could get rid of the evidence (the cameras) ,and we are waiting for the hearing ,im concern about it cuz we did not do anything to him but he is saying that we hit him ,its true that we shouted him and all that stuff but we did nothit him ,and he has money to pay witness that say that we really hit him.

2007-02-08 05:08:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I wanna get my boyfriend the perfect present or suprise for valentines day? Guys what might he like?

2007-02-08 05:07:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Seems like more and more people are getting married in the fall.

2007-02-08 05:07:04 · 8 answers · asked by angel 3 in Weddings

THAT I PAID FOR!!!

2007-02-08 05:06:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im single looking for an australian guy must be lovely !

2007-02-08 05:06:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I read about a murderer in the papers and his mother stood up for him saying he was her precious son. That man took 3 lives ... ...
In this day and age where everyone is supposed to be independent, it is easy for a family member to want preferential treatment because of blood relations. Yet such a system would erode away since now people are less inclined to be responsible!

There is also working in the family where a family member would be putting more work than any non blood relations simply because he is family - thus the guilt trip.
Is this guilt trip justifiable?

Cases can come up when one family member says to the potential family employee that he should do more using words like, "I am your Uncle," yet there had never been much communication or personalities are very different.

If you were never close to your relatives due to generation gap, character differences/other reasons or the relationship ended - do you owe them anything?

2007-02-08 05:06:27 · 10 answers · asked by thinkpp 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay recently she has told me that she wants me to stay at home while she works. Most of you would think it's because of the cooking and cleaning, but no I almost always cook and yes I do infact clean. I grew up in a military family, and have this drive for work and discipline. I'm just finding it akward for me to stay home. I don't believe that she should stay home, infact I support her in everything she does, but why does she ant me to stay home?

2007-02-08 05:06:01 · 17 answers · asked by chapman_red 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ones from america and i love american accents but the other one is cute but on the other hand both r cute and r both rele nice to me

2007-02-08 05:05:47 · 10 answers · asked by Shadow 1 in Singles & Dating

what is true love between husband and wife

2007-02-08 05:05:40 · 24 answers · asked by swati n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 05:05:27 · 12 answers · asked by hmeduardo14601 1 in Singles & Dating

just want to know

2007-02-08 05:05:23 · 13 answers · asked by mostwanted_310 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 05:05:10 · 3 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

Relationships today are so un-natural. Both men and women ,could care less about haveing sex before marriage,Does no one have any moral sense anymore, Would you want your daughter haveing sex ? Im amazed at how shallow relationships have become,no one even gives God a second thought,about the imorality. Does anyone even consider that even though we are living in the 20th century,that wrong is still wrong,what has happened to our society?

2007-02-08 05:04:45 · 14 answers · asked by doverslight61 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy that I like sent me a text message to "call anytime".
When I asked why he wouldn't call me, he just said he's not much of a calling person. But,....he wanted me to "call anytime". Does this mean anything? He seems so excited when I call him. Why would he want me to call him and he not want to call me?

2007-02-08 05:04:12 · 8 answers · asked by sisterof_3 3 in Singles & Dating