I trust her but I get jelous and it ends up in arguements and I feel that I'm going to lose her if im not careful. She feels I dont trust her.
2007-02-08 05:12:30 · 9 answers · asked by No Name 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i would just deal with it for how long it will take sometimes im jelous of my friend going out with my ex bf then i havet to deal with it
2007-02-08 05:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Destiny W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend should put herself in your shoes.
If it was the other way around would she like it?
She has got to understand your feelings and make
you feel secure in your relationship. Before I got married
my husband had a close female friend and as soon as
he was hooked up with someone it made her feelings
change towards him. She thought that she loved him. But he was with me then. She used to be really off hand
when we were all together and eventually they stopped
seeing each other.Your girlfriends friendship with this friend
is most certainly innocent enough but they should make sure
that they don,t hide any secrets from you i.e. secretly txt or
phone each other. Because this will only add to your insecurities.
I know a lot of people will tell you to get over it. But it is not that
easy where jealousy is concerned. It is like a sickness. Good Luck.
2007-02-08 05:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by Minxy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait ever you do dont' push the subject, i went though the same thing my boyfriend go jelous of my ex coz we where still friends. i ended you doin' my ex. Not the best idea i ever had and it cost my the best boyfriend i ever had.
So don't get jealous you might make things worse
2007-02-08 12:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by So. W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the same with my ex, we r just close like, my bf gets jelous tho, but he does trust me , but i realised he dint like it so i decided to not see my ex as much, i love my bf n wudnt let it get in the way of us, however he does trust me, tlk to ur gf about it, it will reli help ur relationship it helped us, good luck xxx
2007-02-08 05:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to be jealous,but the most important thing in a relationship is trust!But i think u dnt need to be jealous coz she wouldnt have been with u :)
2007-02-08 05:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by Cassý 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is her ex for a reason,i do understand where your coming from though,if you trust her then theres nothing to worry about.
2007-02-08 05:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and talk with him after talking to her and tell them both as you talk to them individually and apart from each other that you dont like there arrangement
2007-02-08 06:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by Music fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is enjoying making you jealous, that's what girls do, ignore it and call her bluff.
2007-02-08 05:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by georgeygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how much time she is spending with him,if it's more than she's spending with you then I'd move on.
2007-02-08 05:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋