Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

some of my friends know that i cut and they talk to me about it....but not like "you need to get help" talk...but more about why i do it and with what.....
well, this one other girl [ she`s also a cutter] says its giving a bad name to cutters if i talk about it.....is it really such i bad thing? I mean it`s not like i`m going around the school screaming "HEY I CUT MYSElF !"

2007-02-06 09:19:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-06 09:19:48 · 6 answers · asked by periacs 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I moved to my new sixth form in september. I didn't really know anyone but I made lots of friends suprisingly quickly - suprisingly because I'm a pretty shy person. I still see a lot of my old friends but also my new friends, who because of my timetable etc spend most of my time with, at lunch etc. I can tell my old friends are annoyed with me and think I've 'changed'. Although they haven't said anything outright, but I know my friends, and I know what they're thinking. I don't know if i should say something or wait for them to confront me. When we're together everythings fine, but I get the feeling they're alking about me and discussing me when I'm not there. Really confused here. Am I just being paranoid? What should I do???

2007-02-06 09:19:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

...im 6 feet tall, a little overweight, and have too strong of a personality?

2007-02-06 09:19:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was going out with this girls and i told her that i like her eyes and she said that she like her lips more..

2007-02-06 09:19:26 · 3 answers · asked by andrewjumar 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend has a boyfriend that she can relate to as a Fiance'. But lately she's been involved with another both emotionally and sexually. Her boyfriend lives about 4 hours away and she risks losing him, but yet she still see's the man and was even thinking about getting their own place together.

Some nights she tells me that she still loves her "Fiance'" and if she ever seen him again that she would be the same old girlfriend that wants him and wants to have his kids and so on. . .

BUT SHE STILL CHEATS ON HIM AND DOESN'T FEEL ANY REMORSE.

What should I tell her?

2007-02-06 09:19:25 · 3 answers · asked by x Lulu x 1 in Singles & Dating

Can u file for divorce if u admitt to adultery yourself? or does the 'cheated on' spouse need to raise the petition?

2007-02-06 09:18:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay me and my ex boyfriend are FINALLY talking again and now all he wants is to have Oral and talk to me rarley and normally it is just a hey how are you. So I am wondering should I be happy that we are at least talking this much or just forget about him and stop talking to him all together or do I tell him I don't want to be friends with benefits I want to be friends or be him G/f.

2007-02-06 09:18:43 · 10 answers · asked by skatergirl3722 1 in Singles & Dating

He has a great job; plans to retire in 8 years; has money in the bank; loves to cook, usually has dinner ready when I get home, & cleans up the mess...just too good to be true. My friends are so happy for me! I knew when we started dating that he liked to come home after work, have a couple drinks (beer or wine cooler)...no big deal...who doesn't? But now he drinking vodka and southern comfort before I get home from work...and eventually gets drunk & then want s to stay up & party til 1-2am. Not everynight but about 2-3 times a week. Back when we were younger he used to party alot & he quit for 18 years. I don't want to just break up...I don't know what to do.. I had a talk with him last night and let him know how I feel...This guy bought me an engagement ring for Christmas this year. I don't know what to do. I love him and I know he loves me. He also refuses to drink in front of any of his family and doesn't want them to know he drinks. I've never had to deal with alcoholism.

2007-02-06 09:18:38 · 5 answers · asked by LSR 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-06 09:18:25 · 19 answers · asked by Doreen F 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am a 24 year old male, and I have absolutely no self confidence when it comes to being socialble and funny. I never have much to say, and I get nervous around my gf. We've been together for almost one year, and we are both in love, so it's ridiculous that I still feel nervous. I am such a perfectionist and I feel like my every move is being watched. I just feel like I don't measure up to her. I feel like I can't make her happy. I have trouble being completely open with her, but I want so much to get closer to her. I NEVER have anything to talk about. Maybe I am too self absorbed. I don't want to be though. There are times when I am hilarious, but I don't know how to be like that all the time. She says that she doesn't mind that I'm a "private person," but she acts differently around me than other people. I am sure that she picks up on my insecurities. She is in the relationship for the long haul, but I don't want to make her or her kid miserable in the process. HELP

2007-02-06 09:17:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 09:17:41 · 1 answers · asked by Virgo 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok just 10 min agao i just caught my 12 yearl old son haveing sex with our neighbor. She is 11 they both seem really embarresed

should i ground him or what what should i do

2007-02-06 09:17:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

theres this guy who i like n he likes me too but won't admit to me! the probelm wit him is that he's really shy n hardly speaks to me n his cuzins! this there any signs that he does like me but dones'nt know to how to express his feelings to me?

2007-02-06 09:16:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They say you can count your true friends on one hand.If I exclude family,I come up with one,maybe I should get a dog.

2007-02-06 09:16:27 · 4 answers · asked by jo jo 3 in Friends

Ladies: I want you to picture this for one moment. You meet a dashing handsome man. He dresses well and presents himself well. He speaks fine and respects you. After discovering him for a moment because he approached you and you found him very physically attractive, you realized he's hearing impaired/deaf. You are so amazed he read your lips well and had a great conversation. Will this automatically put you off if you wanted to date him? Why or why not?

Free your mind AND speak with your heart and gut instincts. I want to know this from your personal point of view.

2007-02-06 09:16:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my b/f is 36 an iam 18 an i love him to bits we have been together for 2 an a half years an we are engaged. i have had to move back to my mums because of his drinking. i am still with him an i dont want to lose him. ive asked him to get help but he keeps saying he dosent have a problem an he is so ill sometimes i lie some nights an cry myself to sleep worrying about him..but i also dont really trust him. well i did but he told me that he has cheated on every g/f he has ever had even to the mother of his first child he was with for 8 years. i dont knw wat to do plz help

2007-02-06 09:15:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-06 09:15:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my friends are in this huge fight we have been friends for a long time and now she is turning on me and she says she does not wanna be my friend but i really wanna be her friend i need help
please dont say to give up
i need a reson
she cant trust me no more..
i said i will change..
how do i get another chance?

2007-02-06 09:15:25 · 4 answers · asked by Natalie 1 in Friends

2007-02-06 09:14:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Who else out there is going through a divorce or recently divorced and hate the thought of dating and being single? Whats so great about being single again?!

2007-02-06 09:14:33 · 26 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What have you done to an ex, somthing no one would think youve done and you proubly wouldnt admit, I broke into my ex and sprayed my perfume on his pillows and bed matress so his new girlfriend would have to smell it everytime she layed in his bed!

2007-02-06 09:13:38 · 8 answers · asked by LuvnLife 3 in Singles & Dating

What would you think if somebody told you "You are the only person I am having sex with without a condom". Would you think that you were the only person they were having sex with period or would you take what they said to really mean you are the only person they are having sex with without a condom?

2007-02-06 09:13:11 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have dated someone three or four times..it has been great. He phones me every day...we talk, laugh a lot! I like him...we have slept together once. Is it ok to ask him if we are an item? Do men feel put on the spot with these kinds of questions? Should I just wait to see what happens? I am newly dating after a marriage failure....several years ago. I am ready to fall in love, and not sure what to do next! Help!

2007-02-06 09:12:59 · 5 answers · asked by rose 3 in Singles & Dating

I need more of her time bu obviously she can't give that to me right now.

I think Single Mothers Easier To Cheat On Than Women Without Kids? She's got no time to keep an eye on me. What do you think?

I wrote a blog dedicated to this topic to elaborate on my thoughts.
If you are curious check out my profile for the link.

2007-02-06 09:12:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

first no rude replies please, or degrading jerk comments. My friend was raped at a party, when she was under age. never reported pt because she was scarred of the death threats that were made to her and her 4 year old sister. Shortly after she dropped out of school, and cut off all her hair and gained alot of weight. before she was very pretty, still is. and even though its been years and years she still is not outgoing any more or can get over panic attacks. could this effect her even now, I know lots of girls get raped, and survive....

2007-02-06 09:12:51 · 16 answers · asked by oceanluvduv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

While my husband was abroad, I told him i would meet a male friend and give him a gift in return for a favor. I had dinner with my friend, we talked, had some joyride, and eventually ended up in bed. Three weeks after, we stopped communicating because we both knew it was a mistake. It only happened once and it's been two months already. I didnt feel guilty at that time because I & my husband are having problem with our sexuall life but I am starting to feel guilty lately. Although my husband and I have unhealthy sex life, we love each other & are happy together. He's got very low sex drive and erectile dysfunction but he is very loving & faithful to me. Should I tell him what happened?

2007-02-06 09:12:05 · 24 answers · asked by mj 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Am i alone are or there others like me who wish that they could just turn there baby daddy into another person of your liking. Because the current one is such a dissapointment.
Im starting a movement yall
lolol

2007-02-06 09:11:14 · 5 answers · asked by Queen of Da Trill 2 in Family

I am with a guy I am engaged to. I cant stand him watching movies with nudity in them or going anywhere else with type of thing. It really bothers me. I seriously cant change it. I have tried to let it go but it pisses me off to the point I want to just leave. I want to give him my ring and go. He knows it bothers me and doesnt understand.. he understands it shouldnt probably be in the movies.. but that isnt why he is watching it. I dont know what to do. I make myself physically sick. I am not a bad looking girl either at all...

2007-02-06 09:10:44 · 1 answers · asked by JustWondering 3 in Singles & Dating

I hurt my boyfriend but we are still together (incredibly long story not the point of my question). This didn't happen too recently so time has already started passing. We are back to "normal" in the way we talk and act but there is still some distrust I think. (like 90% instead of 100%) which is understandable even after this long. So, what can I do to help him trust me again? It may only need more time but is there anything I can do to help also? I'm wanting more actions then talking to him (we've already done that a bunch.) If you don't think there is anything but time or talking just tell me that too. Creativity would be appreciated. Thanks

2007-02-06 09:10:29 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Singles & Dating