Okay me and my ex boyfriend are FINALLY talking again and now all he wants is to have Oral and talk to me rarley and normally it is just a hey how are you. So I am wondering should I be happy that we are at least talking this much or just forget about him and stop talking to him all together or do I tell him I don't want to be friends with benefits I want to be friends or be him G/f.
2007-02-06 09:18:43 · 10 answers · asked by skatergirl3722 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that guy is a total jerk. if all her wants to do is have oral then he doesn't deserve you. tell him to go find some other girl to be his hore cause your done. and just stop talking to him entirely. he is a pig that you shoudl stay away from.
2007-02-06 09:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he broke up with you and now he just wants to freak you, that's a problem. how come your not worth dating but worth having oral sex with? he doesn't respect you obviously, and being friends with benefit is not going to make the situation change at all. You need to leave him alone and move on. Just be friends or nothing at all.
2007-02-06 17:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you can do better than him. Find somone who loves you and cant wait to just be with you. A friend with benefits is not a friend at all.
2007-02-06 17:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by zacks girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only fooling yourself if you think giving sexual favors will eventually lead to another relationship. only keep this up if you enjoy casual sex..
personally, i'd never sleep with an ex. you should avoid him and move on with your life.. sex is so much better when it is with someone you share love with.. not just doing it as a casual thing.
2007-02-06 17:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget friends with benefits, sounds like you guys both need to restrain something, him being his balls and you your emotions...
find someone that truly loves you for who you are and not what you do....
2007-02-06 17:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie. Hes using you like wow. All he wants is for you to cratch that itch that he hasnt found a replacement for yet. Drop him like a bad habit.
2007-02-06 17:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kryss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you want.
If you do not he will just use the benefits and not look to you for anything more.
Good Luck
2007-02-06 17:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes using u!stop now before u goet hurt even more!
2007-02-06 17:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats gonna get you hurt..
what happens if he tells you he has to quit because he has a girlfriend now?
2007-02-06 17:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should leave him alone ...because u deserve better....plus he is not interesting in u, he just using u.
2007-02-06 17:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by andrewjumar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋