some of my friends know that i cut and they talk to me about it....but not like "you need to get help" talk...but more about why i do it and with what.....
well, this one other girl [ she`s also a cutter] says its giving a bad name to cutters if i talk about it.....is it really such i bad thing? I mean it`s not like i`m going around the school screaming "HEY I CUT MYSElF !"
2007-02-06 09:19:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I no, I don`t do it for attention.
i have family problems, and issues with myself which i don`t feel like getting into.
2007-02-06 09:32:37 · update #1
FOR THE LAST ******* TIME !
I DON`T DO IT FOR ATTENTION. God...can`t you people read?
My friends bring it up. I`m not gonna ignore them or tell them to change the subject, because they`re my friends.
2007-02-06 09:47:26 · update #2
1-800-DONT-CUT is a hotline for cutters. It's anonymous, and you can talk to them about cutting. They're experts.
2007-02-06 17:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by The Notorious Doctor Zoom Zoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y do u cut urself in the 1st place.I hope u arent trying to get the ultimate prize from cutting which is death. That would be suicide,God clearly states that if u kill urself ur next and FINAL stop would be Hell 4 an ETERNITY. Cutters I believe already have a bad name,all ur doing is living up to the bad rep they already have. Im not here to judge u but to help u. Would it be bad to talk to someone about God,NO! but its the message that u give out to the person that u see well benefit their life in a positive way. God is all ears and is waiting 4 u to pour urself out to Him.
God Bless U. (and quit doing crazy stuff,Ur better than that!: )
2007-02-06 17:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by martin c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it would be bad if you wouldn't talk about it. Since you're willing to talk about it you know you have a problem, but it's not severe. And I think it's good your friends will talk to you about it, cause it shows they care and are there for you. Someone doesn't need to offer help. When it comes down to it, you are the one who has to want to get help. And I think your friends realize that. And the other chick who cuts herself sounds like she's doing it to be cool rather than because she has a problem. It's never "un-cool" to talk about serious issues like that. Anyway, hope this helps. Take care!!!
2007-02-06 17:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by Legs0891 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to talk about it with people you trust, rather than keep it all inside.
I'm sure you realize that cutting is a symptom of some emotional problem. Talking may help you work through it.
Your friend's attitude reminds me of the secrecy common in alcoholic families: don't talk about it and it won't be real.
2007-02-06 17:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your friend both need help...If you are talking about u are obviously looking for attention and believe me the only attention u are going to get is negative. Stop cutting yourself or stop talking about it. You will end up in a mental institution if an adult finds out about it. Maybe that's what u need.
2007-02-06 17:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by AngelU 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i thnk its okay to talk about it with your friends. i used to cut too. i told 3 friends and the other 2 say my arm and found out. the 2 i ddnt tell thought i was stupid(that totaly makes it better) and two understud and one copied me. the two that understood me i talked to about it alot. i didn't really talk to other cutter though so i dnt knw what others think but in my opinion you arent doing anything wrong. talking helps you feel better or like you have a purpose or something like that. just do what you feel is rught to you is that othr chik is that judgmental she dsnt sound like sometht needs to talk. i hope you can resolve some prblems and stop. i knw talking about stuf is the reason i stopped and i feel alot better now. just so you know i do still think about it sometimes too. it never goes away.
2007-02-06 17:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by c.j. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking about cutting doesn't give cutters a bad name. Cutters give cutting a bad name.
2007-02-06 17:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by MD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all cutting yourself is nothing to be proud of, and it definitely isn't a secret club. It's none of her business what you do. You can tell anyone you want. You need help, and maybe you're friends can provide that. But then again talking about it is almost like you're doing it to get attention.
2007-02-06 17:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad to talk about cutting but that is bad that you do that can be dangerous.Do your parents know that you are I know it is a teenager thing but why do you do it?Are you deppressed lonely upset?Please don't be cutting yourself that scares me when someone tells me that that is very very serious you need to tell your parents.Please take my advice and stop cutting yourself there are places to help you.Please listen to me.I don't expect to get picked best answer or anything but at least don't ignore me and tell your parents please email me and tell me why you are cutting yourself I can help you get over it.
2007-02-06 17:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put down the razor blade and pick up that algebra book.Be thankful for what you have.Jesus, why don't you try living in Cambodia, or Somalia and see how much "cutting" you do after that.
2007-02-06 17:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Pimpstick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋