What would you think if somebody told you "You are the only person I am having sex with without a condom". Would you think that you were the only person they were having sex with period or would you take what they said to really mean you are the only person they are having sex with without a condom?
2007-02-06 09:13:11 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think he was very straightforward with you. I would interpret it as, "I have sex with others, but I don't love them like I love you so I use a condom with them." Is this the kind of relationship on which you really want to spend your energy?
2007-02-06 09:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Brent 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only person they are having sex without a condom.
2007-02-06 09:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Claire 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think I was the only one he was having sex without a condom, the others he uses a condom with, if its an open relationship then no biggie, if not, then theres a problem
2007-02-06 09:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure. But I think I would remain very nervous about continuing to have sex with this guy, because what if he forgot or stopped caring and then began having sex with the other guys without a condom too ..... this might make me feel "violated" ..... is this the same for you too? I don't like it when this type of comment comes out .... it makes me feel like he is thinking about "decondomming" with all those other guys .....
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2007-02-06 09:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they are having sex with other people WITHOUT condoms and you should be VERY careful, tell them that was a nice play on words too
2007-02-06 09:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by Completly in love... 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are the only person he is sleeping with without protection. All the others he uses a condom.
2007-02-06 09:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To me that would mean he is sleeping around, but he uses a condom with them but not you.
Oh, and I wouldn't believe him when he says he uses protection with the other women, most likely he is telling the other women the same thing and not using a condom at all.
get tested!!
2007-02-06 09:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take it that whoever said that to me thought I would be stupid and that they are definitely having sex with other people. If someone said that to you than he is hoping you are completely dumb and that you will just assume that he means he isn't having sex with anyone else. He's trying to answer your question without lying to you so he wont have any guilt over what he's doing.
2007-02-06 09:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would take it as you are the only person they are sleeping with without a condom. If they weren't sleeping with anyone else, they would have just said that.
2007-02-06 09:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No matter what get him to use a condom as sounds to me like you aint the only one he is sleeping with
2007-02-06 09:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by Foxy lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋