Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

Okay,your in your spouse's email and see emails from "Adult friend finder" with lists of the opposite sex in your area. You "sign in" and see that all their info is there and correct. You officially know it wasnt just another advertisement but your partner took the time to join,except the money hadnet been paid to access these people in your area,they can only browse at this time. You bring this up to your partner,who denies it at first,then admits it bc theyre clearly cornered. Your spouse says they had no intention on going further. Your spouse has the emails stopped(at that email account anyway) and you basically drop it(for the most part).A few months later theres an "adult friend finder" icon on your computer desktop. Now,whats your opinion? Please dont TELL ME to leave him. This isnt about me,just say your thoughts.

2007-02-04 06:32:35 · 15 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This is about Infidelity, If its a Close Friend or a friend with Benefits takes your wife/Grilfriend/Domestic Partner, Should you take It or Confront Them.

2007-02-04 06:32:34 · 8 answers · asked by tfoley5000 7 in Friends

ok so prom is sort of far away... but i want to get a jump on it early, so i was thinking of asking a girl in a kinda Unique way.... for those of you who know the song "back at one" bye brian mcknight... i was planning on leaving a note for her in her locker with chocolates saying "1 your like a dream come true" then write on her car saying "2 just want to be with you" with a Stuffed bear.... then i wanted to be on her doorstep with flowers that night with the last note saying "3 girl it's plain to see that you should go to prom with me"..... how does that sound?? and if any of you guys or gals have some suggestions on unique ways of asking... feel free to add!!! thanks a bunch

2007-02-04 06:32:19 · 5 answers · asked by Mexilent!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

i really love him and i don't know what to do reather to let him go or keep him.

2007-02-04 06:31:44 · 17 answers · asked by G.G 2 in Friends

2007-02-04 06:30:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He knows that I am difficult to trust any one since I had a real bad experience before ... He is afraid to lose me so he tries to confess his being interested about me and same time testing my feelings ... first time to see tears in his eyes! Is it true or hmmm?!

2007-02-04 06:30:51 · 8 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

He's hunting around for ideas on what to get his gorgeous wife and now appeals to all his chums on Yahoo Answers to help him! What do you suggest that he buys me for my birthday next week?

2007-02-04 06:28:25 · 19 answers · asked by gorgeousfluffpot 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 06:26:20 · 23 answers · asked by WELL SAID ERFMAN JACK 2 in Friends

My husbands toenails could plough a field at the moment and as for changing his socks and underpants everyday. I wouldn't dream of inflicting that on him. Are you're partners like this.

2007-02-04 06:24:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never imagined to fall easily, but he made me so ... kinda upside down but it is all within ... I mean am confessing to myself that! But my problem is that I can never ever forever dare to tell him so! unless he helps me so :) well, am a shy girl and its apparent too that he falls for me ... his actions and words ... believe me I can even read eyes ... but am not sure if he read mine or not! what is it gonna be?!

2007-02-04 06:24:33 · 3 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a guy and a nerd (to put it bluntly). I was also a "late bloomer" (was 17 before I even thought about girls that way). I'm 19 now (in college), but am very uncomfortable around flirtateous girls. I get made fun of for this quite a bit. Is this discomfort normal?

2007-02-04 06:24:21 · 6 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Singles & Dating

my brothers girlfriend has decided she no longer loves him. they have a baby of 6 months. he has left the flat for her and the baby to live in

he earns around £230 a week and was going to talk to her about maintanence etc, but she is being a ***** about things and has went to the CSA. without telling him. he will obviously pay for the baby`s upkeep but does anyone know how much the CSA will take from him??

thanks. xx

2007-02-04 06:23:07 · 3 answers · asked by nicola 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My older sister calls herself "Beth Amphetamine" on myspace and she makes me pose in my bathing suit with her and she posts pictures of us making peace signs and kissing on the cheek. i am 12 and she is 17, why is she doing this?

please, no mean answers!!!

2007-02-04 06:22:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean, my wife and I don't see eye-eye anymore and I noticed the neighbor lady is getting better looking each day. My question is, who do you know if the grass is greener on the other side of the fence? We have had so much snow this winter, I can't see their yard, so I don't know if it is greener than mine. Do I have to wait until the spring thaw to tell, or should I go over and ask to see her grass pad ?

2007-02-04 06:22:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy a lot and i've gone to a dance with him before. turnabout is coming up and that is where the girl asks the guy. what would be a really cool way to ask him to turnabout?

2007-02-04 06:22:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I been liking a girl for awhile, but I have never talked to her before, ive just been admiring her from a distance. Well one day for Gym are teacher told us to run 2 laps around the track, so I did. Then after the two laps we had to sit in the grass. Once everyone sat in the grass, I was with a group friends. The girl I like and her friend is a couple feet away from me, shes tired out from the run, I just stare (cuz I like her you know) her friend notices that I look at her. So I turn around and keep talking to my friends. All of a sudden she sits right next to me (with her friend of course) I say "Hi". She says "Hi" back. Then her friend starts talking to her, and I turn around and talk to my freinds. Is her sitting next to me, a sign that she likes me?

2007-02-04 06:22:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Were both 17 and previously went on a couple of dates. She has said she likes me and and like her aswell. But she has a boyfriend and i dunno what to do.

2007-02-04 06:21:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband cheated on me several times, he came clean about it only after I confronted him with a ton of evidence. Since then I have kicked him out of the house and let him move back. He still lies about things and hes definatley hiding things still Re: his cell phone. he put a lock code on it and refuses to let me look at it, also I have been counting and watching the # of text messages he sends and recieves and when I do get to his phone ( usually hes in the shower) I find he has erased them all. My feeling is that he is still messing with this girl, the last cell bill shoed him talking to her after I confronted him, he told me he wasnt talking to her but shes calling him all the time, and the night I kicked him out.. sure enough she called him. What the heck do i do? I dont trust him, he is still lying and hiding things, I am at a loss here.

2007-02-04 06:21:04 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay my wife and girlfriends had girls night at my house, i went out they got so drunk they took a coconut and placed it in the microwave before they closed the door they sprayed it with easy off, then they put it on high, well the microwave blew up sending coconut shards into her friends face, and totaly demolishing my cabinets, when i got home the fire department and amblulence were just leaving i freaked out and stayed at my moms now wife wont talk to me because she says it was a joke and i need to lighten up. am i wrong?

2007-02-04 06:20:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you are, how are you guys going to celebrate Valentines day?
^_____^

2007-02-04 06:20:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 06:18:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

everytime i want to have sex my boy friend refuses but everytime he wants to we have to do it and do it for a LONG time. help

2007-02-04 06:18:34 · 12 answers · asked by Dances_like_me 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been fighting non-stop for the past 2 weeks, we have been together for 2 years but lately we havent been getting along. finally 2 days ago we settled our differences and decided we are going to stay together no matter what and we love each other so we are going to work on it. well today, i called him while i was at work to see what he was doing, he was out with his friend going to check out some new trucks at some dealerships...instead of calling and asking if i would have liked to go after i got out of work he just went without me. i would have loved to have taken the ride, and he knows i would have. we have nothing to do after i get out of work so it would have filled our afternoon. he claims "i would have complained and not wanted to go , and we are watching to game after you get out" im so fed up, i dont want to fight, but im MAD. do i have a reason to be? it seems that it is always okay for him to do what HE wants, but not for me...its like he doesnt care what i think.

2007-02-04 06:17:24 · 11 answers · asked by Ash 4 in Singles & Dating

She is in a relation with a guy who work in a different country. And she is my good friend. What should I do for her on the Vday.. She had 2 bf in the past, but on vday, she never had the luck to be with her bf. This year too.. so please advice... thanks

2007-02-04 06:16:52 · 3 answers · asked by master J 1 in Singles & Dating

hes so damn hot, and amazong to my lil brother. my family likes him from day one. weve known eachotehr forever. he taught my 10yrold brother how to throw a football, hes amazong. not to mentoin a goodkisser. im crussin on him, but hes not into me...

theres no way im gonna give up the benifits with him, theyre TOO AMAZiNG.
so what do i do?

2007-02-04 06:15:55 · 19 answers · asked by christi c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 06:14:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My bff Galena loves to sing but she cant sing worth a poo. She's seriously that bad! What do I say to her?????????????????????

2007-02-04 06:13:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

who has a kid of 3 months... any advice of the up and dwns...

2007-02-04 06:12:08 · 16 answers · asked by r1ot 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 06:12:06 · 4 answers · asked by darkchild13a 1 in Friends

ok, so here's the thing: i was recently told, "you're hysterical and boys don't like that. that's why you haven't found someone you want to be with yet." it came from a good (guy) friend of mine. he explained to me that he meant that my sense of humor can sometimes be intimidating to guys because it shows that i am completely independent and not needing a guy. "they see you as one of the guys cause you can go toe to toe with them," he told me. he said guys don't usually go for the girl who is outspoken and bold, but more for the girl who is shy and quiet because she is easier to approach. (he tried to smooth his comment over by saying that the "right" guy won't care and will value my personality traits rather than be afraid of them, and guys who find me intimidating are weak and should be tossed aside anyway.) so i just want to see what other people think about this. is there something wrong with being funny and a girl at the same time?

2007-02-04 06:11:34 · 13 answers · asked by jennlove 2 in Singles & Dating