everytime i want to have sex my boy friend refuses but everytime he wants to we have to do it and do it for a LONG time. help
2007-02-04 06:18:34 · 12 answers · asked by Dances_like_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've never known a man who would refuse sex. Usually it is a big turn on for men to be wanted! Sounds like somethings up!
2007-02-04 06:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using and manipulating you, in his way.Find a better man for you,who will love you indeed.For to have sex,both need to have an agreement.He shows you with this behaviour,that he is who give orders,that he is the "macho" man".This is a big mistake that many men do.And as result of that behaviour,many women around the world who have this kind of "macho men",cheating them;finding a man,a gentleman.It is better for you,if you want to stay in that relationship,to talk seriously with him.It is beautiful , when both (the couple),decide to have sex,when both really want to do it.Good luck.
2007-02-04 14:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...ummm...how long is a long time? the best remedy to him refusing is you refusing and there is such a word as hold on or stop if you dont want to do it for a long time make him stop a good man always listens to his lady.
2007-02-04 14:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by kaybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you want some, don't ask, just do. Start touching him or undress him. Trust me, once he's up, he won't turn you down.
2007-02-04 14:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by crodriguez1010 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider purchasing a toy.
2007-02-04 14:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't waste too much time on a relationship if you are not
sexually compatible...
2007-02-04 14:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he can tell you NO then you damn sure can tell him NO!This is not a relationship it's a convince of the panties.
2007-02-04 14:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehh i know how you feel, basiclly its their way or no way. next time HE wants to do it, refuse him like he does to you, that will teach him.
2007-02-04 14:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put out. Let him see what it's like.
2007-02-04 14:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Nunya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One are you yring to ask
2007-02-04 14:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Tina T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋