who has a kid of 3 months... any advice of the up and dwns...
2007-02-04 06:12:08 · 16 answers · asked by r1ot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes--don't do it. That is, if you think the dating may go anywhere or you are just having fun--guess again she's not dating for fun anymore.. You my friend are just a distraction for her, a daddy for her baby,and a way out. Give her time to figure out who that she is now that she has a baby.
Been there done that, turned out all she was looking for was a daddy for her kid--once the kid got in school she went after what she really wanted and I pay child support and lost everything I had.
2007-02-04 06:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by redrepair 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay to date a girl who has a kid of three monthes but just be careful because she might need you to take on the responsibilty of a father if your relationship would ever get serious
2007-02-04 06:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Th Sparkling Diamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her that shouldnt matter but you should talk to her to see what her expectations are as far as the kid goes in case you get more serious down the road and also make sure you have a good idea of the situation with the father so you know what to avoid and what is cool
2007-02-04 06:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats depending on the status of the baby daddy. if he is totally out of the pic go for it. If she says he sees the baby all the time she is still seeing him. If she hates his guts they just might be temp. broke up. u just have to read between the lines. If her romantic relationship is totally over w/the baby daddy go for it but try to be sure before u get in too deep
2007-02-04 06:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you have to worry about is the relationship she have between her and the father of the baby. He is gonna have to be in the baby's life. Other than that as long as he doesnt want her and she doesnt want him then you have nothing to worry about.
2007-02-04 06:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by mscluckey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, as long as the father of the child isn't emotionally involved with her, you may want to steer clear of her if this is the case as you will deal with her problems.
2007-02-04 06:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope itll lead to problems eventually and the father could go on a mad rampage and hurt even possibilly kill you! Plus wouldnt you rather be with a girl who the only kid she has is your own? It will also help with your careers, but if you love her i say hell go for it.
2007-02-04 06:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you like her enough yea its worth it. there are not really many downs except for the fact that you cant be selfish but as for tantrums that older babies throw you are homefree. Just remember she might lean on you for support and if you cant deal with that then dont do it. and i dont mean financial support just someone to talk to.
2007-02-04 06:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by kaybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch the real father and yes do as much as u can to earn the respect as if u were the dad
2007-02-04 06:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depend if u like kids, plus when the child grows up u will be its role model
2007-02-04 06:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by ACE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋