Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

this is like a two part question.heres the first. i like this guy in my youth group, but hes an upperclassman and doesn't really acknowledge me. he is soo cute though! i really want to at least become friends with him, but since im kindof shy [i dont go to their church, just youth group] and they think just b/c i get a ride from my friend that shes the only friend i have [she always follows me around at youth group when im TRYING to interact with the others, gets annoying, but yeah so then he wouldn't talk to me b/c of all those reasons [shy, freshman, friend following me].how can i talk to him casually and become friends with him?
that gets me to my next one. how do i become friends with at least some of the upperclassmen and not just freshmen, we freshmen are already friends. but how do i become friends with them? b/c like i said earlier i am a little shy and my friend follows me around and i dont go to their church[pretty much the same reasons]so how do i make friends w/them n him?

2007-02-04 10:32:32 · 9 answers · asked by .Frequently♥Dazzled. 5 in Friends

Okay...there is this guy that im talking to at collage...he has kids but says that he has nothing to do with there mom... he only wants to b apart of his kids life but see...he doesnt have a way for me to get a hold of him but he will call me sometimes .
I believe he doesnt lie to me...i havent caught him in any!!!
But the only time we do talk is if its at school or he'll call on the weekend to chill...sometimes.
He tells me that he is gonna try to make things work but i know that if that happens then i know i'll be wondering at times ...where he is at or what he is doing...and i wont know...should i let things go n jus let them happen or should i stop things now???*3
Keep in mind i really care for him but i dont want to get hurt n the end*3

2007-02-04 10:31:52 · 4 answers · asked by BabyCakes*3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

whats the best way to hit someone so they cant hit back? (female, not male)

2007-02-04 10:31:42 · 9 answers · asked by living_vicariously_16 1 in Friends

I asked out this girl I liked for a while, and she said,"no, well not right now". For starters, is that a "NO" Maybe or an "IDK". If it is a "NO", then how do I show her that there is more to me than she knew when I asked her, but not making it obvious.
P.S, we sit @ the same table in the morning B4 classes start, but a bunch of our freinds are there too., and we both are still freinds, or should I just give up on the whole thing and try and let it pass

2007-02-04 10:31:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 10:30:38 · 20 answers · asked by @(3x!$ 2 in Singles & Dating

Basically I have had a fight with one of my friends recently and I tried to apologise but he just starting putting me down and saying that I am reclusive.

Having thought it over, I now realise that he is right and I would like to know what to do to improve myself?

2007-02-04 10:30:32 · 6 answers · asked by waresmyheadat 1 in Friends

do you notice that the guys who talk about sex ALL THE TIME and claim that they are always getting busy with many different women are usually the one's that are not getting any action?

2007-02-04 10:29:49 · 11 answers · asked by Tighty 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 10:29:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 10:29:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok ... in December the boy i like asked me out, but i said no bc i didnt know if he was serious or not.... he said just kidding after i said no and i still dont know if he was serious. He is my friend and like one of the only guys that i can talk to without me thinking that he is making fun of me in his head or going to make fun of me with his friends later. he says he likes a girl on his street, but he is really nice to me and he never used to be this nice to me. so wat do you think? every time i ask a boy out he says no and ignores me for like forever. should i tell him i like him or should i just try to get to be better friends with him and wait for him to ask me out?

Please help me!!

2007-02-04 10:29:17 · 7 answers · asked by Under_the_sunset 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 10:28:59 · 2 answers · asked by ~*Tiff*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

who????

2007-02-04 10:28:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a Step son who does not wish to work. He was asked to leave the family home some 12 weeks ago because he acted very badly and did not wish to work. He did leave and has been on the streets ever since. He is 18 years old. How many more parents out there have the same problem? Can' believe that someone of his age does not wish to work and does not care about anything at all.

2007-02-04 10:26:58 · 8 answers · asked by Barry W 2 in Family

AM I too picky? I have met nice guys but no one that i feel i click with physically. I'm sick of shopping at BAD Boys R Us just because im most physically attracted to that type for some reason. I want a great guy. But i need to find him attractive...and im not shallow...i dont need a perfect 10 ..just that something about a person that draws you. What can I do?

2007-02-04 10:26:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a little bit of a dilemma. Theres this guy that I don't know personally, but I've seen him around a lot and I've managed to get a small crush on him. I really want to actually get to know him, but I'm not really sure how to start up a conversation. He's a grade above me and in my lunch, but aside from that I just pass him in the halls. By the way, I'm really shy. But thats just the first part of my problem: While I want to get to know this guy better, one of my guy friends has just admitted that he really likes me. I can't exactly tell him that I don't feel the same way, since I don't want to ruin our friendship (i know it will be awkward if I do say that to him), but I don't have the same feelings towards him. When he told me his feelings, I just told him I needed time to figure things out before I could get into a relationship. We've gone on a few dates and had a lot of fun, but I just dont feel anything significant towards him. Any advice on what I should do?

2007-02-04 10:25:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just told my friend how i feel left out and she just said it wasnt her fault! why wont she ever listen to me???

2007-02-04 10:24:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my dad who's afghanistan keeps beeting my mom.
and sometomes me and even my 2 year old brother.
and my mom is too afraid to put him in jail because she "loves" him.
what should I and my mom do?

2007-02-04 10:23:13 · 15 answers · asked by diana k 1 in Family

2007-02-04 10:22:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together 7 months...and i really like him and i wanna give it up to him-but i am a virgin-and i dont know what to expect or even what to do...any suggestions?

2007-02-04 10:22:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with my boyfriend for a year. We met at work. We dated for 2 months, then he got a new job. A new job that allowed him to travel. So he picked up & Left, but we still talked even thought it was long distance. After talking with him everyday for about a month he sent me a plane ticket to come visit. It was great, after I left, we kept talking daily. I went back about two months later and stayed for about a month. We fell in love, and it was very mutual. Are relationship has been a little long distance, but now he's been back home. he's been back 3 months, well two months ago, he felt like we needed time apart, and space to grow away from each other, so we broke up. We continued to see each other. WE'd go out to eat everynight, go to the gym 3 times a week, and hangout on the weeks, sex included. Now I'm pregnant, and he still doesn't want to be me, but wants to be there for the baby. He say his feeling s have changed for me, but I still love him, should I let'em go?

2007-02-04 10:21:34 · 13 answers · asked by queenb8162003 1 in Singles & Dating

I get on really well with a guy and we are getting close but my friend doesn't seem to like that as I am sure she likes him. Now she is making everybody hate me, so the only friend I really have left is this guy but I don't know how much longer for.

2007-02-04 10:21:33 · 4 answers · asked by Shirl 1 in Friends

I was dumped by text on 29th Dec. It's been really painful these few weeks coming to terms with it as I was with this woman for 18 months. I have to admit I still have feeling for her but know that even if she ever wanted to get back together I should not.
Today coming out of my house I was greeted with her and her ex in a car (her mum lives opposite my house) she has a child with her ex who is a xanker as he often beat on her. This was the first time I'd seen her since Christmas when we were still together.
I did not know she was outside so was very shocked and just walked off ignoring them. I did not want to get into an argument with the xrick. She later text me saying 'Is this how it's going to be you ignoring me whenever you see me' My reply was ' Again only thinking of your feelings and not mine'
Anyway, I've arranged to meet her for some closure on Sunday but don't know what to say to her. I want her to know that what she did (dumping me by text) was low.

2007-02-04 10:21:20 · 22 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

He was "poor" now he is a multi-millionaire

2007-02-04 10:21:19 · 2 answers · asked by WOLFIE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i hate my girl friend be cause she thinks she is all that and thinks ashe can tell me what ever she wants and i hate that be cause she tels me to go get her a drink or some thing esle and to buy her realy exspen suff and i wast all my money on her.

2007-02-04 10:21:07 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I go to conformation on Wednesday nights, and someone that goes there, she's not my friend at all, in fact, I really can't stand her, but she's been talking a lot about how she and her boyfriend "do stuff" and she's contemplating having sex. I don't want to see her get hurt like that. As much as I really don't like her, I can't bear to see her make that mistake. I don't know what to do... This boyfriend of hers has made her cry on more than one occassion and they've only been dating for about 3 weeks... He's a jerk and I know it. He tells her he loves her and she believes him. I know all of this because she confided in me week before last about all this crap he was doing (seeing his ex, etc..), and then now last week she was saying how she and him were "doing stuff"... Not sex, but they almost did... I just don't know what to say to her.. I'm scared for her. I don't want her to make this mistake... And I don't know what to do...Please, any advice on what I could say to her..etc. Thkx

2007-02-04 10:19:37 · 12 answers · asked by Kiara 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I go to conformation on Wednesday nights, and someone that goes there, she's not my friend at all, in fact, I really can't stand her, but she's been talking a lot about how she and her boyfriend "do stuff" and she's contemplating having sex. I don't want to see her get hurt like that. As much as I really don't like her, I can't bear to see her make that mistake. I don't know what to do... This boyfriend of hers has made her cry on more than one occassion and they've only been dating for about 3 weeks... He's a jerk and I know it. He tells her he loves her and she believes him. I know all of this because she confided in me week before last about all this crap he was doing (seeing his ex, etc..), and then now last week she was saying how she and him were "doing stuff"... Not sex, but they almost did... I just don't know what to say to her.. I'm scared for her. I don't want her to make this mistake... And I don't know what to do...Please, any advice on what I could say to her..etc. Thkx

2007-02-04 10:19:21 · 5 answers · asked by Kiara 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 10:19:12 · 10 answers · asked by willie_wonka_01 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm dating this girl at the moment but she won't let me know/tell me how she feels towards me. I asked her many times, she simply said: I just don't know. I guess I'll just have to wait. She told me she it takes her a while to figure out how she really feel. I text messaged her last night saying that I can't wait anymore and need an answer right now...I also asked her is there anything between us or should I let go or stay. She called me, sounding very upset that if I can't wait then I have to let go. That is basically it. She seems very confused and game-playing. I don't even know if she likes me or not. ??? Any suggestions??? Thanks

2007-02-04 10:19:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do i really like her and we are REALY good friends do u think we should just be friends?we concider each other BFF

2007-02-04 10:18:57 · 1 answers · asked by Roman H 1 in Singles & Dating

Cause i really feel like it's given up on me. It seems like EVERY relationship i have ever been in either ended badly or should have even started. I feel like no guy likes me and just want to know should i give up. I really feel like "love" hates me, so maybe i should just give in.

2007-02-04 10:18:51 · 3 answers · asked by laangel464 3 in Singles & Dating