I asked out this girl I liked for a while, and she said,"no, well not right now". For starters, is that a "NO" Maybe or an "IDK". If it is a "NO", then how do I show her that there is more to me than she knew when I asked her, but not making it obvious.
P.S, we sit @ the same table in the morning B4 classes start, but a bunch of our freinds are there too., and we both are still freinds, or should I just give up on the whole thing and try and let it pass
2007-02-04 10:31:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe there's a reason behind it. Maybe she's not ready to have that relationship or dating life right now. Maybe she totally hates you, maybe she likes you but didn't know how to respond, or what to do if she said yes... etc.
Become better friends with her, tell her it's no sweat and stay friends until she takes up courage/decision to accept going out with you.
2007-02-04 10:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by natalia j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, i would give up. You cant really force someone to like you, and you dont want to be with someone who doesnt feel the same way about you as you do for them. Just leave it alone and be friends, and who knows, maybe after being friends for a while she will come to realize that you are a cool person and maybe start liking you too.
Usually when a girl says no, not right now, its them trying to be nice saying shes not really interested. Any time they say something like that, or that they arent looking for a relationship right now, it usually means she wants to be your friend and everything, she just isnt interested in anything else
but keep your hopes up, maybe one day she'll feel the same for you. and if that doesnt happen you'll definately find someone who does.
2007-02-04 18:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by sandra p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are angry at the moment, why not think why you are angry?
You said you've been rejected...
Well you made a move, but isn't it better to know and be disappointed and to not know and wonder?
There is no need to make someone feel sorry, just live life, you live it to make you happy, not to make yourself upset.
You should be glad you've did what you did, now you have answers and now you can go do other things.
There is never a right time or a wrong time, but if the time is not now, then know that there will be a time later.
2007-02-04 18:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should just give up and move on to another girl and not make her feel sorry for rejecting you. She has the right to say no (it's a no). Just stay friends with her and you never know what might happen in the future...
2007-02-04 18:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that she knows you like her the best way to get her attention is by making her jealous. Give up on her and start hanging out with a new girl. She will be jealous that you aren't waiting around for her and you may just meet someone that you like even more.
2007-02-04 18:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by ang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUMM? Well not right now, that seems to be a little leading? Maybe she is a little shy? You should know, if that's the case give her one more opportunity, did you ask her to go out, or to go out somewhere? If not just let it pass.
2007-02-04 18:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is pretty childish im sorry but it is! You dont you move on and meet someone else! Not right now means it isnt right for her for whatever reason! Sorry to sound so mean but my advice is get over it and move on dont waste your time!
2007-02-04 18:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should thank her for saying "no" and being direct because it just saved you a whole lot of time compared to her giving you her number and never returning your calls or stringing you along.
Geez, next.
2007-02-04 18:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want her to feel sorry for you?
you want a PITY date?
eew. if she gives you a pity date she'll only consider you someone lesser than her.
unless you mean how do you make her REGRET not going out with you? you can't do that. you can't control people. and you can't let people pity you.
you seem to gear towards unhealthy obsessive relationships. focus on yourself first then you will get women.
2007-02-04 18:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you cant make someone like you. This will come natural. Just be yourself. Instead of looking for ms right for life just look for ms right for now and then your life time partner will comealong. Be patient.
2007-02-04 18:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by redfirecracker2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋