I have a little bit of a dilemma. Theres this guy that I don't know personally, but I've seen him around a lot and I've managed to get a small crush on him. I really want to actually get to know him, but I'm not really sure how to start up a conversation. He's a grade above me and in my lunch, but aside from that I just pass him in the halls. By the way, I'm really shy. But thats just the first part of my problem: While I want to get to know this guy better, one of my guy friends has just admitted that he really likes me. I can't exactly tell him that I don't feel the same way, since I don't want to ruin our friendship (i know it will be awkward if I do say that to him), but I don't have the same feelings towards him. When he told me his feelings, I just told him I needed time to figure things out before I could get into a relationship. We've gone on a few dates and had a lot of fun, but I just dont feel anything significant towards him. Any advice on what I should do?
2007-02-04 10:25:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since your shy and really want to get to know the guy, maybe you should go up to him in a public place like during lunch while he's with his friends and take some of your friends so you could feel more comfortable. And as for the other guy just tell him the truth in a settle way so that he won't feel that bad besides, I'm sure he'll understand and respect your decision.
2007-02-04 10:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling the truth usually works. Offer to remain friends, though.
2007-02-04 18:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lIf your statements are honest, which pl make sure and tell the truth
to your guy whom u are not interested and the guy whom u are interested.
2007-02-04 18:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Chandrasekaran S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a similar situation and i wrote a note notes always help
2007-02-04 18:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by mzaquarius08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here say this" listen____ i still want to be friends and all but i just think that we should see other people.
2007-02-04 18:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by that person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋