Okay...there is this guy that im talking to at collage...he has kids but says that he has nothing to do with there mom... he only wants to b apart of his kids life but see...he doesnt have a way for me to get a hold of him but he will call me sometimes .
I believe he doesnt lie to me...i havent caught him in any!!!
But the only time we do talk is if its at school or he'll call on the weekend to chill...sometimes.
He tells me that he is gonna try to make things work but i know that if that happens then i know i'll be wondering at times ...where he is at or what he is doing...and i wont know...should i let things go n jus let them happen or should i stop things now???*3
Keep in mind i really care for him but i dont want to get hurt n the end*3
2007-02-04 10:31:52 · 4 answers · asked by BabyCakes*3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sound like he is hiding some important information from you, and that he could very well still be having a relationship with his kids mothers as well beyond the arrangement he is telling you, have you ever been to his place to residence, has he ever said that you couldnt call him or not to call him back if he calls you first, these are some questions you should be asking yourself to know if he is hiding something from you.....
2007-02-08 03:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear. Find yourself a single man w/out any problems. If your having doubts, there is something wrong. Your heart is taking over. Be strong lay down your feelings and if he can't consider them, then the relationship is not a good one. You'll just embarress yourself later. (Or you could follow him the next time and find out what he is doing.) But know just from what you have typed here. It's not a story to tell your children. You want someone who is going to sweep you off your feet. NOT worry you to the point your waisting your time and energy. Your children will want to hear a fairy tale. Wouldn't you want to share that?
2007-02-04 18:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're of college age, and this guy has kids already he already doesn't sound like a good deal.
It is normal that someone wants to remain a part of his children's lives, but it is peculiar that you seem to have them "Don't-call-me-I'll-call-you" arrangement.
I think the "red flags" that made you ask this question are telling you something, so if nothing else proceed with caution.
2007-02-04 18:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have trust now you won't in the future
2007-02-04 18:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by wyldmntgyrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋