I go to conformation on Wednesday nights, and someone that goes there, she's not my friend at all, in fact, I really can't stand her, but she's been talking a lot about how she and her boyfriend "do stuff" and she's contemplating having sex. I don't want to see her get hurt like that. As much as I really don't like her, I can't bear to see her make that mistake. I don't know what to do... This boyfriend of hers has made her cry on more than one occassion and they've only been dating for about 3 weeks... He's a jerk and I know it. He tells her he loves her and she believes him. I know all of this because she confided in me week before last about all this crap he was doing (seeing his ex, etc..), and then now last week she was saying how she and him were "doing stuff"... Not sex, but they almost did... I just don't know what to say to her.. I'm scared for her. I don't want her to make this mistake... And I don't know what to do...Please, any advice on what I could say to her..etc. Thkx
2007-02-04 10:19:37 · 12 answers · asked by Kiara 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
3 weeks is "giving it away" That boy can get what he wants from her and dump her leaving her with a baby, a STD, a broken heart, or a ruined life. Shes 15, having sex isn't what relationships are about.She can't rush to have sex, for the worst will happen to her. If you ever heard the song S.E.X by Lyfe Jennings, you'll understand
2007-02-04 10:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow 3 weeks and already sex? tell her to give it time and if she feels the same way about him in a month or 2 then do it. if the guy is what you say she wont be with him much longer and then you wont have to worry about her having sex with him
2007-02-04 10:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by cowboys 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is try to talk some sense into her and hope she listens to your advice. If she doesn't, there's nothing more you can do. She will have to make her own mistakes and learn for herself.
2007-02-04 10:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Xfactor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHES GONNA DO WHATEVER SHES GONNA IF SHE ASKS U THEN U CAN TELL HER U DONT THINK ITS A GOOD IDEA FROM UR POINT OF U BUT IN THE END ITS ALLLL HER DECISION, U DONT NEED TO WASTE UR TIME WITH GIRLS LIKE THAT ANYWAYS U SAID URSELF U CANT STAND HER JUST STAY AWAY UNLESSASKED
2007-02-04 10:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by shannonlee05@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel this strongly about, then she should know that she has a REALLY good friend who cares a lot about her well-being and her future. i think you should tell her. if she still goes through with it then you should be okay with yourself. you know why? because you tried to warn her. do not feel bad or anything. i mean it was her choice if and only if she goes through with it.
2007-02-04 10:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by CHI U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you are concerned about her and that you just don't want to see things go badly for her. Be honest and let the words come from your heart.
2007-02-04 10:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by I'm here for now 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people need to make up ther own minds u can only help buy staying out of it but ur very nice person for caring
2007-02-04 10:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by bigbreastedbitch1979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is not much you can do about stopping her, just teach her to be safe if she does. Let her know what is out there, that she would not want to catch.
2007-02-08 08:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by Stac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat the s**t out of her. What the hell is a 15 year old doing having sex.
2007-02-04 10:24:26 · answer #9 · answered by kirr45 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Mind your own businesses,she won't like to see you up on hwer businesses like that,sorry
2007-02-04 10:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋