I go to conformation on Wednesday nights, and someone that goes there, she's not my friend at all, in fact, I really can't stand her, but she's been talking a lot about how she and her boyfriend "do stuff" and she's contemplating having sex. I don't want to see her get hurt like that. As much as I really don't like her, I can't bear to see her make that mistake. I don't know what to do... This boyfriend of hers has made her cry on more than one occassion and they've only been dating for about 3 weeks... He's a jerk and I know it. He tells her he loves her and she believes him. I know all of this because she confided in me week before last about all this crap he was doing (seeing his ex, etc..), and then now last week she was saying how she and him were "doing stuff"... Not sex, but they almost did... I just don't know what to say to her.. I'm scared for her. I don't want her to make this mistake... And I don't know what to do...Please, any advice on what I could say to her..etc. Thkx
2007-02-04 10:19:21 · 5 answers · asked by Kiara 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her. Invite her out for lunch to talk, communication is the key to a good friendship. Get to know her a little, and, like magic, she'll open up to you. Spill everything about her feelings on him. You're obviously Christian, and you care, and she's Christian too, I'm assuming. Tell her that God loves her and will help her through this tough time. She might be fibbing about believing when he says '"I love you" to her because maybe she is scared. Like my math teacher says , "If you think someone could use a friend, be one."
Good luck! I hope this helps!
~Jilly Rae
2007-02-04 10:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by j♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a book that shows pictures of vaniral disease's In my health class in 10th grade we viewed that stuff and it made me not want to have sex. explain to her that if he is cheating on her this is what could happen. I know it is drastic but it may work. I also thing you should tell her parents mayb even then they could sit her down and discuss the situation with her. good luck
2007-02-04 10:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell you the truth there is no way you can really stop that from happening if they want to. However if you make up some kind of scary tactic that might work.
2007-02-04 10:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow 3 weeks and already sex? tell her to grant it time and if she feels an similar way about him in a month or 2 then do it. if the guy is what you assert she wont be with him a lot longer and then you wont ought to fret about her having sex with him
2016-11-25 01:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by wehrly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the baby's parents about it all
she needs to sit in the corner with a "dunce" hat on
2007-02-04 10:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋