Basically I have had a fight with one of my friends recently and I tried to apologise but he just starting putting me down and saying that I am reclusive.
Having thought it over, I now realise that he is right and I would like to know what to do to improve myself?
2007-02-04 10:30:32 · 6 answers · asked by waresmyheadat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are there any things that you are interested in doing?
Maybe you can get that friend on the phone and make some kind of an agreement to do something this week. Or another person that you like and trust. There are people who are afraid to go out of their houses. If what is going on with you is not that serious, just try to schedule something with someone and follow through, do it.If you are housebound by fears or something, I would suggest some counseling.
On the other hand,sometimes it is nice to be reclusive and do what you want to do at home, not being harassed by a boss or a teacher or a spouse or gf/bf..... as long as you are able to go out when you really want to.
2007-02-04 10:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by plaplant8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out more, socialize. Mix it up, participate and have fun.
On the other hand... I'm a bit reclusive and I need to have a certain amount of time to recharge. You can fiddle with the knobs but the basic program remains the same. You don't have to try to be a social butterfly if you are not wired that way.
2007-02-04 18:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by AK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take baby steps in being social. Go out for a little one night on the weekend. Then the next weekend for a little more. Also, know that you are someone who's worth getting to know. Make a list of all of your wonderful qualities. Share yourself with others.
God Bless!!
2007-02-04 18:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by j b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being alone is not always a bad thing! If you feel you need to "get outside yourself" at times, maybe try volunteering. Someone out there needs a friend.
2014-04-14 23:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by michelleinwa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your reclusive how is it you have a friend? Just be happy with yourself.
2007-02-04 18:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by tom2day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple
2007-02-04 18:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by Josipa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋