AM I too picky? I have met nice guys but no one that i feel i click with physically. I'm sick of shopping at BAD Boys R Us just because im most physically attracted to that type for some reason. I want a great guy. But i need to find him attractive...and im not shallow...i dont need a perfect 10 ..just that something about a person that draws you. What can I do?
2007-02-04 10:26:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep going to places where you can meet people. Either BBQs at friend's houses, the gym, take a class. Even shop online for guys! Just keep meeting people and be open to new people. You'll eventually find someone that is a good fit.
2007-02-04 10:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by Keep It Sane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blame it on pheromones! I swear the bad ones give off too much testosterone or something, making them irresistable. I always want to play with the ones who break my heart.
I think I have the same syndrome as you.......the ones that are no good for me are the ones that make me weak at the knees, and the ones that nice, reliable, gentle and kind never seem to win me over.
In answer to your first point - I don't think you are too picky. And definately not being shallow by wanting to find them attractive (by attractive I'm sure you mean attractive to you and what is attractive to you is prob not all the stereotyped stuff that ends up in magazines - we all like different things and dislike different things)
2007-02-07 05:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by lostmesheep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, try first to find a guy you click with mentally. u know, you have alot in common with. then let the relationship build a while and see if you become phisically attracted to them. maybe your not physically attracted to any one because you aren't giving them a long enough chance.
2007-02-04 18:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right person will come eventually, and i'm told you'll know this when it happens. You don't have to be specifically looking to find that special someone... you might meet someone you really click with when you're out just doing your usual routine.
2007-02-04 18:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Someguy234 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel the same as you. I have this guy that likes me but he's to scared to approach me, and I think he's cute, now if he was ugly he would be in my face asking me could he call. I know how you're feeling. It seems like all of the cute guys don't look your way or too scared to approach.
2007-02-04 18:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by dreamee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take a nice guy. If they don't look good enough for you, endure the behavior of bad boys and quit complaining.
2007-02-04 18:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking and just go out and have fun. You are more likely to find the right person when you aren't trying to.
2007-02-04 18:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by homer28b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the right person comes around
2007-02-04 18:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and not in a rush. You know what you want, and that rocks for many people have no idea what they want. Good luck kiddo - you'll find him...:)>
2007-02-04 18:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to ride motorcycles. That might help.
2007-02-04 18:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋