Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

He has left me and the kids 2x, only to ask to return home both times. I said yes both times because of the kids. He left because he isn't in love with me anymore but still loves me. He isn't having an affair. Each time he then shows me no interest and refuses to be intimate with me (won't even hug me). What should I do? How much would you take? Remember, there are 2 children involved.....

2007-02-04 13:11:41 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been w/ my boyfriend now 7 1/2 yrs. He has somewhat strung me along, gave me a ring about 3 yrs ago, but never officially proposed. This in return has caused strain on the relationship & plays cat & mouse w/me. He manipulates me w/verbal abuse & when he gets upset doesn't say he loves me. We've been very rocky past 6 mos and I know I deserve better, to be loved & told I'm loved. He is very hard to talk to, gets defensive easily and always turns anything as my fault..He's never apologized once in our relationship, it's always me asking forgiveness & giving into to everything. I've learned that is what verbal abusive entails...just started realizing this in the past year. Anyhow, I can't physically & emotinally stay in this.. How do I talk to him or write a letter I can read to him (because he intimidates me when I talk to him) to let him know I love him, but I need to move on but want his friendship (is it possible, I hope). I really don't want it to end, I do love him.

2007-02-04 13:10:47 · 17 answers · asked by SMILEYGIRL 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend does not want me to come with him and his family to celbrate his birthday but he says that if I want to do something for him to do it on the weekend. I have spent time with his whole family before and the holidays too. Why would he not invite me to share in his birthday?....(dating almost a year)

2007-02-04 13:10:34 · 22 answers · asked by EVADIVA 1 in Singles & Dating

i wanted to know if it is right if he buys me and him one???

2007-02-04 13:10:14 · 5 answers · asked by lovinlifeandhim7 1 in Singles & Dating

he's 4.0 student and in middle school band just like me and he wants to go out with me and i told him that i wanted to also, but something is holding him back.his parents' are perfectionists and he gets ground for stupid stuff like getting a B on a test. could it be his parents, or does he just want to stay friends?can i make him rebel?

2007-02-04 13:09:21 · 1 answers · asked by ar14m30nly 2 in Friends

I have know this guy for years. We decided to started dating and formed a really good relationship.We have been together for 10 months.

In Nov. he got laid off from him dream job due to downsizing and now he is depressed. So depressed that he doesn't eat or sleep properly. I try to be supportive as possible. but i am a single mom and don't have much to give . After a long day at the office, dealing with my five year old. I often need some TLC myself. he is so down and out he is running on empty.
he is the best guy I ever met. respectful, supportive, helpful, disciplined etc...
but he refuses to take just any job and is working on building up his own business and while it is slow he is doing quite well. (meanwhile the bills are piling up and he is facing eviction.)

How long do I stick around? I genuinley believe he cares for me as much as I do him but his depression and the lack of attention has me wanting to bail. How long do i stick around? I need love too!


Please advise

2007-02-04 13:09:14 · 22 answers · asked by Miss Brookyn 4 in Singles & Dating

i like these two guys
they are both hot...
and they both asked me out today...
they are friends soo im afraid if i go out wit one of them the other will get mad. one goes to my school and is in my class the other is hotter but he doent go to my school. the one that goes to my school is in 7th grade the one that doesnt is in 8th. which one do i choose???

2007-02-04 13:08:55 · 12 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wanted to know

2007-02-04 13:07:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why are Americans more friendly with dark asians (oriental) then they are with dark hispanics?

2007-02-04 13:07:01 · 4 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 13:07:00 · 5 answers · asked by solo 1 in Friends

Specifics please.

2007-02-04 13:06:16 · 11 answers · asked by Inamra 1 in Singles & Dating

I do not want to look like a stalker you know or really weird creep guy. Because I am not lol. I want the right approach. I am a very shy guy. What are the right moves? How should I go about this to get her interest?

Thanks.

2007-02-04 13:05:16 · 9 answers · asked by Hariko T 1 in Singles & Dating

doesnt want me to waste money on flowers or candy

2007-02-04 13:05:14 · 10 answers · asked by havokfighter 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 13:04:34 · 5 answers · asked by love2read141 2 in Family

when we were first friends I promised him that i would download songs on his psp ever since that when we do are secret hand shake he always says download.and when his other friend says why are you hangin out with jorge he says no im not.

2007-02-04 13:03:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok i also liked this guy last year and he didn't give me the time of day but this year he does but he is moving so how can i tell if he likes me and should i even try to make him fall for me or should i forget him

2007-02-04 13:03:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thinking of sleeping together?

I do have female friends, but i do think of sleeping with everyone of them. Fantasies are great.

2007-02-04 13:03:02 · 23 answers · asked by scott in minnesota 3 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my best friends has a boyfriend who is a real assh***. She knows he cheats and everything. How can I steal her away from him?

2007-02-04 13:01:27 · 18 answers · asked by malcom1000 2 in Singles & Dating

i recently found out that my boyfriend has been cheating in me. he hasn't called me for 2 weeks and i have this chicks phone number. she doesn't know about me. so anyhoo, on valentines day i want to text her a message where im cussing him out and saying all the freaky things that we have done together. of course he's gonna have no idea and be shocked to even know that i know this girls number. i asked him b4 and he keeps lying, so basically he'll be caught in a lie. any suggestions on what i should or shouldn't do?TIA

2007-02-04 13:01:14 · 22 answers · asked by happy t 1 in Singles & Dating

and I need her to email to reach me. I havent heard from her for quite some time. She went to high school with me in Cedar Rapids,Iowa & I knew her before that. Please have her email me, it would really be great getting back in touch with me! My name is Matt Spellman & my email addy is: matthew7074@yahoo.com

2007-02-04 13:01:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

been together for 6 years now. she said no flowers or candy-she would rather me give her the money than to waste it.

2007-02-04 13:00:40 · 12 answers · asked by havokfighter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wanted to know

2007-02-04 13:00:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well .. this summer i met this really nice guy & i still tlk to him &we really like each other but we live almost 800miles away from each other , but we are goin to see each other in like 2 more years ... or maybe this summer we aren't sure ... i talk to him everyday , but i never get to tlk to him on the phone but i do sometimes .......should i just get over him or what ?????

2007-02-04 13:00:38 · 17 answers · asked by americanngirl328 2 in Singles & Dating

we expect more from bahu(daughter in law) totake care of husbend ,mother n father in law,brother nsister in law,but do all of them respect n little careing about her?

2007-02-04 12:59:50 · 6 answers · asked by dr.raju a 1 in Family

i hate the smell and being around her when she does it. + its bad for her! what can i do to convince her to stop without seeming like an overbearing *****? i found an article in Seventeen about how you gain weight & various other things and thought about ripping it out and giving it to her... but I just know I'd feel like a little ***** ughh

2007-02-04 12:59:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to do it up right this year. I'm pretty excited about turning 40, unlike most women, and I really want to celebrate. I've been raising my three daughters for the past 24yrs. and now that my baby will be turning 18, I want to begin celebrating a new chapter in my life. A chapter that is not totally consumed with children. I love being a mom, but I was 16 when I became one. So I put my life on hold to raise 3 beautiful women. My oldest lives with her boyfriend and will be getting married in June. My middle, is going to school to become a nurse, and my baby will be going to Northwestern in the fall. She wants to be a Pediatrician. So I want to party like it's 1999!!!
I live in Chicago, and I don't have a whole lot of money, but I'm open to just about anything.

2007-02-04 12:59:20 · 3 answers · asked by sleepingbeauty123 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

he likes me and i like him but he has a girl and his told me he likes me 5 times

2007-02-04 12:58:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a guy and a lot of people say im pretty. like when they describe what they think of me pretty is often used. never called handsome or whatever else. very good looking is the only other one used on occasion. i dont have much luck with girls as all my relationships are over in a few months. i guess i do pay attention to my appearance a lot and like to look good but im wondering if it may be hurting me. like maybe girls dont like guys that are pretty. its really making me kinda angry and confused. anyone have advice.

2007-02-04 12:58:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my freinds saw my boyfriend kissing another girl and i asked him and he said no that he kissed her in the chick and that he sweared to his family. but in his family everyone says that true what he is saying but my friends also sweared to god and cried with me. what should i do and who should i believe.

2007-02-04 12:56:53 · 21 answers · asked by Nashali D 1 in Friends

i'm 28 and she keeps coming on to me like mad
would it damage me and my relationship with my mum if i slept with her .
after all we are all adults
and she needs seeing too

2007-02-04 12:56:22 · 15 answers · asked by diligaf w 1 in Singles & Dating