cheating boyfriend revenge?

Question

i recently found out that my boyfriend has been cheating in me. he hasn't called me for 2 weeks and i have this chicks phone number. she doesn't know about me. so anyhoo, on valentines day i want to text her a message where im cussing him out and saying all the freaky things that we have done together. of course he's gonna have no idea and be shocked to even know that i know this girls number. i asked him b4 and he keeps lying, so basically he'll be caught in a lie. any suggestions on what i should or shouldn't do?TIA

Answer 1

sounds like its not worth the effort. you should just move on with your life. he's a jerk and will get whats comin to him.

Answer 2

Even though you hate this girl, and you're probably going to be pissed off for a long time, forget about her and your boyfriend. Cheating is so much more than breaking a promise and lying. There are so many health dangers associated with sex, and you have no idea where this other girl has been. If you stay with this guy I am sure that he'll cheat again (if he hasn't already), and he could give you an incurable disease. Just text him and tell him you don't want him, and text her and tell her to get a pelvic exam. Then move on and find someone who loves you. Good luck.

Answer 3

I hate to sound AL peace and love, but breath. There is a song by Carrie Underwood called before He cheats. It is on her Some Hearts Cd. Listen to that a few times and dance. Get the lyrics and scream them out. Trust me u will feel better. Go on to Yahoo music and watch the music video. Then think of the worst things you could do to him. write them down have a field day. Go as evil as you want. You need to get it out of your system. OH and i think you should call the girl. She is probably clueless. She most likely has no idea about you. She deserves to know that he is a Cheating rat. Good luck

PS Don't actually do the evil things you write down, don't text her call her tomorrow morning, and remember he isn't worth you going to any extra trouble

Answer 4

First and foremost, revenge is nothing but an evil act. I understand that you are hurt, but after you do take revenge, it will not make you feel any better about yourself, neither will the pain of the betrayal go away. Unforgiveness only hurts the person who does not want to forgive. Let him be - his own actions will get him. Be careful what you sow because you will also reap what you sow. I do not understand your need for also going out of your way to also hurt this girl in the process when she has no idea that she is being lied to. I would recommend that you do not take any revenge - although revenge seems justifiable in your mind and emotions right now. I guarantee that if you do go out of your way to hurt him and the other girl - you will only hurt yourself in the end and it may come back to bite you in the butt. Although it is hard, forgive him and let him go - He was not worthy of you in the first place and thank God you figured it out now instead of ten years later.

Answer 5

I think it's not a good thing at all. Revenge won't do anything good. First, revenge won't make your boyfriend come back to you. Second, revenge only generates hate... why don't you just try ti forget him... There are so many men out there who's much better than him. I mean, time will come that you'll find someone better... revenge won't help you at all, it will only make things worse. Just forget him and forgive. You'll feel better that way. Good luck and take care....

Answer 6

Actually the coward has moved on without bothering to mention it to you.
yeah...just do yourself a favor and forget about him
the best revenge you can get is to be seen having fun!
so go have some and leave him to his own garbage.
Any woman being seen with him from now on is going to be trash,too.Do you want to be her?

Answer 7

if the girl doesn't know about you, why would you even consider doing something so foolish. Its him you need to address, not her. Leave her alone. She hasn't done anything wrong. why do you girls always take it out on a innocent party. go after the guilty one.

Answer 8

You should have a big strong guy around to protect you if he says he wants to keep you after you have broken up. On the cheaters show I always see the guys trying to kiss or hug the girls after they break up.

Answer 9

Your focus shouldn't really be on her....she's just some chick. Your focus should be on him. Do some snooping and find out where they're going to be and go there with his parents, saying it was his idea to go out on a double date. Be super surprised when they see him. Then excuse yourself and drive to a bar.

Answer 10

I dont know how old you are hun but I have been looking for a girlfriend for awhile .......obviously there are more fish out there get on with life he isnt worth it. You are a much better person than he is obviously. Hope you make the right decition.

Answer 11

i would just send her a simple email saying he cheated on you (maybe she didn't know he was with you) wish them luck....and leave it at that. i would never contact him or her again and just walk away.

just make sure if you see him again, you look dam good girl! be prepared to run into him sometime and just smile and wiggle your behind as you confidently walk away - hopefully on the arm of a great guy who won't cheat.