my freinds saw my boyfriend kissing another girl and i asked him and he said no that he kissed her in the chick and that he sweared to his family. but in his family everyone says that true what he is saying but my friends also sweared to god and cried with me. what should i do and who should i believe.
2007-02-04 12:56:53 · 21 answers · asked by Nashali D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your boyfriend is cheating on you.
2007-02-04 12:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Aumatra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Think about if anything like this has happened in the past. Who was telling the truth? Are the friends you're talking about rotten ones? And your boyfriend a saint? Use prior experience.
If it were me, I would believe my friends. These girls odviously care about you. Crying with you? I doubt they are lying. Besides, why would your friends lie about this anyway? All I know is that a boyfriend would.
Guys are assholes. Even if you think you know this guy, he may be lying. Sometimes they just can't help it- even if he's a good guy. He may have gotten carried away, and likes you so he's lying to save the relationship. Or maybe he just doesn't give a **** about you.
I would believe my friends.
2007-02-04 13:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok girl this is a bad situation but I’m going to let you into a secret of dating..... IF THESE girls are your TRUE FRIENDS.. and when i say true i mean they aren't know for back stabbing other girls, they have always done the right thing... etc. then believe them!!!! guys will lie and they will promise or swear on anything to get away with sh* t so not be a stupid girl.. get rid of him .... you are way to amazing of person and sound like you have a really good heart to let some lil boy like that ruin your own experiences with relationships!! you can't always believe a guy.. never put a guy before you girls... trust me!
2007-02-04 13:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Emmie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im telling you from experience, believe your friends. Why was he kissing this chick at all? Kick him to the curb, and move on. Life is short don't settle with a cheat. Have fun....
2007-02-04 13:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by lady_godiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well darl i think you should trust in your friends, they have been with you through all kinda of **** and they wouldnt just say this without it being the truth your boyfriend is your boyfriend and they never last long, but friends my dear will last forever so listen to your friends cause they know best.
2007-02-04 13:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by innocentkitty2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your friends story under the light and pick it apart to find out if they are telling the truth or not.
Why was you boyfriend kissing another girl on the check?
2007-02-04 12:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW...=o....that is a really tough situation....i would say....believe yer bf....until he gives yew reason not to...i think he has given yew plenty of reason....maybe yew should meet the girl he "kissed" and it might bring some closure...and if he doesnt want yew to meet her...then yew should listen to yer friend...good luck=]
2007-02-04 13:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should believe your friends because their not trying to sabotage you. They want whats best for you. Sometimes family lies or is being lied to so belive your friends. Your friends cried with you didn't they? They wouldn't want to see you sad on porpuse.
2007-02-04 13:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by R3DF1R3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why was he kissin a girl cheek or not cheek anyways? unless its family i dont see the point..if youve only been with him a few days/few weeks.. theres not point to go any further.. if its a few years then i would try to talk things out.. and friends arnt always honest either..
2007-02-04 13:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by misshotcakes2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should believe what your heart tells you to believe. been in the same situation and i made the wrong choice because people told me to believe something because its the right thing to do but after i learned to believe what my heart told me i actually made the right decision and it was proven
2007-02-04 13:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your judgement. Ask the girl if possible. and if you dont trust him then hes not the one for you. but if hes lying one way or another you will find out. trust me itll happen.
2007-02-04 13:00:30 · answer #11 · answered by Justin B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋