ok well .. this summer i met this really nice guy & i still tlk to him &we really like each other but we live almost 800miles away from each other , but we are goin to see each other in like 2 more years ... or maybe this summer we aren't sure ... i talk to him everyday , but i never get to tlk to him on the phone but i do sometimes .......should i just get over him or what ?????
2007-02-04 13:00:38 · 17 answers · asked by americanngirl328 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get over it. long term relationships dont work. let him go, if he comes back its meant to be.
2007-02-04 13:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by jp4smiles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you find someone in your own town? It nice that you have a friend out of town, but most likely It will not turn into anything other then friendship. 800 miles is a very long distance to be traveling and one can only do this at most twice a year. It would be better to make a new friend closer
2007-02-04 13:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay I know exactly how u feel... my best guy friend lives in IA and I live 3 states away from him.... and we really like each other and we cant see each other all the time like we would wanna... but we talk everyday... all I can say is dont give up.. it God made it meant to be for u two... then it will happen in his timing... so have fun relax.. and enjoy all that fliring and stuff... u never know where it couldlead u two.. maybe seeing each other sooner..lol ;)
sry if u dont like it..
2007-02-04 13:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by off_road_chick_9219 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were 200miles away id say go for it but 8000 miles is crazy. Im sure your an attractive gal and pretty smart too , my advise try to find a man a little closer..... good luck hun
2007-02-04 13:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by pekoka2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey yu shouldnt have 2 wait that long 2 see him again...you'll end up wastin yur precious time without gettin 2 be with any other boyz...so i think that it's better to just get over him...u gotta have some fun in ur life gurl...so go find smbdy else whos NOT far away from yu
2007-02-04 13:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a committment hun..you have to remember that with such a relationship there will be times when the two of you may not get to talk for several days cuz one of you is busy or something..it also depends on how much you're willing to committ to for that guy and if he's willing to do the same for you
2007-02-04 13:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by Tidus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say sweetie but yes u need to forget about him..two years??!..that is a loooooong time..and long distance relationships NEVER work out..find someone local that is just as great as he is..
2007-02-04 13:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not going to see him for a half a year or even 2 years. Don't bother getting into a pre-teen relationship...
2007-02-04 13:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by John G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
800 miles is a LONG way!!
I would just try hard to get over him.. I've kinda been in the same situation before, and it only makes it hard on yourself...
I hope things work out for you though.
2007-02-04 13:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly ,speaking, forget him and move on. date some one living within 10 mile radius. . Only %5 long distance relationships wprk.
2007-02-04 13:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him! Find someone closer to you. Why put yourself though this. It's not like he's the only guy in the world.
2007-02-04 13:05:08 · answer #11 · answered by The darkside of skittles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋